The teacher called the wrong name.

There is an old saying in China that "a man is as famous as his name", which usually means that if a very talented person gets a good name, then this name will help him become famous; On the contrary, if a person has done all the bad things, then the name will only make his reputation worse.

Therefore, the name is very important to a person. A good name can be a person's help, while a failed name will inevitably bring ridicule and pointing fingers to people's growth.

Yuan's father is 90 years old, and his children are in the third grade of primary school. The whole family is very attentive to their son's education, and the children are obedient and study hard, and their grades are not bad in the class.

Children like to listen to the teacher's praise. Teachers often ask students to answer questions, and the whole class will applaud if they answer correctly. Mr. Yuan's children also hope to get such an opportunity, but the teacher never calls. The child was very depressed about it and told his father about it seriously.

Mr. Yuan was very angry after listening to his son's words. He wants to know whether the teacher has any opinion of his children. So I called my teacher and asked him why he asked questions by name and never called me a child.

The teacher didn't hide this, but smiled helplessly and replied to Yuan's father: "It's not aimed at children, and I don't have any opinions. I seldom let children answer questions. The main thing is that every time I mention the child's name, the whole class will laugh! "

Father Yuan was embarrassed by the teacher's words, and he found the root of the problem. It turned out that Mr. and Mrs. Yuan named the child "Birthday (Dan)" at that time, hoping that the child would have a better life in the future. I don't want Yuan Zi's birthday to sound like an "atomic bomb". It's a joke.

At first, every time the teacher called the roll, the children in the class would joke and even take nicknames in private, calling people "atomic bombs." Mr. Yuan regretted it after knowing the reason.

Nicknames are very common. Whether children or adults, nicknames are sometimes taken, but nicknames also have positive and negative meanings in different situations. Just because adults can resist gossip doesn't mean children can resist it.

Children's self-esteem is very fragile. Some unpleasant words from classmates and friends will make children very sad, not to mention derogatory nicknames, which will hurt their self-esteem and make them feel insecure.

Even some introverted and inferior children may become more timid, unwilling to go to school and face their classmates. The psychological shadow left by nicknames may be lifelong.

Therefore, the influence of names on children lies not only in the meaning that parents think of when naming their children, but also in whether homophonic nicknames will bring trouble to children. Therefore, parents must be cautious when naming their children. The following three kinds of names are minefields, which should be avoided and not regretted in the future.

First, homophonic ambiguity.

Because the homophonic "famous stalk" has always been an enduring "joke" on the Internet. For example, some people's names are "Qin Liu Olive", so this name may sound like a virus, which is somewhat neither fish nor fowl.

If you go out with this name, if someone calls you loudly, when others' eyes are focused on you, will you have a "social death", so parents should consider it from other aspects.

Second, uncommon words.

Compared with homophonic ambiguity, uncommon words are actually quite normal. But there is also a big problem in naming uncommon words, that is, many people don't know them. When the teacher or someone calls your name, you will not recognize the word or mispronounce it, and it will also cause jokes from people around you.

The important thing is that more than one person is embarrassed. You are called by the wrong name, others are illiterate. So, for your own good, I am good, and everyone is good. Parents should try not to use uncommon words or less uncommon names.

Third, four-character names

Some young parents think that naming their children is like "messing around". What "Loess Plateau" and "the glory of the king" are neither fish nor fowl.

Obviously not "compound surname". But they all adopt four-character names, which are obviously "non-mainstream" and will have a visible impact on children's future study and life.

The name is a symbol of a child's life, and it will also accompany the child's growth. Therefore, when parents give their children a name, they must think more about it, and don't let the name affect their character growth.