High EQ responds to others' ridicule.

High emotional intelligence replies to ridicule from others. In our life, we will meet some people who are biased against others. If they don't like anything, they like to ridicule others. If ridiculed, how can high emotional intelligence respond to the ridicule of others? The following is the relevant content I have compiled. Let's have a look.

High EQ replies to ridicule 1 If you are bitten by a dog, you can't bite the dog!

In the same way, sometimes directly refuting will make you have low emotional intelligence, make others look down on you, and make people who ridicule or scold you achieve the purpose of angering you. There is a way to try. If others ridicule you, you can scold yourself all over, and it's best to belittle yourself as worthless and exaggerate, so that those who ridicule you can't react at once, and they can't speak again if they want to scold you. In the eyes of others, you have also created an image of being good at controlling emotions, optimistic and humble, which will make those who scold you look embarrassed.

Sometimes, for various reasons, a person may be laughed at, insulted and abused by others. At this time, most people will be particularly angry, then tit for tat, and finally both lose.

However, some people may choose to treat it coldly and silently. Such people are generally highly cultivated. They don't want to care about people with low quality. They know that silence is the most powerful way to fight back. After a long time, people who ridicule, insult and abuse others are bored because they can't find the goal, so they naturally stop their bad behavior and expose their ugly faces. Those who are ridiculed and insulted win without fighting.

This is not Ah Q's spiritual victory method, but the performance of high emotional intelligence. Imagine that the dog has bitten. Do you want to take another bite? Dogs are not sensible, and people can't be as unreasonable as livestock. Bear it if you can. As the saying goes, "Take a step back and broaden the horizon for a while."

Please remember this passage: dogs can't be fed too much, and people can't be too good; Endure a moment to push your luck, take a step back and intensify; Don't make too many jokes, or it will be a disaster; Love is not enough, money comes together; There are a group of dogs behind the rich, and it is difficult to move without money; See clearly what is good for you and remember who bit you; Eat and drink, don't take things to heart; Mortals only speak three points, leaving seven points to conquer the world.

Gold and silver parents, the art of their works, everyone is different, mine is art.

Many of us can't stand being laughed at and abused. How should we choose the way to deal with it at this time? Is it better to keep silent about each other's behavior, or to speak out and fight back directly? Well, we just don't know how to deal with such a thing in the first place. Such a thing is actually an emergency in life, and we all need to pay attention to it. We can't always be laughed at and insulted by people pointing their noses. In this case, there must be some countermeasures.

1. What kind of person will insult you in front of many people or point directly at your nose? Such people really have no quality. If a person's behavior, as a bystander, is actually a wait-and-see mentality, they are not interested in the facts. Faced with such people, we'd better ignore them. Such people are really low-quality people. No matter what happens, it's all kinds of ridicule and insult to people, really. Because the more we pay attention, the higher the mood of such people will be, but it will intensify for us. There is no point in responding directly. We'd better control our emotions and don't lower our quality because of such low-quality people, which is wrong.

Second, we can actually think about it. There is no point in these people doing these things. Abuse and ridicule will not change anything, and will have no impact on both sides. However, it will cause more negative emotions. When we meet such a person, we can directly reason with him and tell him what the facts are, and we also need to bear the facts ourselves. When many people ridicule and insult a person, they all grasp the psychology that the other person doesn't want to admit or dare not admit the facts. Once admitted generously, such a thing is actually very easy to solve, and the other party has nothing to say and can't go on. At this time, if we are broad-minded, we can stop arguing with such people. If we have some uncomfortable psychology, we can take advantage of each other's language loopholes.

In the face of other people's bad words, you should bear them. If you can't stand it, you don't need to stand it anymore. We have no reason to think that people bully others, but we still suggest that static braking is the most witty choice.

High emotional intelligence responds to ridicule from others. In life, how do people with high emotional intelligence respond to insults from others?

Why do people who insult you insult you?

Why does a person abuse others for no reason? I don't think there is any reason to be unreasonable, so I personally think that this conflict may not be unilateral, and there must be reasons, but no matter what the reason, insulting others is definitely not a good way to deal with contradictions.

