There are more and more brother-sister relationships now. What do you think?

I once had dinner with a client, and he was very proud of his wife. His wife is married to his brother and sister, five years older than him, but she is an only child, her parents are businessmen, and there are five suites at home; When he went to see his parents, his future father-in-law told him that all the property in the family would be transferred to the couple in the future. Therefore, they went smoothly from falling in love to getting married, and he can be said to be the winner in life.

What's even funnier is that he may be afraid that we are embarrassed to eat too much, so he told us that he is not short of money, so we must not feel bad about his money, and we must eat as much as we can.

In addition, I have heard an interesting story about a brother and sister couple who are one year apart. Two people work in the same company, and the boy often coquettes the girl. When the girl feels fresh at first, she doesn't care. But later, I gradually found that the boy seems to have not grown up, not like a boyfriend, but like a son. In her words, he is a "little suckling dog". So, she broke up with the boy and the boy cried at once. The first time I didn't get it, it took a while, and the second time I broke up, I finally got it.

sibling love is not a problem, but whether two people are suitable. A boy who doesn't grow up will be a treasure even if he finds a girlfriend younger than himself.

There are several friends around me who are brother and sister, and they are all married. Through my observation of these brothers and sisters, I feel that their happiness index is very high. No matter what kind of party it is, the young couple usually attend together, and when they are together, they talk very gently, are intimate and take care of each other when eating. As a big sister's wife, some are even innocent girl, and from time to time, she has a little fling with her little husband, which is very enviable. I asked them, if there is disagreement about things, how to deal with it? They told me that they rarely quarrel, and when they meet things, two people discuss them and solve problems together. As a big sister's wife, her mind is generally delicate, she is in charge of the family's financial power, she is thoughtful in doing things, and she has a good relationship with her parents. Wherever you go, as long as you have time, you will go together. Is this sibling love enviable? I don't think it's a problem to find a lover who is older than a man. The key is to get along with two people, as long as they feel happy together.

it is not appropriate for two people to be together, and we can't judge by age alone, because one's thoughts are not limited by age.

I have a friend who met her husband on a blind date. One of the reasons why she takes a fancy to her husband is his age, which is six years older than her. She had an idea in her heart that to find a husband, she had to find someone older and more mature. As a result, after they got married, they found that her husband was not as stable as she expected, and sometimes he handled things like a teenager, seeing the wind is rain. Later, her neighbor moved to a couple. The new neighbor couple's wife is one year older than her husband, but her husband is obviously much more mature than her wife, and her wife lives like a carefree child. My friends are often envious, and often sigh with me: looking for a man can't just look at his age.

it's hard for others to decide whether the relationship between brother and sister is good or not. Love, like drinking water, is self-aware. As long as two people are suitable, age is not a problem. Appropriate will naturally have a result, and inappropriate will also become a memory.

sibling love is still acceptable. As long as it's not too different. I prefer the one that is six years apart, and there is still a little difference when it is older than six years. Of course, this is only a small area. The most important thing in the community is to see if two people really want to be together. Because the sister-in-law relationship in reality is halfway through, there are many things that end in discord, and the reasons for separation are also very realistic. So the most important thing is to find the right person. Personally, I couldn't accept brother-sister love at first, even if the older one didn't work for a month. There will be an invisible feeling of bad feelings in my heart. But later, it was slowly discovered that the maturity of boys of the same age was different because of different family environments and different social experiences. Some boys are obviously young, probably because they have experienced a lot, and then they tend to be older than themselves when they talk, behave and treat others. In addition, the three views of the two people are consistent, and their living habits are consistent, and they will slowly and naturally come together. Therefore, the age of sibling love is not particularly important. What matters is the mature two people's own positioning and ideas about marriage.

those who play with fire will burn themselves!

brother and sister are in love. As long as I keep my place, my brother should take responsibility. I'm all for marrying a family. Age has never been an issue.

