The husband of a second-generation rich man started a business and went bankrupt. His wife cheated on him and he conspired with his brother-in-law and refused to raise their children. What do you thin

The husband of a second-generation rich man started a business and went bankrupt. His wife cheated on him and he conspired with his brother-in-law and refused to raise their children. What do you think?

In September 2017, Li Mei and Wang Dong divorced. Daughter Xixi is raised by her father Wang Dong, and Li Mei bears part of the expenses. However, the two parties often have quarrels due to visits to their daughter. According to Li Mei, Xixi's grandmother often found reasons not to let her take the child away, and her ex-husband Wang Dong couldn't communicate normally at all. Therefore, Li Mei was rejected many times at Wang's house because of childcare matters, and she often heard The Wang family spoke ill of themselves to their daughter.

However, in the eyes of Wang Dong and his mother, Li Mei was not a competent mother. Although they were at odds with each other, they were still calm and restrained. But no one expected that on September 7, 2018, a conflict broke out. That day was Li Mei's day to visit her children. Regardless of Mrs. Zhang's obstruction, Li Mei called her daughter from the door and left. Wang Dong drove a car and picked up his mother and immediately chased Li Mei. In the name of delivering things to their children, Wang Dong and Mrs. Zhang forced the vehicle Li Mei was riding to stop. Wang Dong met Li Mei's brother-in-law who arrived later, and the two started fighting. Although the matter was finally resolved through mediation, Li Mei said that her husband's character was questionable. After the divorce, he often slandered her and often made comments attacking her online.

Wang Dong did not shy away from posting on the Internet. She felt that there was nothing wrong with her doing so. He wanted to expose Li Mei's true face to the public. Li Dong said that everything he said online was true, and there was not a single lie. He wanted to make his wife's affairs public. If his wife did something she shouldn't have done, he would speak out. So what happened in the marriage of Li Mei and Wang Dong that made the couple so extreme?

As early as the 1980s, Wang Dong’s parents started a business. At that time, the Wang family was the largest family in the town with a million-dollar deposit. They were known locally as “Wang Million”, which made the neighbors They were all envious. Although his parents' financial conditions are good, Wang Dong is not the kind of child to rely on his parents. When he was 25 years old, he opened a pawn shop in partnership with others and made money to buy a car by himself. Later, the pawnshop business declined, and Wang Dong decided to find a job. At the end of 2010, after being introduced by a colleague, Wang Dong met Li Mei, who was working in Hangzhou, and the two soon came together. At that time, Li Mei and Wang Dong got along very well. Li Mei also used the convenience of working in a 4S store to help Wang Dong buy a Mercedes-Benz at a discounted price.

Not long after, Li Mei found out that she was pregnant, and for a while, both of them had no idea. After communicating with their parents, their parents began to urge Wang Dong and Li Mei to get married, so that they could legitimately produce offspring for the Wang family, and Wang Dong also felt that marrying a daughter-in-law like Li Mei would be a good idea. So Li Mei resigned and came to Wang Dong's house to raise her baby and take care of Wang Dong. Wang Dong said that at that time, he felt that Li Mei was quite well-behaved. She would take the initiative to do laundry and cook every day, which made Wang Dong and his family like her even more. Not long after, at the urging of their family, the two held a wedding. However, not long after the couple got married, things started happening at home.

Wang Dong’s father accidentally fell down, and there were problems in the business one after another. At that time, his father invested 1.6 million to build a factory, but it did not start work for three years. Then the factory closed down, and Wang Dong’s father also died in depression. . These things originally made Wang Dong unhappy, but Li Mei also began to make him unhappy. According to Li Dong, his wife Li Mei didn't even want to wash the sheets and quilts. She took them to the dry cleaning shop across the street and became extremely lazy in life, as if she was a completely different person.

Li Mei said that the reason why she was no longer willing to do housework was because Wang Dong broke her heart. Despite such a big incident at home, Wang Dong still plays outside every day. Even when he returns home, he never leaves his phone. He makes appointments with nearby people through social software every day and finds some women to drink tea with. But Wang Dong said that Li Mei knew about her past affairs and began to doubt herself often after getting married. Because she knew Wang Dong's past so well, Li Mei became increasingly insecure, and the two had more disputes.

One day, Wang Dong did not come home very late again, and Li Mei was very unhappy. Li Mei called Wang Dong and became alert when she heard a woman's voice on the phone. She asked Wang Dong to go home immediately. However, Wang Dong did not listen to Li Mei and continued drinking tea with his friends after dinner. This time Wang Dong completely angered Li Mei. Because she had the location of her husband's mobile phone, Li Mei followed the location information to find it. In front of her friends, Li Mei got excited and quarreled with Wang Dong. During the fight, she broke Wang Dong's watch worth 20,000 yuan. On the ground.

In Wang Dong's memory, during that time, the tempers of the two of them were getting hotter than the other. More than one watch was destroyed due to the quarrel, and about 10 high-end mobile phones were damaged by the two of them.

In order to improve his family's financial situation, Wang Dong has been investigating suitable investment projects. In 2013, at the instigation of friends, I opened a local bar. The investment in the bar was huge. In order to raise money, he sold the Mercedes-Benz he had driven for three years. In addition, he borrowed money from relatives and friends and bank loans, which amounted to about 2 million. Li Dong's bar opened. In order to support her husband, Li Mei was also busy in the bar all day long. However, before long, their hearts began to feel weak because the bar was not as popular as they imagined. After investing so much money, the bar is now deserted. In order to maintain the operation of the bar, Wang Dong and Li Mei borrowed 210,000 yuan from Li Mei's brother-in-law. At Li Mei's strong request, Wang Dong, who is not good at management, no longer participates in bar management. Li Mei will not give him a good look as long as he steps into the bar door, which makes Wang Dong feel very undignified.

