Why do men always treat women badly?

In fact, every man is a good man, but after something happens, let them change constantly. Let me show you an article. Before he was ten, he knew nothing. As a child, he didn't know the value of time, but he lived a carefree life. At the age of thirteen or fourteen, he began to have a good impression on girls, but at that time he was far away from girls, and the girls' minds matured early. Because of his male chauvinism, he is afraid of being laughed at by his peers, so he doesn't want to get too close to girls, but they are psychologically yearning to play with girls. At the age of fifteen, he heard from adults that a man liked flowers, dumped his girlfriend and the girl committed suicide. He thinks this man is really vicious. He must be an infatuated man in the future, and he only loves one person in his life. When he was fifteen, he saw his father beating his mother. They separated for a long time, and her mother went to Lacrimosa every day. He swore not to be rough with women. When he was sixteen, he fell in love with a girl, but he was afraid to tell her. At this time, the boys are at a shy age, but this is the age when they will silently give love. In order not to attract attention, they played football on the dusty playground. Playing basketball on the playground. Only when girls were lazy to run small shops, he deliberately showed fearlessness and contracted a snack business owner for girls. Only when the girl walked out of the school gate did he hide in the window on the second floor to see her back. He thinks she must be an angel. At the age of seventeen, a girl fell in love with him. He carefully avoided her but didn't know how to refuse. He only has his own girl in mind, and he thinks it is disloyal to her to look at other girls. When I was eighteen, I watched an idol drama, and I was moved to cry, but my tears were hidden in my heart. He thought that if his girl lost her eyes, he would give them to her without hesitation like a hero, so that she could see the light again. If a girl loses her legs in a car accident, she will stay with her all her life. /kloc-at the age of 0/9, she passed the college entrance examination and finally separated from the girl she secretly loved. When she went to school by train, she felt that she was getting farther and farther away from her and her heart was hollowed out. Reason told him it was impossible. I'm thinking, I'll never forget her, and I must go to her after I succeed. At the same time, I am thinking that my university will open another door for my soul, maybe I will change my mind ... When I was twenty years old, I heard someone telling dirty jokes and felt that this person was really shameful. At the age of twenty, he saw a group of big men watching porn on TV, and he was pushed in. After seeing this photo, he felt that his soul had been greatly defiled. At the age of twenty-one, he wanted to talk to someone, maybe just a pen pal. But she must be a woman. Only a woman's delicate mind can explain his fragility and his intolerance of men. He doesn't understand that the hug at the dormitory door is really their mutual satisfaction, and there is no substitute? He was sad about it all night. At the age of twenty-two, he confessed to a girl. The girl said, "You are nice, but I am not suitable for you ..." He thought I was really a good person. He said, "Never mind, I can wait for you. He continues to pursue hard, even if he wants to die for her, he is willing to think, I will not be like those playboys, I can wait for three years and five years. When I was twenty-three, I heard that the girl fell in love with a handsome boy. He is very confused. He met a group of companions. He can't accept the way they talk. But at the moment, he thinks they are reasonable and worth getting along with. They may grow up quickly, and he will find one. Like them, he is still ambitious, but he has learned to wear a mask. At 24, he has no reason to wait. He confessed to another girl and was moved by the sincerity of the boy. The boy gave her a sense of accomplishment. He was ecstatic about it. He took her to eat, drink and have fun. He introduced her to his brothers, went out to sing and climbed mountains and swam together. Two years later, it suddenly rained heavily. The girl said, "You are very kind to me, but I am sorry for you. "He thought for a long time, how could you be sorry for me? A week later, she learned that the girl had married her older brother. A wave of anger burned from her heart. He can't stand such betrayal. He found her and slapped her twice/he broke his oath and regretted hitting her. She seems helpless. He found that his feelings can be so fragile ... his feelings are getting less and less, and he can't waste any more. At the age of twenty-five, he talked to a girl easily again. This time, the girl likes him very much. He can't get much, because he is afraid, but he still treats her as his wife psychologically. Finally, one day, he broke the silence ... the girl said you were not good to me ... and he cried. The boy knows that this test is not only for her to go through ... he lost her who didn't love her enough ... and she also learned to take revenge. A person who pursues the perfection of love, he found that he didn't think about his body when he was with so many girls. He didn't do anything irresponsible, and he even felt a little regretful. Maybe he can continue to love his body. Is that the love he wants? He is so numb. At the age of 26, he began to fall. Dress up in cool fashion and gradually learn to please girls. Soon, he had a girlfriend. Although he is kind to her, he knows in his heart that he doesn't love her. He learned to act .. At the age of 27, he broke up with that girl. He said to the girl, "you are a good girl, but I am sorry for you." I can't keep you any longer. The girl cried for him, but he was even colder. At the age of 28, he tried a one-night stand and found that others could, and so could he. He understood the truth of having fun separately. At the age of twenty-nine, he learned to tell dirty jokes, and he learned to trick others into watching porn, taking pleasure in watching the girl next to him blush. At the age of thirty, he suddenly found himself capable of pursuing girls and having an affair with many women, but he lost the ability to love. In fact, every boy originally wanted to be a good man with single-minded feelings. In fact, every man always looks at a girl's face instead of her figure, even her connotation instead of her appearance. Actually, not every man can tell dirty jokes. Don't watch porn. In fact, every boy is eager to love someone forever. However, no girl loves such a boy. They think such boys are too naive, too old-fashioned and boring. So the boys began to change and became the kind of girls who like greedy mouths. Learn to say sweet words, not what you want to say. I began to conquer my soul with my body to explain my lonely vacancy ... I began to learn to pretend to care, to send trinkets to please a girl, and to learn how to pursue and grasp love. Or he who sees through the world of mortals, plays with love and becomes the kind of man that women hate. They can easily capture the hearts of girls, but they still cry with cigarettes in the dark. There is love in the heart, there is no girl; There is a girl who has never felt in love! When a man hears a woman complain that there are no good men in the world, he will stop trying to be a good man and just walk by with a smile. You know ... Is it worth it? Go ahead, I'll still hold you and laugh and cry. You still need my hug ... my passion and my words ... In fact, there are many good men in this world, and some women force them to be bad. When you give all your heart and tears, all you get is bitterness and pain. You will choose numbness, it is difficult to give your true feelings, and even the lacrimal gland will shrink from now on.