Why are trafficked women basically unable to run away?

Original address: Why can't the trafficked girl escape? Author: Guan Xin Xiao Pang

As an authentic mountaineer, let me talk to you about why women who have been trafficked to mountainous areas can't escape, my views and some suggestions.

In fact, there are many kinds of mountainous areas, such as the mountainous area where I live, with many plains, few mountains and short mountains. Such areas are generally suitable for economic development and people's reproduction, and will develop into towns, counties and cities, with railway stations and bus stations.

Airports and so on, there is no buying and selling of wives in these places ~ If you go to such areas to play, don't worry too much, and be wary of some traffickers crossing the border here under the guise of taking you to work or play or do business in such areas.

In some remote mountainous areas, the mountain roads are mostly winding roads, and there are only a few trains a day on sunny days. In case of heavy rain, the road may be destroyed by landslides, making it impossible to pass. Generally speaking, it is mainly villages, and I have been to such villages. In such a village, young people basically go out to work, and all the old people or children stay at home. When you come to such a mountainous area, you should pay attention. If the village is still relatively developed, there are small shops (this is very important! Because there are small shops that prove that the village is still in close contact with the outside world, it is best to have bigger shops that open every day, not just sporadic small commodities, sometimes open and sometimes not open ~), and the car can go directly to the village, preferably near the bus stop. Usually this kind is bought in Fuyu mountain village.

There are few cases of selling daughters-in-law, and there is a great possibility of running away.

Unfortunately, I fell into a poor mountain village.

It's a place where cars can't go directly ~ ~ You have to walk a long mountain road to get there after you get off the bus ~ ~ If the so-called friends and classmates who are not familiar with anything want to take you to play, leave as early as possible, because once you get into such a village, the possibility of your own escape is zero, really zero.

First, when you wake up, make sure you don't even leave a needle on your body ~ ~ In the second village, when the gray-haired grandmother holds hands with you, you will be surprised to find that she is much stronger than you ~ ~ ~

Others said they would poison the food when cooking. . . Or cook some complementary foods. . . . Don't worry, people don't let you cook at all. As many people say, the newly bought daughter-in-law is locked in a dark little room. . . . You have no freedom to go out before the baby is born. . . . . . . .

I have only been to such a village once, which I will never forget.

It was the winter a few years ago, and the old people at home didn't know why they were going back to their hometown. In fact, he hasn't been back to this hometown for decades, which is where he was born as a child. Then we drove there, and our hometown was a thing of the past.

No, acquaintances of the same age as the old man have either left their hometown or died long ago, and young people don't know the old man. We were going to leave after meeting him. At this moment, a young schoolmate suddenly told the old man that an old friend of his was now.

Now I have moved to a neighboring village. The old man left in high spirits, so we have to stay with him.

When we arrived at a village, the mountain road was no longer open. We stopped at the local bus stop, which is actually a stop, and a farmer helped us look after the car ~ ~ ~

I retired at that time for fear that the old man would fall down on the mountain road. The old man was very energetic that day, and he wanted to go. Our junior helped him to go. Left 1 more hours, it was dark and there was no shadow. Later, epigenetic

We'll wait where we are, and he'll send someone to pick us up. Finally, a horse came. . . . We were speechless. The younger generation got on the horse with the old man (none of us would ~ ~ ~) and left 1 more hours.

Just arrived in the village.

The whole village basically came out to meet us. To tell the truth, we were particularly moved at that time. In the evening, the village chief stood at the entrance of the village with a group of people waiting for us. There are also several tables of banquets in the courtyard of the village head's house. My dad is very excited. After a few more drinks, we are going to leave after dinner. Later we thought it would take more than two hours to go back. It's not safe to walk in the dark so late, so we accepted the kindness of the village head and lived in the village head's house. There are many children in the village, and finally there are not enough red envelopes. Let's take out the money directly, and the child will be very happy when he gets ten dollars and twenty dollars. I-I didn't see it later

That boy, I thought that boy was naughty. He didn't do anything with money, so he didn't take it seriously.

