Many parents say they don't want their children to study too hard. Is this right?

Parents, what if there isn't? Cruel? Never know how good your children are. Tofu heart? Our parents will never bring up excellent children. It is a big joke not to let children study too hard.

The biggest lie in education is that children are happy.

With the development of economic conditions, people's educational awareness is universal? Improve? More and more parents talk about it? Quality education? Respect children's wishes and give them room to grow up freely.

If you don't want to learn, we won't learn. Just grow up happily, okay?

If the child doesn't learn, don't force him. He's young. Grow up, okay?

Children get injections when they are young, and parents who cry and roll around will also get injections with their children in their arms, because parents know very well that they must endure it for their children's health. But aren't you studying now? What's wrong with you? have you finished? You just let it go? There is no success without hard work, and there will be no pie in the sky. Don't let children choose comfort at the age of struggle.

Study hard, then why not? The hard work at the moment is to have a better comfortable life. This unprincipled love hinders the formation of children's sense of struggle and their normal cognition of the world.

The society is realistic. Don't live in an illusory world. The world is colorful, but there are also storms that are known by the wind. After the storm, there will be rainbows.

Children can do whatever they want. What about parents?

A conversation between Liu Xing and his mother in Family with Children left a deep impression on me. Liu Xing complained that she could do nothing, blaming her parents for not pushing herself.

Liu xingma:? I signed you up for this class and that class when I was a child. I wanted you to learn, but you didn't! ?

Liu xing:? I don't want to learn, so you won't let me learn! At that time, I was too young to understand. Don't you understand? You should cultivate and educate me since I was a child. You forced me to study since I was a child.

Parents are the leaders of their children. As parents, if you disagree with your children, you will eventually hurt them, and maybe they will resent you for life.

No one wants to force children to do things they don't like, but society won't accommodate you. No matter how good the material conditions of parents are, it is better to teach their children the ability to survive. Even if you leave hundreds of millions of assets, your children will fail, and maybe you will be defeated in two years.

Some time ago, photos of Sha Yi and other children after class spread all over the circle of friends. We can see how a father grew up with his children and how wise parents look at their children's problems from those stars whose material and fame are far higher than ordinary people.

Many people only see the differences between children. Actually, the real difference is the difference between parents. Some parents raised their children carefully, while others only raised their children.

Studying is hard, but it is your way to see the world clearly.

Educator Jim? Trelease said:

All children are born equal, but after entering kindergarten and primary school, they become unequal. There are differences because some parents are trying their best to train them, while others just watch them grow up, that's all.

No child is born willing to endure hardships and learn. If we can gradually restrain indulgence, connivance, laziness and playfulness, the children who persist to the end will benefit a lot.

No matter whether you have talent or not, no matter whether you learn well or not, this persistence will definitely make your child's future life more exciting, enrich his spiritual world, know his own way more clearly and see the way of the world clearly.

Times abandoned a child and won't even say goodbye.

The information age is advancing at an unexpected speed. If a child lacks the learning ability and the perspective of understanding the world, then the child's world outlook and values are definitely out of touch with society.

If you graduated from Tsinghua, but I like moving bricks on the construction site, that's fine. You can move bricks, but the next day you can go back to the office building to continue your original easy work, because you have the right to choose life and work.

If you flinch on your way to school or don't even have the most basic education, then I'm sorry, you can only move bricks on the construction site. Any job is noble, and there is no intention of discriminating against any job. It is just an example.

I'll go back and discuss it with the child and see what he means. What should I do if I am worried that my child will not attend class?

Please remember: the ideal of all children is to eat snacks, play mobile phones and watch TV every day, because he is a child!

The real society tells you: What if children don't want to work in 20 years? What if children are unable to support their families after 30 years? ~ 40 years later, what if the child doesn't want to raise you? If you think the cost of education is too high and you are afraid that your children will work too hard, then try the price of ignorance.

To sum up, how much we pay for our children will eventually be returned twice, because our children are priceless! Working hard now may change your life! If you choose to give up from the beginning, there is no hope.

You don't have to work hard, you don't have to suffer, but please don't envy other people's children for their success, because any kind of seeds will bear fruit.

I'm Mr. Shang Shan, focusing on the growth education of teenagers. Welcome to forward your comments.