In married life, what situations must be zero-tolerated?

Chinese culture advocates shame and shame. Most ordinary people measure the success or failure of their lives by the stability of their marriage. The failure of marriage is equal to the declaration of the family to create a bankrupt combination. The most important thing to bear the failure is in the second time. The marriage in China is not two people, but two people and two families. Because the marriage is broken, the marriage is broken. Face, because of public opinion, how many people live in boundless darkness throughout their lives?

I think the situation of marriage must not bear the following:

1. Domestic violence. Violence in the family Violence is mainly committed by men. After all, female violence still wins, and for such violent-prone people, we must embrace life and stay away from violence. The development of domestic violence can turn on their family environment. They often have a father who hits their mother, a grandfather who hits their grandmother, the author knows a family where the men hit my wife regularly, and then their son for more than ten years will be able to play with his mother. This poor woman was hit by her husband and was so sad! But because of traitor divorce, the last generation of women is too young!

What is a riot? Some husbands and wives quarrel, push, or make more serious actions, but this cannot be written in a strict sense, and there are at least two standards - persistence and repeatability. No regrets after you apologize but you do it again and again and that's it, it's a riot!

A few years ago, about domestic violence, Feng Yuanzheng and Mei Ting starred in a drama called "Don't Talk to Strangers". The actor was a senior intellectual and no one Trust him, but it just happened and there was no break. Violence will be psychologically addictive and do something pleasurable, pleasurable, and pleasurable, men say when they see each other, There's an inexplicable pleasure to be had while they're pedaling, and you can't even control why. What happened happened after what happened, the reason comes back to regret, so crying in pain is not an act, it is really regrettable, but when the same scene happens, it is easy to accept Wat again and accept it again. Is it terrible?

Nowadays, many girls born in the 80s and 90s are the only babies and palm pearls in the family. If you don't look at your parents, you will only listen to your parents. This happens more often than not in many families where the father is a daughter. Interferometry, various demands on the son-in-law, good feelings cannot afford this kind of chronic torture, when can we learn to let go and let the child really stand up?

2. Foolish filial piety

My mother-in-law’s character is rare in life. I still filmed a TV series, "Double Sided Tape", which was really a very dog-blood drama and I thought it would expand the family between two original and kind-hearted women, but it still had a representation that was very good The feelings of the male and the heroine, because of the mix of mother-in-law and foolish filial piety, lead to tragedy. The title of this play is also very interesting. It seems a bit masculine, we must admit that it is very painful for a man if his mother and wife are not equal, in short, it is not easy for a man if he is a selfish mother or a selfish wife Get a peaceful married life.

Have a great day's ride. When men laugh and they have passed a sentence, don't ask for the first time, but ask for the first child. They are not precious to women who are evil before marriage, they are wives. Women in the preferential market, the role of marriage, women become ostriches: "The man went out and didn't let me know.

"I was surprised to see a model of a successful woman-packing man, putting condoms in his bag, and I had a laugh, do you really love that? When you can pack a pregnancy in your bag When do you want to be a virgin? It's sad! When a man doesn't hide from you during the day, it shows that you have no place in your home, household appliances, decoration or other features. In the photo, he simply ignores that you are a human being and you need to respect a woman who needs love!

3. Drug addicts are desperate as a chronic disease. People who suffer from the disease at home will not be able to pay for it for a long time, and the disease is uncontrollable. Most people choose to stay with their loved ones. People whose pensions are polluted are like being attached to the devil, and their healthy bodies have been occupied by Satan. When your warmth and efforts cannot afford another person, what else do you have to hold on to?

To put it here, I think in 2013, I felt it in Nanjing. Now raising tears, this is a drug-attached legal family, this man was detained, 20 years old. The woman is at home with 2 children, the older child is 3 years old and the child is 1 year old, and the woman who has lost her humanity closes the door to the 2 children who are starving. This food is wasted under our eyelids every day. Children, they are starving to death in such a big city. As a mother of 2 children, I cannot accept this cruel reality for a long time. Finally, there is a special case of sexual impotence in the life of a harmonious couple. The cornerstone of a happy marriage. If there is anything in sexual function that is really the big test of marriage, the author disagrees that marriage takes the form of facial dismantling and can only be sacrificed for love and not for your face or anyone else. Sacrifice. Life is very short and respecting your heart is something everyone must learn.