Dad doesn't laugh when his daughter gets married.

That's because my mother experienced running away from home, but my father didn't. It was not until my daughter was in her twenties that she had this experience for the first time, which was more difficult to accept psychologically than her mother.

This explanation is quite reasonable: because in that era when women married men, when mothers got married, they already felt the feeling of leaving their loved ones. Since their marriage, they have more deeply realized the feeling of "being a guest at their parents' home and being an outsider at their in-laws' home". Now that I have a daughter, I will also understand psychologically that she will definitely experience the mental journey she has experienced before, so it will be easier to accept her daughter's wedding.

And my father, from before marriage to after marriage, has never experienced the feeling of leaving his loved ones. It was not until his daughter got married that he first realized what it was like to leave his loved ones. His daughter, who has been raised for more than 20 years, went to live in someone else's house, which was psychologically unacceptable.

Because of this, at the daughter's wedding, without the mother present, the father often seems very calm.

Men know men better and don't want their baby daughter to suffer.

Dad is more worried about his daughter. On the one hand, the reason is that dad knows men better and knows how men think, so he is afraid that his daughter will suffer, especially when her daughter is in love, and always wants to take care of her more. When a daughter gets married, if the father is lazy at home and has some male chauvinism, he will think that the son-in-law will not let his daughter work with him like himself.

My daughter grew up alone, and she was afraid of melting into her hands. Of course she can't bear to go to a strange place and live with a man she doesn't know very well. With this idea, the father's mood will be quite complicated, and there will be more reluctance and helplessness for his daughter. I hope my daughter will always be with me, but I don't want to delay my daughter in finding her own happiness. This kind of entanglement will also make men cry.

Our parents brought us up. Although they express their feelings in different ways, they certainly love their daughter almost as much. However, it seems that a tall father has a weak villain in his heart when facing his daughter. The more I love my daughter, the more I can't stand parting!