See what gift the parturient should bring.

in traditional culture, people pay attention to "reciprocity" and the world. When relatives and friends have happy events, they will bring some gifts to visit them. This is a way to connect feelings and it is also human nature.

However, during the visit, there is actually a university question about giving gifts. If the gifts are not appropriate, making jokes is one thing, and hurting feelings is not worth the candle.

For example, when you go to the hospital to visit a parturient, there are some taboos in sending things. Please don't send the following things again to avoid "getting into trouble".

Gift No.1: Milk powder for babies

Many people may wonder why it is not appropriate to send milk powder to see a mother. Just gave birth to a baby, it is the time to need milk powder, how practical.

In fact, this is because people who have never given birth to a baby certainly don't know much about milk powder, so they can only choose it at will. Once the milk powder chosen doesn't suit the baby's family, it may only be wasted.

Gift No.2: Flowers

In our daily life, when we go to the hospital to see patients, most of us may buy a bunch of flowers and send them there, which is not only beautiful, but also can adjust the patient's mood. There is nothing wrong with it.

However, it is not good to send flowers when visiting the parturient who has just given birth. This is because both the newborn baby and the parturient are fragile, and the stimulation of pollen is easy to cause allergic symptoms. If you kindly send a bunch of flowers, but in the end, it will "harm" the baby or the parturient, which is equivalent to doing bad things with good intentions and causing "trouble".

gifts that are not suitable for visiting pregnant women: things that are too exotic

besides flowers and milk powder, there is another kind that is best not to be given to pregnant women, so don't give things that are too exotic.

Nowadays, people pay attention to "innovation" and seek for differences, especially young people. Sometimes they always have a whim to give some strange things to patients. If the relationship is "iron", there is no taboo, and it is okay for friends to be funny. If you give maternity gifts, don't be too "heterogeneous". After all, making jokes is on the one hand, and it is easy to hurt feelings on the other.

For example, a few years ago, my best friend was given a Bible and a pot of cactus from her colleague. She still didn't understand what it meant, and the pot of cactus accidentally pricked her husband's hand. My best friend still remembers this.

I said some gifts that are not suitable for visiting parturient women, so what is practical and has face?

A gift suitable for visiting parturient: eggs and milk

After delivery, parturient's body is weak, so they need to eat more nutritious things, such as eggs and milk, which contain more protein than ordinary food. The parturient uses a lot of eggs and milk, whether in confinement or in lactagogue, so they might as well send some practical foods, at least not to make mistakes.

Gift 2: Children's clothes

After you have a baby, you definitely need some new clothes. Maybe the newborn mother hasn't bought them yet, so it's very thoughtful to send some practical and beautiful clothes.

in addition, you can choose some small clothes gift boxes packaged by merchants, which will look good and give you face.

gifts suitable for visiting parturient: fruit baskets and red envelopes

fruits and vegetables are the necessities for women's physical recovery after pregnancy. As we all know, there are some fruit and vegetable shops and gift shops near the hospital. If you are in a hurry to prepare some thoughtful gifts, you feel it is not appropriate to go empty-handed.

At this time, you can choose one or two fruit baskets from the store, and then give them to the parturient together with a red envelope, which is the most affordable way to visit.

In fact, when visiting the puerpera who has just given birth, it is more appropriate to decide what gift to give, or to consider the actual situation. The cost can be inexpensive, but the intention should be sufficient, at least it should not cause embarrassment and trouble, so as to better maintain interpersonal relationships and give better wishes to the puerpera and newborn baby.