How to comfort a girl if she is unhappy?

Listen and observe, ask and guide, and divert attention.

In fact, when girls are in a bad mood, we don’t have to say anything. All you need to do is listen and observe. The purpose of listening is to help the girl finish her sentence better; the purpose of observation is to discover her real needs. Of course, listening does not mean that you just sit here and listen without saying anything. That is definitely not the case. While the girl is talking, you can occasionally pass a tissue to the girl, or give her a caring look. When a girl is talking, you can give her some feedback. Like why? Then, this and so on. The purpose of this is to let the girl feel that you are really listening to her.

The thinking patterns of men and women are different, especially when it comes to speaking. Boys care more about expressing logic, while girls care about emotional feelings. For example, if a girl tells you that our boss is too annoying, then if you reply: Why are you annoying, he is the boss, what else can you do? Then maybe after a girl hears this, she won’t be willing to chat with you, so what’s the correct reply? We can find the emotional needs of girls in this sentence by asking and guiding.