Although Li Mei tried her best, the business still failed to improve. At that time, the entire family was basically maintained by her mother-in-law alone. Wang Dong was hit hard by the tight days. Wang Dong was devastated, and Li Mei felt mentally unwell. She felt that her originally stable life had been ruined by Wang Dong. Li Mei began to think that Wang Dong was like a scoundrel. Not only did he not give him the life he wanted, but he also saddled himself with debts, making him worse than a beggar. As time goes by, two people with inner emotions gradually stop communicating.

One day, Wang Dong accidentally discovered the secrets in his wife’s mobile phone. There were many text messages and videos with a man stored in his wife’s mobile phone. Wang Dong began to suspect that his wife was cheating because there was no substantive evidence. Wang Dong also Inconvenience attacks. Until one night, Li Mei didn't come home at night, which made Wang Dong completely suspicious. At the same time, Wang Dong also received a message from Li Mei's sister. His wife and other men had booked a room in a hotel, and they even had time to go in and out. Wang Dong was doubtful. In order to seek confirmation the next day, while Li Mei was resting at home, he went to the hotel to check in person. Sure enough, there was such a thing.

Humiliation and anger suddenly surged into Wang Dong's heart, and he immediately rushed home to confront Li Mei, but Li Mei refused to admit it, and the two immediately fought, and Li Mei ran away from the Li family that night. At the end of 2015, Wang Dong announced the closure of his bar. The successive changes, the bankruptcy of his own business and his wife's infidelity made Wang Dong's heart bleed. The most important thing is to make money to pay off debts. Wang Dong, who was penniless, went to Hangzhou and started an online ride-hailing service to make money. Working alone in other places made Wang Dong suffer hardships he had never experienced before. After calming down, Wang Dong began to think about the good things about his family being together, and began to forgive his wife, because at this time he had nothing and he did not want to lose it again. Home. However, Li Mei did not want to see Wang Dong again.

It wasn’t until April 2016 that the bank’s reminder notice allowed Wang Dong and Li Mei to establish contact again. The bank loan they had used to open the bar was due for repayment. Wang Dong decided to sell the only house in his family to pay off his debts. I wanted to sell the house to pay off part of the debt and buy a smaller house with the remaining money, but Li Mei's brother-in-law called and said that he must sell the house to him and promised that they could live in it forever and not just for a short period of time. If the house is demolished, you can give them money. Thinking that they could continue to live in the house and earn profits from the increase in value in the future, and their relatives would support them in this way, they agreed to Li Mei's brother-in-law. However, Li Mei's brother-in-law directly deducted past debts when paying for the house, and also paid off bank debts, leaving only more than 20,000 yuan in Wang Dong's hands. Although Wang Dong was very dissatisfied with his brother-in-law's behavior, he didn't say anything because he still lived in the house. But what happened next was beyond his imagination.

A few days later, Li Mei's brother-in-law asked to sign a rental contract with them at a rent of 8 yuan per cent. As soon as the contract was signed, Li Mei asked for a divorce from Wang Dong. Li Mei believes that Wang Dong has nothing now and can no longer be with him. This made Wang Dong feel very sudden. Li Dong thought that this was a conspiracy plan between Li Mei and her brother-in-law, so Wang Dong refused to divorce. In July 2017, Li Mei asked for divorce again, and Li Mei's brother-in-law also began to issue eviction orders, announcing that the rental contract between him and Wang Dong had expired. He had promised to stay there forever, but now he found that he was being tricked again by his wife and brother-in-law. The sad Wang Dong did not want to move out of the house, and his brother-in-law sued him. In desperation, Wang Dong had to move out of the house and divorce Li Mei. At this time, Wang Dong also felt the desolation he had never experienced before.

At this point, Wang Dong experienced everything from a rich second-generation bankrupt to his wife cheating on him, to his wife and brother-in-law conspiring to trick him, leaving him penniless and homeless. The biggest blow. Now he is no longer able to raise his daughter, and his mother is getting older. For the sake of his daughter, he wants to transfer the custody of his daughter to his wife Li Mei. But Li Mei refused to accept custody of the child and refused to raise the child. Li Mei said that not only was she not given the life she wanted, but all of this was Wang Dong's excuse as he did not want his daughter to drag them down. Wang Dong said that it's not that he doesn't want a daughter, but that he doesn't have anything now. His mother is getting older and older, and he wants her to live a more comfortable life in her later years so that her daughter can have better conditions. Finally, after mediation and complying with her daughter's wishes, Li Mei agreed to raise her daughter. Wang Dong shed tears looking at his daughter's back.

The editor's point of view is that the wrestling between husband and wife is like a rubber band. No matter who exerts force or who lets go, it is the other party who is hurt. Li Mei's approach made Wang Dong realize what is said in marriage, "Husband and wife are like birds in the same forest, they fly separately when disaster strikes." However, Wang Dong's treatment of his wife was indeed excessive. In fact, in this family, the child is most in need of help. The behavior of the two people in front of the child in the past few years has had a huge negative impact on the child. So I hope that we can treat it calmly in the face of marriage and support each other as husband and wife, so that we can have a happy family.