A group of old people stood waiting for a child to sit down at the wedding? How important is seniority?

There was such a wedding in Longyan, Fujian, which aroused heated discussion among netizens. Through the video, we can see a lot of people standing on the table, including many elderly people waiting for important guests. The camera turned. , it turned out that this guest was a little boy. After the little boy arrived at the wedding venue, the banquet officially started. Someone asked about this little boy. Although he was very young, he was the oldest among this group of people. If he didn't come , the banquet cannot be carried out.

In fact, China is a country of etiquette, and it pays more and more attention to seniority. Through this incident, the author also thought of some customs in my hometown. When I was a child, we were also very particular about seniority. Sometimes a child who is six or seven years old meets an old man who is seventy or eighty years old, that is, grandma or grandpa. In the past, people attached great importance to seniority. In this regard, no matter whether the other person is younger than you or not, you must be respectful. They call each other by name, and during the Chinese New Year, there are also senior people going to pay New Year greetings. But now that the economy is developing very fast, these terms of seniority have been almost forgotten. People pay less and less attention to the term of seniority. My elementary school classmate is older than me. According to seniority, I should call him aunt. , but after going to school, there is no longer such a saying. They are all treated as equals as sisters.

Personally, I think the video is actually a bit of a joke. I want to express that the Beifeng culture in this place is very strong. When I shot the video, I deliberately let this older boy come to the table. It was considered a moderate joke at the beginning, but in fact, the idea of ??seniority has a long history. These things should take the best and discard the dross in order to better develop China's economy.

Some people think that seniority is a myth nowadays. It depends more on a person’s social status, and a more direct expression of social status is the question of whether he or she has money. In fact, in China Our society is still a human relationship, and social seniority cannot be abandoned.