Such girls are very annoying.

1. Control the desire to show off

The more you like to show off in front of others,

This is often unpleasant.

Facts have proved that showing off will not only make enemies for yourself,

It's no good getting into trouble and attracting hatred.

You must believe that if a person is awesome enough,

People will definitely see it.

People's fault lies in not being a good teacher. The more they talk about it all day, the more they show high-profile and competitive people, and there is no great promise.

2. Get rid of the problem of outspoken

"There is a saying that you don't know if you don't say it right."

Not talking at all.

Think before you speak,

Especially in front of people who don't know your personality,

Try to converge and be peaceful.

If it's too cold, heat it,

If it's too radical, calm down.

Before joking, think about whether others will be comfortable and laugh when they hear this.

Otherwise, you are a joke in the eyes of others.

3. Don't promise easily, but keep your word.

Don't promise easily, and don't promise others' demands easily.

When people ask you for help,

Think first, then discuss, then promise,

Don't say yes until you hear everything,

And it screwed up.

It's easy not to borrow money, and it's easy not to lend it out.

Borrowing money hurts.

If you have to borrow it, you must say in advance when to return it.

Take the initiative to pay back the money when it is due and give some compensation to others by the way.

Or bring a small gift as a gift.

4. Accept that you are loved by ordinary people.

Accepting that you are an ordinary person is the first step to becoming extraordinary.

Some people are afraid of ordinary life, so they try their best to disguise themselves.

As everyone knows, to grow up with your heart is to shake hands with this increasingly dull life.

Accept the fact that you are an ordinary person,

You won't be eager for quick success just because you are slow.

Fruit and things in interpersonal relationships, everyone helps each other with one foot deep and one foot shallow, is the real interpersonal relationship.

Admit that you are not that important to others.

Maybe you are too timid to stand on the podium,

Depressed by a speech,

But in the end, I found that not many people care about your performance.

Don't be afraid to let others see your shortcomings.

Corners and shadows, don't be distracted by things that don't exist.

Deduction doesn't fit your life script.

When you let go of this self-imposed psychological pressure,

You will live a more comfortable life and drink freely.

No matter what happens, control your emotions first.

Don't turn the first step to solve the problem into venting your emotions.

Don't panic if something happens, calm down before dealing with the problem.

For what has happened,

Don't complain and pester too much,

Accept the reality and think of countermeasures at once.

Ask a girl who is emotionally stable and focused on solving problems.

Who can hate it?

7. Don't be arrogant, learn to put yourself in other's shoes.

An arrogant person who wants others to put her first in everything,

But an unsympathetic girl,

It's really disgusting.

Empathy and understanding others are the most important.

Not that you should sacrifice yourself,

But from someone else's point of view,

Understand and understand each other's difficulties.

In short, you are gentle with others,

Others will also give you a spring breeze.

Don't tell everyone about your difficulties and experiences.

Crying poor, not selling well, heartbroken, can't solve any problems.

I will only radiate my troubles and negative energy to the people around me.

You know, sunny and cheerful people can attract others' goodwill and closeness.

Your own misfortune,

It's good to understand digestion by yourself,

Many people have their own problems,

There is no reason to help you.

9. Don't gossip behind your back

Many people like to say a few words of rubbish and gossip.

Please don't do this! Especially in the same circle,

When the front foot finished speaking, the back foot reached the man's ear.

There are many people who are right and wrong. Watch your mouth and don't talk nonsense.

Know what to say on any occasion.

If you don't bother yourself,

Others can never give you trouble.

10. Beautiful and self-aware, but not expressive.

Lovely women must be natural, true and sincere.

Beautiful, self-aware, but not deliberately exposed,

Don't take advantage of their beauty,

Find a sense of existence in a circle of friends,

They will not use their beauty to "find convenience" or "take advantage" for themselves.

Be honest with each other and pretend not to do anything.

Show the truest and most natural self to the people around you.

1 1. Dress appropriately and behave appropriately.

What a person wears determines his first visual impression on others.

If you are untidy, don't blame others for having a bad impression on you.

Don't try to attract attention,

Wear something that others think is beautiful.

Words and deeds are the expression of a person's temperament.

Don't shake your head and squint, don't swear, and don't tell dirty jokes to the opposite sex. Communicating with people is naturally the most important.

12. gentle and angular, kind and sharp-edged

Gentle and kind girls are never annoying,

But gentleness is not just obedience,

Kindness is not patience without boundaries,

This will make you a bad person.

When dealing with people, your kindness and gentleness need teeth.

With a little sharpness and edges.

After all, not everyone in this world knows how to be grateful.

The more you accommodate, the more arrogant he is.

Your kindness and gentleness will also be their serious response.

Learn to express

The last point is about fighting back when you suffer injustice.

Fighting back doesn't mean cursing each other like a bitch.

That is likely to become a dead end, picking on each other.

It's important to release your aggression,

But in the right way.

The most important thing is to learn to express,

Let the other person know how you feel.

How to effectively express:

Don't cry, don't cry, don't cry, crying is useless!

No swearing, no aggressive communication, and less "How could you do this" and "You are too inconsiderate of my feelings".

Express your feelings clearly and say "I am very angry now" and "I can't accept your practice".

Know your own needs when you ... (the behavior of this event), I think. (Tell your feelings) I hope so, because ... (own needs) ".