It is the most cruel to ignore a talent.

It's the most cruel to ignore a talent

It's the most cruel to ignore a talent. Emotion is the most important thing, two of a kind, but if two people are indifferent when they get along, wishful thinking will never bring you the feelings you want. The following understanding is that it is the most cruel to ignore a talent. It's the most cruel to ignore a talent. 1

Chen Wenwen and her husband have been married for five years. In the first three years, they were kind and loving, talking and laughing. Recently, Chen Wenwen's husband, Liu Jun, began to dislike his wife's nagging.

He hates that his wife always cooks those dishes, and asks him to take a shower and change clothes as soon as she gets home. He hates that his wife always tells him this and that, and he always says it several times. He even hates that his wife calls him every day to urge him to go home.

Sometimes, when he is out playing late with friends, Chen Wenwen always calls to urge him. He never tires of his wife's control. On this day, it was the birthday of one of his colleagues, and he played outside late with that group of friends.

when Chen Wenwen saw that Liu Jun hadn't come back at 12 o'clock, he called to ask. Liu Jun was drinking at the dinner table. When he saw that it was Chen Wenwen, he hung up.

Chen Wenwen was puzzled when she saw her husband hang up her phone, so she called again and was still hung up.

instead of calling again, she went straight back to her room and locked the door. She wondered if her husband didn't love herself anymore. Recently, she always felt that he came home late and smelled of alcohol. Every time she told him something, Liu Jun seemed to take pains. Even Liu Jun, who has cooked his own food recently, doesn't like it very much.

She didn't know what happened. She wondered if she didn't do well enough. She lay in bed alone and began to cry. In this way, I cried and fell asleep.

the next morning, when she woke up, she found that the bed was still empty. Liu Jun didn't come home all night. She got up quickly and made a phone call. Liu Jun's colleague answered, saying that Liu Jun had drunk too much last night, and they were going to send him back, but he refused to go home anyway. They had no choice but to let Liu Jun spend the night at his birthday home.

Chen Wenwen felt very sad when he hung up the phone. Why didn't Liu Jun want to go home, even when he was drunk? While wiping her tears, she felt that she should talk to Liu Jun about this problem.

In the afternoon, Liu Jun came back from the outside. She put away his clothes, gave him a clean new dress, and let Liu Jun take a good shower. After that, she stopped Liu Jun and said she wanted to talk to him.

So they sat at the dinner table. Chen Wenwen asked Liu Jun why he didn't want to come back last night. Liu Jun told all his thoughts about Liu Wenwen this year. He made all kinds of complaints and heartless remarks.

Chen Wenwen didn't say a word. She stood up and went straight to the kitchen, as if nothing had happened, and started cooking. Liu Jun suddenly froze. He didn't expect Chen Wenwen to react like this.

In the next few days, Chen Wenwen didn't nag Liu Jun again, and didn't remind him of anything when he went out to work. At first, Liu Jun felt very comfortable, and finally no one took care of himself, but gradually he began to feel uncomfortable.

He seems to have lost the feeling of his old home. He began to panic, empty and afraid. He took the initiative to find Chen Wenwen to apologize to her and bought a gift to beg. But Chen Wenwen just tidied up the house and didn't respond. After tidying up, he said, Let's get a divorce.

From this story, we can see that a woman's most heartless time is often when she ignores you, and women at this time often accumulate too much sadness and disappointment.

Women no longer have any illusions and ideas about that man. They only do their own thing, but they just need time to let it go, but that man still foolishly thinks that it is still the same.

But in fact, in that woman's heart, from the moment she started to get hurt, she was already letting go of this relationship. She stopped telling her husband, nagging and saying unnecessary words.

Because there is no need to do it again. In her heart, she is already on the way to leave. People are still here, but her heart has already given up.

Therefore, men should not always dislike their women's nagging about taking care of themselves. Only when they love you will they be willing to take care of your affairs. Otherwise, they can't live a free and easy life. Who wants to take care of that? It's the most cruel to ignore a talent. 2

It's these three kinds of psychology that ignore you. Don't stick a cold fart on your face.

