No matter how estranged we become in the end, the kindness I once treated you is always true.

Dong Qing once wrote a passage: No matter how estranged we become in the end, the kindness I once treated you is true. Even if we part ways eventually, don’t let down the encounter?! I hope you don’t regret knowing me and are really happy? If I could go back to the past, I would choose not to know you. It’s not that I regret it, it’s that I can’t face the current ending.

I read this sentence many days ago, and I felt a little sad but more soothing:

Yes, life is not so perfect, and not all feelings and affection will have an ending. , because of different positions and different choices, we often have to face the ruthless ending of one or two.

No matter how bleak the ending is, please believe that the careful process is the best, and the only thing we have to do is to thank the person who experienced it with us and the good times we experienced together.

Let ourselves go, not be attached to the results, but pay more attention to the process, so that our hearts will be more open!

About love:

Mr. Zhu Jiading once wrote for Titus watches: It doesn’t matter if it lasts forever, it only matters what you once had. Such a classic advertising slogan.

A long time ago, I just thought this was a quote from a scumbag who was playing hooligans.

Recently, I have new thoughts and insights on this sentence: longing for eternity is the perfect wish of every man and woman before they start falling in love. Although people who fall in love at first may not necessarily end up together. But everything we have walked with our heart is beautiful:

The roads we have walked together and the scenery we have seen together are beautiful memories worth cherishing.

Some friends and relatives around me have experienced ups and downs in love:

A pair of golden boys and girls are favored by everyone but have no results due to their personalities; The lovers who have been in love for five years have lost to distance and reality...

Although the final ending is unsatisfactory, what can the ending define? The real ending is not just being together, but the quality of being together for a lifetime.

People, you can’t be so greedy~ Maybe separation is the best blessing to each other. Instead of falling in love and killing each other, it’s better to keep the best things in the box of memory.

About friendship:

Some people get separated while walking, and some relationships fade away as they go along.

Friends used to be able to talk about everything, but in the end they may have nothing to say. These are just the most normal human behaviors.

Everyone has their own schedule. At a specific stage of life, we meet particularly close friends in a specific environment. They can accompany us for a journey, but not for a lifetime, and please don't expect it to be a lifetime.

It must be a special fate that allowed us to have the feeling of cherishing each other at a certain time. Just remember this feeling and don’t force yourself and others to leave these memories behind.

Ng Mang-tat participated in Xu Zhiyuan's "Thirteen Invitations". During the dinner, he talked about his friendship with Stephen Chow:

A little helpless, he said that now he has a "feeling of not being able to communicate with each other until death." ". It seems that everyone doesn’t know how to break through this gap. Should he come to me first, or should I go to him first?

Xu Zhiyuan asked: If you had the opportunity to sit down and have another drink, what would you talk about?

He said let’s talk about the past. But I don’t know if our thoughts are still that synchronized, and we can tell what the other person wants to do with just one look like before.

Look at the best partners in the past, there are times when they are alienated and have nothing to say, let alone ordinary us?

The best attitude towards friendship is: never forget, don’t force it.