I ended up drinking too much. I slept until noon the next day, and then I saw the child. It turns out that there is no canteen in this village, and no one in the village buys milk. That night, the child walked on the road in Montenegro for more than two hours and arrived at the small village where we parked. The canteen was closed long ago, and he lived in a relative's house in that village. When he opened the door in the morning, he bought milk and walked for more than two hours to deliver it to me. I wanted to slap myself at that time.

Later, I wanted to give my children more money. The child doesn't want to live or die. He runs too fast. After a while, he and I ran away without a trace ~ ~ I went out to chase and got lost in the village, because they were all adobe houses with thatched roofs. I went around a yard by feeling, but I didn't see the child. I was about to turn around when I heard a motive for searching carefully. The sound came from a very shabby window. I am really one-track-minded. I thought that boy was playing hide-and-seek with me. He was joking and was going to run over to scare him.

Someone asked why there are such inaccessible villages in China. Well, to be honest, I didn't believe it before I went, but the facts are there, and there are many more. This is another story. Let's continue to talk about what happened at that time.

When I crept by, I shouted "Wow" and rushed to the window. Looking closely, the window is gray, and there seems to be a thin iron fence inside. Just as I gave a cry, the noise inside stopped at once. I'm still thinking foolishly that the children won't be scared by me. So I leaned my face to look at it, because it was bright outside and dark inside the window, and it looked very hard. I also raised my hand to cover it and put it on the glass on my forehead.

A man with long hair pounced on me and scared me back.

Looking back on it for so many years, I really regret it. All this confirmed the tragedy that happened later, but at that time, I didn't think about these things at all. Jumping back a step, I saw the man with long hair, like me, stare blankly for a moment, and then raised his hand fiercely, shaking the windows open.

At this time, my phone rang, and my family urged me to go back, saying that the old man was drunk and woke up. The village chief insisted that we have another lunch, only to eat or not to drink this time. To be honest, I'm lost and don't know how to get back. The man was still patting the window when he called.

I left the yard while talking on the phone.

I hung up the phone and waited at the gate of the yard for a while, then I saw Housheng coming to me with the villagers. Later, I learned that this village is not big, but the road is winding. My position at that time was actually not far from the village head's house. When the afterlife comes,

You can still hear the sound of knocking on the window in the yard. I'm going to talk to the younger generation about it. In fact, I was afraid that people inside would rush out and hit me, because all I could think about was whether I scared people or not, so they patted the window.

A sign of anger.

As a result, the young man took my hand and left. There is a tall and strong man with him in the village. He walked into the yard and said a few words loudly. Because it is a dialect, I can't understand it. There was no movement in the window at once.

That's how stupid I am to follow my younger generation. When I arrived at the village head's house, the younger generation suddenly said to me, "I'm sorry, I scared you, just because I am the silly daughter-in-law of XX family."

Before I could answer the phone, the village chief came to pick me up. Last night, it was too late to see clearly. When you look at it during the day, the village head's house is actually very shabby. Many tables and chairs in the yard don't match, and some benches are still missing half a piece. However, there are many busy people and many women and children. It is estimated that all the women in the village have been mobilized to cook and do odd jobs.

When the old man at home quietly came to let me go, he paid more money. It is said that the village killed the pig to meet us. By the way, in some places, a fish was cooked for the New Year, and it arrived at 15 at 30, so I stopped eating it and put it on the table. Last night, we were stupid. Some people reached for chopsticks and began to eat. Early this morning, the village head sent someone to buy fish far away.

I'm basically not worried about anything. I forgot the so-called "XX's stupid daughter-in-law" as soon as I ate it. I don't know if you have seen the kind of big noodles in the countryside, the kind with many tables. When a village has dinner together, women basically don't serve, which makes my harem sitting on the table very angry and embarrassed to say.

Although this place is humble everywhere, there are more dishes than last night, and the food is dazzling. I was busy helping the old people give up drinking last night and didn't eat much. I still feel a little uncomfortable in my stomach, so I bow my head and bake food. At this time, a younger one appeared.