The problem is that a woman is unlikely to marry love. She will choose money, covet comfort, and will always be only for her family. Little boyfriend, what's up? Leave it alone. At first, it looks real, but after getting bored, most of them end up dead.

once the game starts, it is necessary to go on. Round after round, I ended up hanging myself on the stage. Originally thought, flowers are not bad for that green leaf. Later, I became conceited, and no man can still live a wonderful life ―― is it empty? In fact, women have never left men all their lives, have they?

men are the pillars of the family, and it is the sky that should be propped up most ―― take care of your parents first. Even if you have money, you should put it in the right place. Don't you feel that you are spurned when you do good things to others?

start your career first, then get married! You must have money first, and then you can compete with love. A good meal is not afraid of being late!

if I say something against my will, just spray me properly. thank you I'm sorry if I bumped into anyone! )

First of all, sibling love is nothing new in China. I know that in some areas of Shandong, there is a tradition of marrying a first wife. And my mother-in-law is four years older than my father-in-law. The parents are from Shandong, where they got married.

If we say that there is a phenomenon of sibling love and there are more and more sibling love, it is a topic that can be discussed.

Look at the phenomenon of sibling love from the perspective of love. A pair of men and women are attracted to each other and have love. If it is purely from the perspective of love, it is understandable to have skills. The reason why modern people turn pale when talking about love is because love is no longer a simple love. There are too many non-love complex elements in love, and it is these complex elements that have an impact on love, which leads to a series of problems such as men and women being trapped by love, being hurt by love, loving but not, excessively idealizing love and so on. In the phenomenon of brother-sister love, the elder sister is older than the younger brother, which just conforms to some problems in love itself in the process of communication. On the one hand, my sister has been tempered by society, and her personality is more rational and steady, and she has also achieved a certain position in the economy and has her own views on things. My brother's feelings when he is in contact with his sister are completely different from those of women younger than himself. My elder sister, who is a few years older than herself, is more mature in her heart, acts more steadily, and has little or no vulgar taste in love with younger women, which makes my younger brother feel more smoothly about love. The younger brother's youthful vitality, strong physique, high spirits, active personality and other aspects complement the mature and steady personality of his sister at this time, so the two sides have a better experience in love. This may be one of the reasons for the phenomenon of brother-sister love.

Look at the phenomenon of sibling love from a male perspective. Sister-in-law love and the resulting love do not mean that the two sides will eventually get married and have a marriage. In fact, the ratio of male to female population in our country is now unbalanced. There are more men than women. In the population of the same age or similar age, the number of male population is greater than that of female population. As a result, it is more difficult for men to find women who are the same age or younger in marriage and love, so men relax the age requirements for women, and women who are older than themselves have become the targets of their pursuit. Coupled with the influence of the traditional concept of being a junior girl and holding a golden brick, the phenomenon of sister-in-law love has increased.

The phenomenon of sibling love is viewed from the social perspective. In the traditional concept, love and love are the prelude to marriage, with marriage as the ultimate goal. In today's society, influenced by social changes and modern concepts, love has become a game based on relationships between men and women, instead of purely taking marriage as the sole purpose. In this game, there is no lack of sibling love. Younger men are strong, passionate, energetic and active in thinking, which are all favorite projects of some sisters. When the two sides are together, they will gather, and when they are tired, they will disperse. Moreover, there are fewer factors that cause "accidents", which is also the reason for the emergence of brother-sister love. In fact, in the whole animal kingdom, people are the only animals that use sex as an entertainment tool. This situation may be related to human evolution.

The phenomenon of sister-in-law love is viewed from a female perspective. For older women, it is very difficult to find a marriage partner among men of the same age or older than themselves. On the one hand, older unmarried men are scarce, on the other hand, older men have problems such as divorce, children and declining physical fitness. So older women were forced to turn their eyes to younger men. It may also be the reason for the phenomenon of brother-sister love.

Looking at the phenomenon of sibling love from the perspective of marriage. Of all the sister-in-law relationships that have registered for marriage. According to statistics, the age gap between the two sides is mostly within 3 years old (including 3 years old), and the age of women is rarely over 29 or 3 years old. The reason for this phenomenon is mainly the influence of physiological differences between men and women. After women are over 3 years old, their fertility begins to decline. However, bearing offspring is related to the future of a family. Due to the pressure of social and family factors, men dare not take risks easily in this respect, which leads to this phenomenon. With the change of society, the marriage age factor in China has gradually changed from male to female, and there is an obvious age boundary. According to the statistics of marriage registration, the number of "big wives and little husbands" is basically the same as that of "doctors and little wives" in China at this stage.

From the above reasons, we can see that the love between brothers and sisters is only a product of social changes, and it is a concrete manifestation of human adaptation to certain changes in society. In this regard, we should not be harsh, let alone forcibly change. Face it frankly and bless love is our reasonable code of conduct.

