The chat record between college students and their parents became popular, and the whole family was actors. After reading it, they laughed.

Compared with western parents, parents in China are used to expressing their love for their children in an implicit way. Communication between parents and children has always been a difficult problem. Parents think they care about their children out of kindness, but children think their parents are too wordy. With the growth of children's age, the two sides are increasingly lacking in common language.

Especially in children's junior high school and high school, children are in a rebellious period, and there is a generation gap between parents and children, and the communication between the two sides has fallen into a trough. But when children enter the university, they will understand their parents' care and the two sides will start to communicate with each other. However, some college students' WeChat communication records with their parents make others laugh.

First, don't try to kiss up to beg for living expenses.

Contemporary college students earn less money and spend more. Old father and old mother have seen through their children. When the children sent the words "Dad, I miss you so much", one dad was not unexpectedly moved, but replied: Please don't miss me until the end of the month! Father only made it clear: don't try to beg for living expenses in advance by flattering!

Second, you can't fall in love.

Nowadays, many parents are very open-minded and especially support their children to fall in love during college. However, when a classmate told his parents that they were in love, his father's first reaction was: How did you know? How can I find a girlfriend? Mom's reaction is more direct: if you want living expenses, just say so. Why do you have to find such an obvious excuse to lie?

Third, I don't want to talk to you, just want to perfunctory you.

Expression pack is a popular way of communication among young people. In order to blend in with children, many parents also learn to talk to their children with expression packs. Some fun parents, with fashionable expression packs, simply slipped away. A classmate replied to his mother that he would be back soon. He thinks he will be warmly welcomed by his mother. Unexpectedly, his mother threw him an extremely perfunctory expression pack: you ugly thing, don't come over.

Fourth, you were caught.

The children above want to cry when they see their parents' reply, and the girls below are afraid of being scared by their father's reply. The conversation between father and daughter was warm and considerate. The daughter paid a New Year call to her father, who replied that she was still patrolling. My daughter said that she would show fireworks to her father. I didn't expect her father to reply coldly the next second: We are catching fireworks.

Some parents' replies are quite satisfactory, some are funny and lively, and some parents keep forwarding some online links to their children. No matter what kind of communication method, parents want to communicate with their children without obstacles, and they all care about their children.

We have grown up, what can we do to reassure our parents?

1, focusing on practical actions

Many students are too arrogant to put down their airs and try something that looks grounded. They can't do high-level things. His parents worried about her and advised him to keep his feet on the ground, but he turned a deaf ear and always fantasized about his great achievements in the future. In fact, it is better to prove your strength with practical actions now than to blindly imagine the future.

2. Add a resume.

When graduating from college, many employers attach great importance to students' resumes after four years of college. If the resume is full of achievements, it will be easier to find the ideal job and reassure parents. If your resume is blank, you may not find a job after graduation, and parents will be worried.

During college, some people worked hard to get scholarships; Some people join student associations or student unions, participate in organizing large-scale activities, and exercise their abilities; Some people actively participate in various competitions and obtain heavyweight certificates; Some people submit internship applications to their favorite units early to accumulate practical experience. These are all good ways to increase your resume.

Summary:

Parents are always the people who care about their children the most in the world. As a student, don't dislike the long-winded management of parents. You might as well communicate with your parents more, which will not only bring the feelings of two generations closer, but also drive your parents to keep up with the development of the times. Maybe you can find some interesting things about your parents.