The woman served the food and sent it directly to my arms. Although I was surprised, I immediately freed my hands to get the big bowl of food (in mountainous areas, most of the time, I used sea bowls to hold food). As soon as I got the food, I felt that there was something under the bowl and there were two people there.

During the communication, the woman stared at me with her eyes. I can't forget those eyes and her appearance for so many years. What kind of eyes are those? They look desperate and painful.

I sit at the same table with the village chief. Seeing this woman delivering food to my arms, the village chief said loudly, I can't remember exactly what it is, as if to scold her for not having long eyes and not being able to see such a big table. My wife seized an opportunity to help the woman say that I put the dish bowl on the table and subconsciously hid the hard things in my hand.

The woman didn't stay on the table for long. As soon as the village chief scolded her, an older woman dragged her away with a dialect in her mouth, and she was never seen at the banquet later.

The things in my hand are hard, and I'm sweating all over. I always feel that many people on the table are staring at me, and I can't think of any change of mind at the moment. Subconsciously, I knew that this should never be opened in front of everyone.

After a while, I used the excuse to go to the toilet, and no one was with me. I ran to the toilet alone in three steps and two steps. The toilet in the countryside is a big pit, regardless of gender. The door is a half wooden door. I knocked and no one spoke, so I pushed it in. As soon as I entered, I opened my palm and folded a piece of white paper into a thin stick. I smoothed out the note with two pencil words "Help me" on it.

At that time, there was a "buzz" in my mind, and I instantly remembered the "silly daughter-in-law of XX family" just now, and then I remembered the woman's eyes.

Sorry to swear, I couldn't help it at that time. "Mama of, this won't be human trafficking!"

My first reaction at that time was to take out my mobile phone and dial 1 10. After I took it out, I thought, no, the villagers must stop watching the police save lives on TV. My dad is still here. What if they get angry and take us hostage? There are several women in our party!

People are really selfish products. I know you will scold me when you see this, but I really thought so at that time. This hellhole is too far away. The police won't be here for hours at the earliest. In case I am exposed during this time, my old man is too old to get involved in anything. I squatted in that stinking toilet, thinking and thinking, thinking and thinking.

Finally, I decided not to call the police first, quietly, get some specific news first, and call the police as soon as I leave this place. Because there is only such a note so far, and there is no name and contact information. The imprisoned woman, I don't remember where she was held. Alas, in short, there are only two words left in my hand, "help"

After deciding, I folded the note and hid it in the dark layer of my wallet. Back to the wine industry.

It turned out that I didn't call the police immediately, because it wasn't long before I got back to the liquor store, and the village chief introduced me to a person who shocked me.

According to the village head, because we decided to come to their village last night, many people didn't have time to come (in fact, I hated to wonder later, is my old man so embarrassed? Today, many old people and younger generations in this village have come to introduce us.

Saying yes is actually a toast, and you know you can't escape drinking. I can't wait to leave at once, because I have an idea in my heart. Even if I look at people, I am still paying attention to the woman who gave me the note, but unfortunately I have never seen her again.

Walking to a table near the door, the village chief introduced me that the middle-aged man in front of me was the second-in-command of the police station in charge of this administrative village group.

I don't know much about these villages, administrative groups and towns, but what the village chief said at that time made me very clear. What I saw in front of me was the meaning of representing the citizens. I was afraid that if I really called the police.

I don't think I can leave this village alive. 1 10 must have been transferred to the nearest police force. Isn't he in charge of this police force? See if they know each other so well, will they turn against the abducted woman? ! It's dark!

So the idea of typing 1 10 as soon as I left the village was overthrown by me. I was full of all kinds of ideas. Why did I tell you from the beginning that it would be nice if the village was close to the bus stop or bus stop? Now this terrible place, the broken road of Panshan Mountain, we can't get out without anyone walking!

Then on second thought, these old-fashioned people are fixed in their thinking, and maybe young people are easier to talk to, so I found the young man who brought us here first and began to befriend him. Ask him where he works and what he does, but he wants to develop in a big city.

The young man's eyes lit up when he heard the big city. He told me that young people nowadays don't want to stay in the deep ditch, but want to go out and start a business. But their diplomas are low, and most of them work as coolies outside (their school is far from here).