However, for us, how to understand being abused by others? Psychologically speaking, insulting others is also the development of a psychological defense system. In this process, swearing people use sharp words, high-pitched voices and body language to enhance their sense of self-strength, which is a subconscious inferiority complex and wants to protect their psychological state. Regardless of who is right or wrong in the end, in fact, people who swear are guilty. After we understand this kind of psychology, we can actually understand it to a certain extent, but we can't tolerate it.

So as a person with high emotional intelligence, it is obviously not a good idea to scold him. Then, it is a good way to adjust the mentality in time and defeat his psychological system. Since you are so angry and scold me, I will make you even angrier, and then let others see your jokes, and then I will make myself angry to death.

1. Ignore/laugh it off: that is, disdain to care. In ancient times, there were three generations of Confucius who politely refused to argue with them. Today, there are descendants like us who imitate the wisdom of saints. Moreover, when you don't give each other a stage to display, it is actually a kind of cold violence (who doesn't know: silence is sometimes the most powerful counterattack? ), as a result, the other party will be more and more depressed-the face of self-abandonment will not be too far away, and it will follow; On the contrary, emotional intelligence experts have the effect of winning without fighting, so why not? It's like someone giving you a "gift". If you don't accept it, the "gift" naturally belongs to each other. what can I do? If this can be done, the tragedy of a young couple who died and was injured in that hospital may not have happened.

2. Yes or no: Clever response makes it impossible for the other party to attack further. Everyone has probably heard of Wang Meng's wise response. 1June, 1986, Minister of Culture Wang Meng attended a press conference at home and abroad. A foreign reporter asked him with ulterior motives: "What are the similarities and differences between Wang Meng in the 1950s and Wang Meng in the 1980s?" Wang Meng replied quickly and promptly: "My name was Wang Meng in the 1950s and I was also Wang Meng in the 1980s, which is the same;": The difference is that I was in my twenties in the 1950s, and I was in my fifties in the 1980s. "It seems that the solution is to the point, but it is empty and untrue, yes or no!

3. Turn decay into magic: When an American delegation visited China, an official threw out a sentence that contained great insult to China people: "China people like to walk with their heads down, but we Americans always walk with our heads up." When this was said, four seats were shocked. However, Premier Zhou Enlai took his time and replied with a smile: "This is not surprising, because we in China like to go uphill, while you Americans like to go downhill." Haha, what a master of Tai Chi. He finally returned the embarrassment and embarrassment to the Americans.

When others ridicule or scold you, reply directly, which shows that your emotional intelligence is low and makes others look down on you.

If others ridicule you, you can laugh at yourself, and you'd better belittle yourself as worthless and exaggerate.

People who mock you can't react at once, and they can't speak if they want to scold you again. In the eyes of others, you have also created an image of being good at controlling emotions, optimistic and humble, which will make those who scold you look embarrassed.

Sometimes, a person may be laughed at, insulted and reviled by others. At this time, most people will be particularly angry, then tit for tat, tit for tat, and finally both lose.

But some people may choose to treat it coldly and silently. Such people are generally highly cultivated.

They don't want to argue with people with low quality. They know that silence is the most powerful counterattack.

After a long time, people who ridicule, insult and abuse others are bored because they can't find the goal, so they naturally stop their bad behavior and expose their ugly faces. Those who are ridiculed and insulted win without fighting.

High EQ replies to ridicule 3 1 and ignores it.

A person who can ridicule others to their face is usually not a high-level person, so it is totally meaningless to get angry or quarrel with such a person. Ignore each other's rhetoric, but just continue to do what you should do, which can not only stop rumors from coming from the wise, but also let the other side have nowhere to drill.

2. Laugh at yourself.

When being ridiculed by others, following this trend to make a certain self-mockery will immediately turn the original awkward atmosphere into happiness, and you will also give yourself and the other party a step, which is several times better than confrontation.

Both of these performances can show our high emotional intelligence and hone our character. We must firmly believe that any ridicule is our driving force!