What are the principles and positions to better protect yourself in the face of moral kidnapping from others?

We should tolerate the limitations of people's vision with a tolerant heart, and don't stand on the opposite side of each other to see the problem.

Many times when we only discuss one thing, we will rise to the opposite of personality. Mainly because in the process of discussion, it is easy for both sides to have some bad emotions, and these emotions are very subtle. When you feel accused by the other party, it is easy for you to refute the other party out of self-protection. When the other person feels that he is wrong or wrong, it is particularly easy to crush you, so simple things often turn into personal attacks. In the end, both sides were very uncomfortable and uncomfortable.

Therefore, a better way is to just discuss things and stabilize your mentality and emotions in the process, which is very important. How to stabilize it? It is to look at each other's remarks in a more inclusive and higher pattern.

When you speak, you should have the power to pause and move forward.

Speaking of this, the most concrete way is that a better means of sublimation and maturity is a sense of humor. It is not attacking others, nor is it wronged to escape. A sense of humor is the best way for us to resolve conflicts and contradictions invisibly. There was a joke about Bo Huang. At a golden horse award ceremony, he and Zheng Yuling co-chaired the host of the whole party. In the process, Zheng Yuling kept attacking his clothes, especially at random. And he walked this side with special intelligence and high emotional intelligence. He is really not as grand as other Golden Horse Award winners, because he has been in the Golden Horse Award for many years and has regarded this place as his home and the most familiar place. What does the host wear most casually in his own home? Then the answer is self-evident.

Therefore, I think it is necessary for us to practice hard and use humor to resolve conflicts invisibly when solving some, perhaps some fierce topics.

I want to learn more and build my confidence with experience and knowledge.

This comes from our life experience and sentiment, and more is a kind of self-confidence from the inside out. For example, when we know the direction and purpose of our life and where the destination is, we actually don't have that much time to consider whether others understand us or fully recognize us from our own perspective. Because the time and energy spent preparing for every step in that direction are so precious, what reason do we have to hold others and accompany us?

So that's actually what I want to tell you. Understand and explore your inner needs as deeply as possible, so as to strive for a better life. This is our best choice when others can't understand us.