The distance is far, the conditions are poor, and most importantly, if there is no man at home, it is easy to be bullied. To tell you the truth, I really find it funny to hear this view. But after listening to his words in detail, I feel very heavy.

The cultivated land on the mountain is barren. Reclaiming cultivated land is not so simple, and it will cause landslides if you are not careful. Therefore, it can be said that if there is no male labor force at home, it will be easily swallowed up by neighboring villagers. Today, there are many kinds.

A little bit of your home, a little more tomorrow, and it will be the land of adults in a year or so. And although it is said that relying on mountains to eat mountains, these are heavy physical activities, such as chestnut trees, which kill people every year. I wonder if you have seen the board.

What do chestnuts look like? The shell is full of thorns, and young people go up the tree to beat chestnuts. The people below can't dodge, and they stab their eyes. If there is no man in your family, others will gossip. It is better to be taken care of by others than to waste it.

I asked him how many men there were in his family, and he said three brothers. I took the opportunity to persuade him to come out. In fact, my inner thoughts start with him. Because he must know how many abducted women there are in the village now. I told him, if you want.

Come back with us this time and I'll help you find a job. You don't need to do coolies. You can be a security guard, go to night school while doing it, and then do high-tech work after getting a diploma. The afterlife was also convinced by me.

At that time, I naively thought that it was time to take the younger generation with me, talk on the road, and leave their sphere of influence before calling for help.

I really want to say, I really want to say that I made up stories to scare you.

I also want to say that I wisely saved all the girls and SHEN WOO.

But I didn't do it. I'm not superman. I'm so selfish. What I wanted at that time was to rescue the old man and his wife around me first. I think the whole thing is very simple, and it can be said that it is stupid and naive. After saying goodbye to the village chief, I left this village with my younger generation and my family, which will still worry me.

As soon as I got the car, I ignored the old man's request for a few days. I took everyone directly to the county seat. My family felt indebted to the whole village and had no objection to my behavior of always taking the younger generation with me. We also discussed who is more suitable to introduce the young man to work.

On the day I arrived in the county seat, I took the young man out to buy cigarettes, took him to a secluded place, and took out the note in my wallet to show him. I said, don't lie to me, are there any girls who have been bought in your village?

The young man smiled. Yes, many people bought it. As you can see, our village is so poor that who will marry if we don't buy it?

It turned out that I thought I would be righteous and angry on the day of the showdown. But in the face of boys' flat faces, I have no confidence at all.

Is the silly daughter-in-law of XX family who you told me the other day also abducted?

Yes, I didn't lie to you. She is really stupid. She doesn't know when she bought it. Sister X (the name of the trafficker who often brings girls to sell) said it was silly to take them from others. I don't know if it's too much medicine or stupidity. It's much cheaper for a fool to have one, 8 thousand yuan.

Do you know that buying women is illegal?

I know, but there's nothing I can do.

The young man's face is ruthless, and there is still a trace of what you can do to me.

When I told the young man that I was going to call the police. I don't even believe my words are mandatory.

The young man told me that the police knew these things. On the one hand, many policemen themselves came out of small villages. Fiona Fang Shili is a relative. You take somebody else's daughter-in-law, you break their fragrance, and you can't pull your face down. another

On the other hand, it is really necessary to have the police from other provinces to save people, or fight guerrilla warfare, hand over the daughter-in-law to Aunt X and move to another village, and then change to someone the police don't know as a daughter-in-law. Either the whole village is out, and in this respect, everyone is very United.

Because today you don't help others to protect your daughter-in-law, tomorrow your own daughter-in-law runs away, and you have nothing. In the village, it costs at least tens of thousands to buy a daughter-in-law, which is basically all the savings of a family and can be bought for a lifetime.

One.

The young man told me that I would call the police now. When the police went to the village, there was no one.

I asked the young man, don't you have any sisters? Don't you feel bad that your sister was tortured by traffickers?

The young man looked me in the eye and said, my sister remarried my brother.

