In-laws put Zeng Guofan in crisis. How did Zeng Guofan, who had high emotional intelligence, solve the crisis in one sentence?

Zeng Guofan's eldest son just got married, and he tossed and turned and couldn't sleep. The eldest son knew that his wife didn't mean to neglect him, but his father asked the family to be thrifty. This is a family rule. It was getting late, and the eldest son became very angry. He told his mother that the daughter-in-law who was not sensible should quit. Break that tool, or he will not sleep.

Before his mother could answer, Zeng Guofan shouted, if you want to fight, you'd better break the tools first, or I can't sleep. When the words came out, the whole family laughed. Although Zeng Guofan is very strict with his son, he will not use reason to scold him. Zeng Guofan knew that the effect was not good. But also affect the harmonious atmosphere of the family, so I used that joke to solve family conflicts.

Zeng Guofan knew that Zuo had a bad temper, but he was also very talented. Dealing with the relationship between two people is related to the overall situation. Zeng Guofan only made fun of the left criticism in his article and said nothing else. Not only did the people around him secretly laugh, but Zuo also eliminated his anger.

Zeng Guofan was able to achieve a vigorous career in that special historical era. Zeng Guofan is good at resolving contradictions and crises. So he can get help from others, which is inseparable from his humorous personality. In the Qing Dynasty, when two officials at the same level wrote letters, they could not give orders or perform their duties like subordinates, so Zuo also knew this.