What's the experience of marrying a short boy?

As we all know, tall boys still have an advantage in the marriage market, compared with short boys. But carrots and vegetables have their own tastes, and height is only a criterion for choosing a mate. The most important thing is personality.

Speaking out is not afraid of jokes, my husband is shorter than me. At the beginning, when he pursued me, I was also disgusted and felt insecure, which was not conducive to the genes of future generations.

But feelings are wonderful. If you don't like them, you will gradually get a good impression in the little things you get along with. I gradually found the bright spot in him, except that he was a little short, everything else was fine.

He is warm-hearted, considerate to me, good-natured and filial to his parents. In a word, these are good marriage partners. I am no longer obsessed with height, because I am really moved and willing to give up and accommodate.

My friend sarcastically said that if I don't marry a tall man, I will marry a "short melon". I replied happily, "I like it if I like it."

I never thought this would happen. I married a short boy, but the day after my marriage, I was really happy. That's the most important thing. As for outsiders, let them say whatever they like. After all, their mouths are in their position and are not under our control.

I am particularly curious about why people have such a big prejudice against short boys, and think that they don't deserve good feelings and can only live on the spot.

Actually, it's not. Many short boys also got their wish, married their favorite girl and got a happy marriage. This is not surprising, because people are more and more tolerant of love and no longer obsessed with height.

So the question is, what kind of experience is it to marry a short boy? Let's listen to what these three people have said. It may not be what you expected, but it can make people wake up.

@ Breeze Slowly, 28 years old, financial assistant

My husband is shorter than me. To tell the truth, I really didn't like him at first and didn't want to talk to him until something happened that made me like him.

Once, I was in unbearable pain during my physiological period. He offered to send me the exclusive secret "Ginger Sugar Egg Soup". I didn't believe it at first, but the dead horse acted as a living horse doctor and accepted his love and delicacy.

But it didn't take long after drinking it to really take effect, and I am very grateful to him. Since then, our relationship has undergone subtle changes. I know he has a crush on me, but I'm crazy about his height.

It took me about a month to completely put down my prejudice and stop clinging to my height. I think he is cute, too. Although he is a little short, it will not affect future generations.

Without this concern, our relationship developed rapidly and we got married soon. Now, I am the mother of two children, and my married life is extremely happy. I am particularly satisfied.

In retrospect, it's a good thing that I didn't miss love because I was short, otherwise I wouldn't be happy now.

@ Yangliuyiyi, 35, a middle school teacher.

Among the girls, I am taller, and my height is above 170. Many short boys are afraid of me, but I prefer the last one and even have a crush on him.

I'm not afraid of your jokes. I took the initiative to pursue it, because I really like it. Although he is a little short, less than 1.7 meters, I can accept it. In my eyes, his body is glowing.

At first, he was particularly resistant, feeling unworthy of me, avoiding me, and always avoiding me, which made me a little annoyed. However, I chased him all the way, but I just wouldn't let go. I think he was also moved.

After three months of hard pursuit, we established a relationship between men and women. He is ecstatic and dotes on me. I am very satisfied, and feel that it is the greatest gift from heaven to have such an ending.

After marriage, my life is full and calm, not so thrilling, but it is really what I want. I am particularly satisfied and feel that marrying this person is the greatest blessing in my life.

I am more active in love, unlike other girls who are always passive. Seeing the person in your heart just stays in your heart and doesn't put it into action.

As an experienced person, I still want to remind you that you should take the initiative to treat love. Even if it is true love, you will miss it without initiative, leaving only regret.

@ A girl with no worries, 40 years old, shopkeeper.

Although my family is a little short, but the clown, I can't live without him. He can cook a good dish I didn't weigh more than double digits before I married him, and now I have soared by 30 Jin. Fortunately, I know how to control myself, otherwise I will be so fat that my parents don't know me.

Besides, he also loves to keep fit, taking me to exercise and sweating together. At first, I disagreed. I don't think it is necessary to waste such precious sleep time.

But slowly I became addicted. After I fell in love with sports, I found that the whole person's mental state was different and the efficiency of doing things was much higher. Not only that, but the relationship between husband and wife has also warmed up a lot.

When I first got married, my friends sympathized with me and told me how I married a short boy. They will think it is human nature to be so sorry, but I don't regret it, because my married life is so happy.

It's a great blessing to marry such a spoiled man in my life. I should be content and glad that I promised his confession and didn't refuse him because he was short.

After listening to the truth told by someone who has experienced it, my heart is warm. I think there are thousands of kinds of love. We just need the most comfortable. Maybe outsiders don't agree. The key is self-satisfaction.

Short boys are not necessarily unromantic and don't love others. The good or bad of this love is really not determined by height, it involves all aspects, and it is related to preferences, personality, habits and so on.

If you are generally satisfied, but your height is a little poor, then you can consider it. After all, no one is perfect, and so is love. There is no absolute perfection, only relative beauty.

Finally, I hope everyone's marriage life can be happy and loving!