It turns out that such a poor mountain village won't keep idle people. When a girl grows up, she will change relatives and go to other poor mountain villages for her brother's marriage.

Well, how can I put it? Girls must pay attention to traveling alone. Don't talk to strangers, don't eat things handed over by strangers, don't be curious, follow strangers, don't be trite, don't care. Many abducted girls are highly educated and must know these old common sense, but scammers always use tricks to blind their eyes.

Originally, I wanted to hide this memory deeply, but it was very heavy to see many people regard being trafficked into the mountains as a cold joke. What you think, killing, poisoning. It is really unrealistic. Through that young man, I realized that Mrs. X was just a transit person, and the traffickers were divided into several parts. They often walk around the mountains with two vendors and three vendors, buying people from home. In their mouth, the living are like commodities. There are costs, losses and risks. The risk of child trafficking is the lowest, because children are easier to control than adults. But most villagers are reluctant to buy other people's sons except those who are infertile in their own families, and they all want to buy them.

Daughter-in-law comes back to have a baby.

Has anyone escaped? Yes

This escape probability is inversely proportional to the distance between the trafficker and the girl near the village. The farther the distance, the higher the chance of escape. If you really enter the village, it will be difficult to turn the sky upside down.

Many times, traffickers rely on deception, because it is a long way to go. Relying entirely on drugs will lead to the same fate as XX's stupid daughter-in-law, and it is very likely that they will die or be stupid. The young man said that Sister-in-law X was not rich. Her husband died young, and her remarried husband was injured and disabled while working in other places. The whole family is supported by Sister-in-law X. At first, she went out to work, then went to various villages to take care of the children and slowly began to take care of the girls. She also wants to buy her family with capital. It's too risky to go out alone because the price is uncertain. When there are many "goods" on hand, the price of X sister-in-law is very low, so it is enough to earn more.

In the end, I think there is no way to hide it, and the young man understands it. He asked me if I wasn't going to help him find a job.

I said no, I can help you find a job in the city, as long as you come with me, but you must help me. I want to know the name of the girl in your village, or you can ask her home phone number for me. I won't call the police. I'm going to find their families.

The young man was silent for a long time and told me a story.

The young man said that the daughter-in-law bought in the village would inevitably cry when she woke up.

Some people make a lot of noise. If they hit their heads against the wall, they must tie a piece of cloth on the bed and starve for a few meals before they can be honest.

There are also people who don't make any noise. They cry and try to run away.

The old man in the village said that it would be nice to have children.

One year, Houcun's family bought a daughter-in-law, which was amazing. Most of the fun ran away. I can't find many villages to help me find them. I don't know whether to hide in the mountains and wait for dawn to escape or fall to the bottom of the mountain in the middle of the night and die. I can't find them anyway.

The old mother cried for several days, because all the money in the family was taken out to buy this daughter-in-law, and finally hanged herself.

After the news spread, everyone was nervous for a long time. Before long, Sister X brought the girl here again. It's really pitiful to see this family. There is really no money. Just tell his family that I also sold you the last girl, and this girl will treat me as good to you. But I hope all the children are born, as long as they are girls, and I don't want many, just two.

The family was very happy, and thousands of Xie Wan thanked her for seeing Sister X off. ..

The girl begged her family, saying that if you are short of money, my family has money, and my family has a lot of money. I will give you whatever money you want. I won't call the police. I'll give you a number. You can call me. My family will never call the police. I will send you money and buy you some wives.

The family disagreed at first, but then the girl went on a hunger strike and lay in bed to swallow her last breath.

If the girl dies, the family not only has no wife, but also owes a debt to Sister-in-law X, so they panic and call the girl's family.

The girl's family came from far away after talking to the girl on the phone. As said on the phone, they didn't call the police and brought a lot of money. Finally, a big bag full of cash was thrown at the entrance of the village, and dozens of villagers carried the girl out on stretchers.

The girl's family left with her and never showed up again.

My family took the money to see Sister-in-law X and wanted to say that I have money now and can afford a daughter-in-law. Unexpectedly, sister-in-law X was very angry and said that the rules were broken at home. Not only will I not sell my daughter-in-law again. The whole village can't sell, and people at home are in a panic.