Some time ago, Cheng Chao's parents arranged a blind date for him. After a short chat, Cheng Chao was particularly interested in Xiaomei, and they left their contact information.

At that time, when chatting, Xiaomei also showed great interest in Cheng Chao, so Cheng Chao thought that both of them would succeed in nine cases out of ten.

However, what makes Cheng Chao wonder is that Xiaomei has never taken the initiative to chat with him since the last meal, although she left her contact information.

Even if Cheng Chao sends a message on his own initiative, Xiaomei will ignore him most of the time, and will only reply "Uh-huh."

Actually, what Cheng Chao doesn't know is that Xiaomei doesn't like him at all. Although it is said that it is a blind date arranged by the family, Cheng Chao's' conditions are far from Xiaomei's expectations.

She wants to find a man with more money, but why does she reply to Cheng Chao once in a while? It is entirely because Xiaomei is greedy for the vanity that she admires her.

Indeed, although Xiaomei's attitude is very cold, Cheng Chao will get the wrong idea. He always thinks Xiaomei is too shy to take the initiative to talk to him.

but later, no matter how Cheng Chao asked Xiaomei out, she didn't want to. Cheng Chao was carried away by falling in love. If he observes it carefully, he will find that Xiaomei is not an introvert at all.

On the contrary, she keeps an ambiguous relationship with most members of the opposite sex, and the reason why she ignores Cheng Chao is because she clearly knows that Cheng Chao likes her, so she just takes her as a spare tire.

If we can't find a suitable partner, Xiaomei will naturally consider Chengchao.

There are many regrettable things in the world, but nothing can compare with emotional regret.

So, you must know in time that when a person ignores you, he is actually these three kinds of psychology, so stop trying.

I don't like you at all

Most people think that as long as they treat each other sincerely, they will definitely be moved and see their own goodness.

But I want to tell you that feelings are not a sale, not what you think, and you will definitely get a return.

when you get along with a person who is willing to associate with you, even if you don't take the initiative, he will keep contacting you and try to go further with you.

But if you keep trying to break through a relationship and the other person doesn't take you seriously, then you should stop, because he doesn't like you at all.

He is just greedy for your kindness to him, but he doesn't intend to pay

In fact, when most people communicate now, all they want is that you can pay completely and let him enjoy it.

This kind of person has another feature. He will especially hang on to you. On weekdays, no matter how many messages you send, it's useless. He will hardly talk to you, but when he feels that you want to give up, he will talk to you again.

remember, this kind of person should never be intimate, because he is just using you.

don't continue to pay for him, because it's useless to do more. He just squeezes you and enjoys your goodness indefinitely.

Don't think about it, he just takes you as a spare tire.

If a person ignores you at all, but he still keeps your contact information, he is indifferent to your kindness and doesn't intend to give you any response at all.

But once you give him a gift, he will accept it. Then I can tell you that this person definitely regards you as a spare tire.

Perhaps, you are deeply in love at the moment and feel that even if you are treated as a spare tire, it doesn't matter, at least you can get a little response from him.

But you have to understand that there is no place for you in his heart. No matter how much you pay, it is useless. He despises you.

if you don't want interpersonal communication, you will be able to get the other person to respond. Because, the emotional thing, most unlike buying and selling, is impossible to expect returns with paying.

so, why make yourself so humble? There are many reasons why a person ignores you, but at least you have to understand that he certainly doesn't like you, and may even despise you.

associate with someone who doesn't care about you at all. Even if you pay more, it's nothing to him. He will only be greedy for the vanity you bring him, but he won't be sincere to you, so don't stick to your cold ass again. It is the most cruel to ignore a person. 3

The best revenge for a person is not to hate him, but to ignore him.

Many girls always turn from love to hate after experiencing betrayal in their feelings, or they know that they can't get together again and have to struggle hard.

She thinks that by doing so, she can reduce her pain, but in fact, the more the pain increases, the more you hate it, which is not revenge on him, but more like revenge on yourself.

The opposite of love is not hate, but letting go, indifference and ignoring him. When you distance yourself from him, only when he is a familiar stranger can you be reborn.

