"When you are over forty, don't care about two things; when you are over fifty, don't care about two people." What is the truth behind this saying?

When a person reaches the age of forty, he is at the age when he is not confused. He should do what he can and manage everything according to his ability. When others encounter difficulties, helping others proves that you are kind and warm-hearted, but if you fail to help others with things that you are not capable of and are not sure of, it will become a joke and you will not get the gratitude of others.

When you are over 40, stop meddling in irrelevant things. There is no benefit in taking care of it, and there is no harm in leaving it alone. If you are over 40, you should know what is important and what is not important. You can put down meaningless social activities, leave time for your wife and children, and go out for fun on weekends. The more you let go, the happier you will be.

"Things that have nothing to do with oneself or family" and "trivial things", "villain" can also be divided into "people who are hypocritical, insidious and cunning", and "people who are attentive to nothing". Let's give you a detailed analysis .

This age group happens to be the period when the rate of family infidelity is high. The kind of gatherings with friends and small dinner parties with classmates are the most susceptible to temptation. The so-called emotional connection is really about seeing through the world, dealing with it rationally, solving it wisely, and treating it calmly. Everything has a reason, innocence is gone, and intrigues are prevalent! There is less sincerity and kindness, and vanity and comparison are rampant! Self-improvement is gone, hypocrisy, femininity and artificiality are still prevalent! The age of forty without confusion, the age of fifty when one knows destiny, knows oneself and understands others! Improve yourself and be kind to your loved ones! There is no great kindness! Reminiscent of the past. Being in a fertile emotional ground will not bring you much benefit, but it will say too much! There was no pressure at all when I was in my 30s! It’s almost forty! Now I feel very tired every day! I don’t have any hobbies anymore! Insights from those born in the 1980s. And the salt deepens your wounds.

Whether others have enough to eat or whether others are living well or not has little to do with you. Even relatives live their own lives, and you can't control other people's affairs.

Stay less involved in other people's business. If you have the ability, it will only increase your troubles. If you don't have the ability, in the eyes of others, you might as well just make a noise and stay out of other people's business.