As a girl, should I choose to pursue a hard career or a quiet life?

I think as a girl, I should choose to pursue a hard-working career.

1. Why should a girl work hard? Because life is never just because you are a girl.

2. Why should a girl work hard? Because there is no gender in the workplace, only competition, survival of the fittest, out of discomfort.

3. Why should a girl work hard? Because if you want to enter a high-quality circle, you must have a good match. Don't be a social butterfly, be a strength pie.

4. Why should a girl work hard? Because filial piety without economic foundation is powerless, you must be a warm-hearted little cotton-padded jacket, and you must be able to support the elderly independently.

5. Why should a girl work hard? Because marriage supports rather than helps the poor, pure feelings can last long. I like a line in Divorce Lawyer about why girls work hard: I work hard so that one day when I stand by and watch the person I love, I can open my hand and hug him calmly, no matter whether he has money or not. I don't have to feel aloof if he is rich, and we won't be down and out if he is poor. It is said that girls should marry the right person. This couple must be in tune with each other and try to synchronize, instead of waiting for someone to reward them for nothing.

6. Why should a girl work hard? For a long-term career, for a pair of hardworking parents, for a pure feeling, for a better self. Although the future is never known, as long as you are willing to work hard, all the years you want will be given to you.

Is it important for a woman to marry well or to do well?

This beautiful marriage must have a premise. In this competitive era, if you don't manage yourself well, how can you marry well? Women must work hard.

Women must have the capital to love themselves better first. Hard work, how much money you earn, is earned through hard work, and you feel at ease. Hard work and how much money you earn are all in your own hands. You can spend whatever you want and do whatever you want. A woman's hard work to gain fame and fortune is not a real goal, but a thing outside her body that comes with it.

7. The most important thing is to realize self-worth through your own efforts and gain social recognition and respect from others. Such women's sense of self-happiness and happiness is different from that of ordinary women, and it is based on self-confidence and sense of accomplishment.

When a woman marries a rich husband, she may have superior materials, so don't worry about her livelihood. But even a capable husband can't give you a sense of social value and respect from others. Women can rely on their parents and men, but the most important person is themselves. So, honey, knowing this, do you want to be a woman attached to a man or a woman with him in Walk with Me? Don't envy women who are more successful and happier than you, because they must have made more efforts behind you. In this world, there is really no success or happiness for no reason. Success and happiness are achieved by our own efforts. (Excerpted from reading in Ding Dong)

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