Everyone has everyone's circle, and you don't have to force what doesn't belong to you.

People who grow up in different environments live in different circles and meet different people and things. And this determines their circle and level.

My uncle said to me that day: "People who grow up with superior conditions are often excellent. If you work ten times harder, it may not be as effective as the efforts of others twice as easily. " I didn't agree at the time. Growing thinking tells us that "there is no end to thinking"-through hard work, many things can be changed and fate is in our own hands. We have been trapped in fixed thinking since childhood (many things are fixed and cannot be changed)

Since I saw that boy again yesterday (someone who had the same experience as me: he lost his father when he was fourteen or fifteen). This year, he is only 18 years old. Although he is young, he started his own travel company in 16. He also has multiple identities: investment investor (it is up to him to decide whether to invest in this project or not, but not to pay for it himself), insurance sales, and small. When I chatted with him, which hot pot restaurant was delicious and talked about trivial things such as driving without a license in his life. At lunch, he answered the phone, chatted with friends, talked about Boeing planes, what kind of planes he liked best ... all topics that I couldn't touch.

I woke up this morning and suddenly had an epiphany: some levels and some circles can't be integrated if you want to, and the circles you usually live in determine your level and height. Although you can change your circle, this change needs to be gradual, rather than jumping many levels at once, so that you will not only be unable to integrate, but also can't afford to spend. You have to be down-to-earth and change step by step through your own efforts.

Everyone has everyone's circle, and you don't have to force what doesn't belong to you.