How important is a sense of humor to a person?

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Aristotle’s wife had a fierce temperament. During a quarrel, her wife was so angry that she poured a basin of water down from upstairs and poured it all over his body. He laughed: "I knew that after the thunder, there would be heavy rain." In moments when the relationship between the sexes is full of attacks, humor resolves embarrassment, tolerates conflicts, and wins a more kind-hearted living space for oneself and others.

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In the middle of a speech, British Prime Minister Wilson encountered dissidents shouting: "Shit! Trash!" The whole place was in a commotion. Although he was disturbed, Wilson was quick to respond and said calmly: "Sir, please be patient. I will talk about the environmental issues you raised soon." Everyone applauded. In such critical occasions, humor has become a magic weapon to turn corruption into magic, turn small conflicts into big situations, and then reverse the situation and win people's hearts.

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I once read a report that during the "9·11" incident, a firefighter rescued a man on the 90th floor of the World Trade Center, and then the two escaped together. But the floor was too high, and they were exhausted from running. The building is collapsing, electrical fires are flowing, thick smoke is billowing, and heavy objects are falling. The two people's lives are in danger at any time. At this time, the man ran and handed the firefighter a business card: "Dear, if we can't escape and get to heaven, we must keep in touch." At this edge of life and death, humor has become a way to laugh at the crisis and downplay fear. A wonderful move, and in this kind of words, a person's calmness, optimism and open-mindedness jump out and appear before our eyes.

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Fun will not only resolve troubles, but also enhance emotions. Not long ago, a girlfriend who was single and waiting to get married said: I have money; love is hard to distinguish; in the final analysis, only fun is a good criterion for choosing a mate. Her words seemed to many to be too pragmatic. But, according to positive psychology, there is a scientific basis for this.

McCarty mentioned: "Women always try their best to find something that can prove that a man is smart, and I believe that a man who responds positively to the surrounding situation, can joke, and makes you laugh and laugh, All have great wisdom. "Anthropologist Helen Fisher said: "Interesting people can relieve the burden of bad situations, thereby reducing people's stress reactions and getting through difficulties in relationships. " Therefore, fun will bring positive value to survival, and will also make the relationship between the sexes more harmonious, healthy, and happy.

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A psychologist faced his adult daughter and wrote a long letter to her. The letter said: If possible, try not to find boring people. Because boring means closedness, numbness, poverty, and lack of life energy. The brilliance is gone, and what is left is just old, pale and rigid. The fun and excitement disappeared, and some were just bland and lifeless. There are no surprises; there are no surprises. Life is like a straight line with an unobstructed view. If you look back, you will see the rest of your life is gray and straight. Looking forward, the past is like instant noodles and vegetables that have been dried out by the sun. All the flowing plots have died prematurely. If it is boring, the mind will be closed and the energy flow will be slow. If you have fun, your heart will open up and you will gain more possibilities.

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Feng Gong’s mother was a smart lady. She once said in an interview: It would be better to leave him a sense of humor than to leave him a fortune. Humor is truly inexhaustible wealth. Because it will truly bless your life. And Feng Gong proved this with his glory, fun and popularity. I believe that if one day he no longer appears in front of the audience, humor will still give his life fun, beauty and richness, making it meaningful and worth living well.

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Humor is of course important, but you need to understand clearly: humor does not mean funny, interesting does not mean cunning, witty does not mean uneducated, and fun does not mean sensational.

Real interest encompasses so many things, such as wisdom, tolerance, and desire for knowledge. As Shakespeare said: Humor and wit are flashes of wisdom. If a person is empty-headed, ignores his own ignorance, poverty, and numbness, pursues fun superficially, uses various jokes, and imposes various models, he will appear shallow and oily.

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I once knew someone who was considered interesting in a small circle. During the dinner, he was drinking with a woman and said: "I don't drink without flowers, and I don't go upstairs without a moon." At the end of the meal, he touched his round belly and said: A man who has the ability will make other people's belly bigger; I don't have the ability, so I can only make my own belly bigger.

The crowd was in awe. Most of the women present would find him humorous. But I heard people say that he always said these two sentences in every situation and repeated them verbatim, which suddenly made him feel extremely boring. Fun is not a joke, not a laugh, not a routine. But the agility of life, the brightness of spirit, and the depth of soul.

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Mr. Huang Yongyu is an elder I like very much. There are many misfortunes in life, but there are also many achievements. When I first knew him, I only knew that he was a painter. Later, when I saw his writings, I was surprised by his wisdom and aura. At that time I thought: This person must be very interesting. Sure enough. There was a long post last year about him, saying that he was a 90-year-old joker who instantly defeated all the current internet celebrities. His witty remarks are countless, all of which make people laugh. Xiao Qian described it this way: "What floats among his rough lines is childishness, joy and unrestrainedness."

He is like an eternal urchin, always retaining a strong desire for knowledge, and his face is full of enthusiasm. Facing the mediocre life, you always have to get closer and shout: Hey - and the fun in the winding path will suddenly appear, and you will have a tacit and tacit understanding of the silly joy. Hee hee hee... Hahaha...

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Huang Yongyu said: There are many fun moments in life, right? However, only "fun" people will discover the "fun" of life. If you are poor in soul, you will feel bored no matter where you are. And if you are a person who is passionate about life, then everything in the world will be dark and bright for you.

Just like Huang Yongyu, although he is nearly ninety years old, he still lives happily. Just like Wang Xiaobo, although he has experienced all kinds of absurdity and paleness, he is still full of interest. Just like you and those real young people, even though they are living in today's fucked up world, they still work hard to make their lives richer and have no regrets through curiosity and thirst for knowledge.

A beautiful and talented emotional author, public account: Zhong Niannian