Yes I went to the village head, and finally the village came forward to talk to Sister X, and gave most of the money to Sister X. Sister X only said that she would help introduce someone who did this business, so she wouldn't come to this village again.

I understand the young man's intention to tell me this story.

He can't help me, absolutely not.

How deep this hidden rule is, is it really out of your control?

I don't think so. Some time ago, Weibo rescued abducted children. Didn't you save many children? The power of ordinary people can be saved, why can't the official power?

Then I talked a lot with the young man, and I can't remember exactly what I talked about. Anyway, in the end, we parted ways there

I don't know what he will say to the villagers when he goes back, but I remember begging him not to say anything about the note "Help".

When I came back, I told my family the whole story. The old man smoked more than half a cigarette in one breath and couldn't say a word.

Then we will go home as soon as possible. After returning home, I found a friend who works in the police station and asked him about it.

As soon as he opened his mouth, he asked me the girl's name and contact information of her family.

I can't say anything. I only have a small note in my hand, only two words. I can't sleep those nights. Those eyes are always in front of me. I know I'm sorry for her and that imprisoned woman. But I have no choice. What I can do is to report the name of this village to my friends. He said he could only do his best. Do you want to leave the rest to fate?

When a package asked me to announce Mrs. X's name, the young man told me the word "Zhang". I don't know whether it is "Zhang" or "Zhang". Up to now, that note has been in my wallet.

This is my only evidence.

I don't have girls' surnames, and I even blur their looks. The first girl who was imprisoned, I didn't even see her face. Usually watching American TV shows and watching CSI, people can be convicted by fingerprints. But in real life, nothing can be done.

Later, I invited my friends to dinner and asked about the follow-up things. My friend told me that it is impossible for them to go to the police without conclusive evidence at such a long distance. Only through internal relations can I ask about the number of women in the village in those years.

There are four or five people with the least population, and the two I saw should be one of them. If you can get the girl's last name and first name, you should check it in the national system. Better contact her family. If the family comes over, things will get worse and the media will get involved.

It's easy to get out. But the complexity is beyond my imagination. What if this girl is an only child, her parents love her and her family sells her? What if she has a baby and can't conceive it? this

Some of these situations happened in the rescue, and they made great efforts to save the girl. As a result, a few years later, she missed the children in the village and went back.

People are resold like animals. Sometimes, what's the point of thinking about these people alive?

Just to breed. . . Pass on your ignorance and poverty genes from generation to generation.

On the other hand, they are actually very simple, and their ideas are almost stupid. They save money, marry wives and have children. ....

After communicating with my friends, I can do nothing but wait. In those years, the internet was far less developed than it is now. Unlike now, maybe the mobile phone clicked and took photos and sent them online. That year I was still using Nokia, a quasi-brick machine without a camera. Some time ago, I watched Weibo abduction, and some experts said it was not nice to speak standing up, but I think one can be saved.

Later, my friend told me that I didn't know whether it was lucky or unlucky. What are the policies for catching up with the central authorities? Pay attention to the following performance. Several places were either hit or trafficked. He will get some wind when he thinks about what I entrusted to him.

Later, the village was also affected, because I didn't know the woman's name, so among the two women rescued, I'm not sure if there is one I can't forget. My friend also said, in fact, solving two problems is also partial.

Compromise to a certain extent, of the two, 1 is silly (I should have seen it) and I can't send it. The other contacted his family to collect it. But the information is confidential. He wanted to look at the photos for me, but he didn't see what they looked like.

That sister-in-law, or sister-in-law, has never been caught.

Guess they didn't notice either. Or wait until the next big move and make a trophy.

But my friend also hinted that we should not go to our home and village in the future. Everyone is not a fool. We will leave soon, and we will be kidnapped. It can't be such a coincidence.

I just hope that people who can read this post, especially girls, will stop taking the word trafficking in women far away. At that time, I felt far away from me.

Needless to say, the rest. People who can understand will naturally understand.

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