Well, in this situation of more wolves and less meat, more men and less women can leave some space to solve the problem of bachelor.

What do you think of more and more sibling love now?

as long as it suits you, it's the best. is it reasonable to have an old man and fewer wives?

Sister-brother love has increased, and it is like a stock market, rising all the way. Then let's find out the reason and see what kind of sister is looking for the younger brother.

I don't know if I don't check, but I'm shocked when I check. The result is such a sister, with a beautiful face and a good knowledge of books, is the right woman for normal men. Because they are too good, they are counterproductive, and they can't get love. How many men are ashamed of themselves and flinch.

but time and tide wait for no man! Which woman is not in love with spring?

In the face of a trembling suitor or an experienced man, he is out of breath. You can't end up as a leftover woman! The wise woman changed her goal to the younger brother, tried the knife for the first time, gained love, caught the younger brother, and fought back successfully.

how happy the younger brothers are! In the face of beauty, my versatile sister is a little ecstatic with pain. The younger brothers enjoyed the success of "the female junior holds the golden brick" and won the beauty home with no effort.

Therefore, it is not difficult to understand that there are more and more brother-sister relationships. Sister-in-law love is sister's fierceness, and sister-in-law love is sister's cleverness. As long as the younger brother is willing to be a prisoner and make a family, it is beyond reproach and normal.

In fact, there has always been a brother-sister relationship since ancient times, but people just don't talk about it.

Nobel Prize in Literature (piano teacher), the Golden Globe Award winner (reader), and (lucky one, lovestruck, Zhiming and Chunjiao, fake marriage). They are all classic literary works or movies that describe the love between brothers and sisters.

You ask why there are more and more brother-sister relationships nowadays. In fact, because of the freedom of speech, people are more and more open-minded, and the degree of accepting all kinds of relationships is higher and higher. All kinds of relationships and stories are relatively open and transparent than before.

There are many people and things in this world that we can't understand or understand.

but I hope you can not accept it, please don't hurt it.

A friend of mine, a single woman in her forties, is elegant and dignified. She met a 19-year-old boy who is tall, handsome, gentle and kind. Two people who are far apart in age actually fell in love for seven or eight years. The boy said to the woman: Sometimes you are like a mother, sometimes you are like a sister, and sometimes you are like a lover.

In this fickle world, two warm-hearted people are warm to each other, without right or wrong, and appreciate each other.

many people will say that boys do it for money.

But it may disappoint you. He never asked for anything. They kept going back and forth simply. The boy got married when he was twenty-five. A few days before his marriage, the boy came from afar to meet the woman. At that moment, the woman's heart was wet, as if she had fallen into an abyss, and tears blurred her eyes. She and he thought that the beauty of the past was over, and the boy sighed piteously and helplessly in the dark.

a year later, the woman prepared a big gift package for the boy's baby, and the boy refused. He said, That's not why I'm with you. Therefore, some brother-sister relationships are as pure and beautiful.

So ...

What can I say?

being together is a lifetime, even if it is a day or a year.

since ancient times, there has been a saying that "a girl holds a golden brick in her junior year", which shows that the love between brother and sister is nothing new. However, there are also many people who are opposed to sibling love, and they are biased in the age of marriage between men and women. They conservatively believe that a man can marry a woman ten years younger than him, twenty years younger than him, or even forty years younger, and their marriage is likely to be complete; But the other way around, it's a joke. How can a woman hang out with a man younger than her? God forbid. But even so, we find that there are not a few siblings around us. Why are there more and more siblings now?

In ancient marriages, parents' orders and matchmakers' words were respected. Women didn't have the right to choose their own marriage, and they only got to know their husbands after going through the door. Nowadays, the reason for more and more sibling love is mainly attributed to the change of women.

First of all, women's self-awareness is constantly awakening, which makes them more confident and have more autonomy to choose their own marriage. They are no longer dependent on men to survive, and they are no longer accessories of men. They can pursue their own happy marriage, even if this man is younger than themselves, as long as they really love him, so what!

Secondly, women's income and social status are constantly improving. The author once made a survey on the love between brother and sister, and the opponents of the love between brother and sister were mainly the women's parents. In fact, this is not difficult to explain. Women are often regarded as the weak in marriage. Parents are biased in the age of marriage between men and women. They conservatively believe that if their daughter is abandoned, she will fall into a tragic situation because of economic problems and child support problems.

Things are different now, and women can control their own lives independently.