There is a kind of person who will be jealous when she sees that you are better off than her, and they will look down on you when you are not. What would you do with such a person?

First of all, learn to distinguish between people who are full of jealousy. Jealous people are generally narrow-minded, not cheerful enough, often mocking the advantages or strengths of others behind their backs, and often saying some mean and vicious words.

Once you find this person jealous, you should keep a proper distance from him. In particular, you should be careful not to show off too much or expose his superiority in front of him. You should try to keep a low profile and be modest to avoid causing his jealousy and getting into trouble.

Some clever ways are to expose their shortcomings in front of jealous people and shout out their imperfections, but they will let the jealous people relax their vigilance and unload their strong sense of comparison, that is, pretend that they are not as good as him or similar to him, so as not to make themselves psychologically unbalanced.

But the best way is to keep your distance from it and not be too close.

Secondly, don't be timid when your real strengths or advantages are exposed and targeted by jealous people. In general, under the fire of jealousy, jealous people will start to attack, such as some slanderous words, spread rumors, or throw some ironic challenges.

Understand that the reason why jealous people do this is to make you feel uncomfortable and uneasy, so as to calm your sense of worthlessness. How fierce the jealous man's attack is shows how painful his own heart is. At this time, the envied person must keep calm and calm. The calmer you are, the more helpless the jealous person will be. When you are indifferent, he will really be afraid of you, because he can't hurt you, and he will doubt his value even more. There is a saying in China that "people who are not envied are mediocre people", so facing the jealous reaction of others can only show that you are really excellent, which is a real compliment.

Ignoring calmly means not following his logic. Let him do nothing. So facing jealousy is also a test of a person's true strength. Those who are strong enough, self-stable enough and self-approved enough will shake off the derogatory signals sent by jealous people like water drops on plastic paper and never let themselves be contaminated with any sewage. A strong and clear heart itself is like a raincoat, which has a protective effect.