But if you choose to hate him all the time and choose to retaliate against him, you will only feel happy on the surface. In fact, your revenge will not affect him, but will only make him more and more annoyed with you, and your heart may not feel so good. You are not willing to try that kind of taste when you look at the person you once loved and gradually become enemies with yourself.

Recently, when I was chasing the new edition of "Two Prides in a Family", when I saw that the palace master invited the moon, I felt that she was really hateful and pitiful. She carefully designed a game for 18 years, just to get back at the man she once loved most, so that his two children would not know each other and become enemies.

She hates Jiang Feng, that he would choose the maid beside him instead of her, and that he was so kind to him, but he betrayed her. When she hates someone especially, she will do something extreme. Every time she is in pain, she will prick her arm with a needle to wake herself up. She doesn't want such pain, but she stubbornly refuses to let go, thus sinking deeper and deeper.

When Hua Wuque grows up, she is afraid to see him again, because Hua Wuque looks so much like Jiang Feng, the person she once liked. Seeing him, she can't help but think of him and that past, which makes her even more reluctant to let go.

She stubbornly chose to hate Jiang Feng, hate Hua Wuque and even hate her own sister. The final outcome of such a paranoid person was not much better. Sure enough, after her plan failed, she chose to jump off the cliff herself.

at the end, I think this woman is actually very poor. She actually doesn't know what true love is, so she stubbornly chooses to hate it. In the end, even she doesn't know where this hate came from, where she will go, and who she retaliated against. Even she can't figure it out.

The best revenge for a person is never to hate him, but to ignore him. Your neglect makes you slowly let go and draw a line with this person from now on. When you see him again, you can greet him calmly and have no waves in your heart. This is the best revenge for him.

instead of hating him all the time, let him know that you can't let him go in your heart all the time. This is your revenge, and he will only be secretly pleased. You have always loved him deeply.

Although Zhang Ailing is a famous talented woman, she will also be deeply in love and cannot extricate herself. I think everyone knows her love with Hu Lancheng.

At that time, she loved Hu Lancheng very much. She wrote a confession of love after the photo: seeing him, she became very low, as low as the dust, but her heart was happy, and flowers blossomed out of the dust. Hu Lancheng also showed her devotion and wrote the words "May the years be quiet and the world be stable" in return.

I thought it was a vigorous love, but Hu Lancheng was not a devoted person. Soon after they got married, they fled because of the war. Hu Lancheng was not idle all the way. First, she fell in love with a beautiful young nurse, and she thought about feeling sorry for Zhang Ailing. However, human greed was hard to satisfy, and later she fell in love with a widow.

Zhang Ailing left Hu Lancheng and returned to Shanghai alone with a lost and lonely heart. She thought that she would wither, but in the last letter to Hu Lancheng, she wrote: "I have considered this decision for a long time for one and a half years. Don't come to me, even if you write, I won't read it. "

That's what she said and did. She never saw Hu Lancheng again and fell in love with a director named Sang Arc. For this reason, Hu Lancheng was very disappointed.

I admire Zhang Ailing very much. Apart from her literary attainments, she also has an attitude towards feelings. I can afford to let go. I will love you very much when I love you, but I will let go when I don't love you, and I won't let you bother me again.

If she keeps thinking about Hu Lancheng's betrayal and is unwilling to let it go, then maybe she won't meet the love behind.

I always thought that if I don't love, I have to hate. Only in this way can I get the best revenge on him. Slowly, I found that the other side of love is definitely not just hate. Just ignore him and live a good life is the best revenge on a person.

Maybe his betrayal and injury have brought you a painful time, maybe your feelings have not been rewarded as they should, but from now on, you can win better love by letting go of the past and starting over.

And if you don't let go and choose to hate if you don't love, your heart will always be tied to this relationship and you can't get rid of it. In the end, maybe the other person has a new relationship and a new life, but you still stay where you are, which just makes him see a joke.

If you don't love, part. Don't use hate to solve the problem. In fact, hate can't solve the problem, it will only increase your troubles. Why bother? Whoever leaves the world will turn around. Don't treat love as a big thing.

If he insists on leaving, you don't have to stay. If you are hurt, you don't have to hold a grudge. Let go of the past and relax, and you will meet better people and have better love.