Yang Zhenning Weng Fan's joke

In 2004, Weng Fan, a doctoral student in Tsinghua University, married Yang Zhenning. She thinks that her marriage with Yang Zhenning is a natural relationship between lovers.

But I didn't expect their marriage to cause a sensation.

Because she is 28 years old and Yang Zhenning is 82 years old.

Because Yang Zhenning is the winner of the Nobel Prize in Physics, he has made great achievements.

Some people say that Yang Zhenning's old cow eats young grass, while others say that Weng Fan covets Yang Zhenning's property.

What about the facts?

Before the reunion, Weng Fan's life was ups and downs, and he didn't know what the future would be like.

Yang Zhenning lost his first wife and was very lonely.

It is fate that brings two people who will never meet together.

In a flash, the sensational grandparents and grandchildren have been in love for sixteen years.

If Yang Zhenning hadn't become the honorary dean of Xishi Branch of Anhui University, and if the news hadn't been exposed, many people might have forgotten this couple and that a girl married an old man without fear of gossip.

1July, 976, when the sun was shining, Weng Fan was born into a family in Chaoshan, Guangdong.

He grew up to 18 years old and was admitted to Shantou University.

Without the control of her parents, Weng Fan is like a runaway wild horse, and the rebellious factors in her body burst out collectively. She is no longer excellent, and her character begins to make public and become unscrupulous.

She not only dressed boldly and avant-garde, but also dyed her dazzling blonde hair.

His eyes are no longer just on books as they were in high school. Because of his interest, he joined the school model team. She walks on the runway in high heels, which is a different kind of scenery in the school.

This year, Yang Zhenning was invited to Shantou with his wife Du Zhili to attend the first World Chinese Physics Conference.

Weng Fan, a freshman, is in charge of receiving them.

No one expected that a wonderful fate was quietly unfolding.

1998, graduated from Weng Fan university. First, she works in Shantou Nan 'an Group. After more than a month, she quit her job and went to Shenzhen alone to work as an interpreter in a golf club.

I left Shantou because Weng Fan met love.

Weng Fan, whose love is supreme, even if the person she loves is not excellent and even if she doesn't know each other well enough, Weng Fan is willing to give up everything for love and dare to face unknown strangers.

Perhaps it is the daily necessities that dilute love, or perhaps the people who love each other have conflicts.

After two years of marriage, Weng Fan divorced.

I don't know whether the reality made Weng Fan see her lack of knowledge, or whether she wanted to heal her marriage with the silence in the ivory tower.

After the divorce, Weng Fan returned to school and entered the Translation Department of Guangdong University of Foreign Studies as a graduate student.

This year, 2002.

Yang Zhenning is 80 years old. His first wife, Du Zhili, is very ill. All the leaves have returned to their roots. Yang Zhenning and his wife returned to the motherland and settled in Tsinghua campus.

In 2003, Du Zhili, his wife who accompanied Yang Zhenning for 53 years, died of illness, and Yang Zhenning's life became extremely deserted.

He attends classes alone, eats alone, walks alone in the forest, reads books and watches TV alone, and then sleeps silently.

No one made dusk with him, and no one asked him if the porridge was hot.

Loneliness is like a silkworm, nibbling at Yang Zhenning bit by bit. He is eager for someone to walk into him and fill his time gap.

Everything is arranged, we just have to wait.

In her sophomore year, Weng Fan went to Hongkong to play alone. Facing the crowded crowd and thinking about his present situation, Weng Fan felt a little lost. She doesn't know how to go in the future. Suddenly, she thought of Yang Zhenning, a freshman. Later, she remembered that he and his wife usually come to the Chinese University of Hong Kong for their holidays.

Suddenly, she longed for this wise man to give her some life advice. It would be better if she could be rescued from her present situation.

She wrote a letter to Yang Zhenning.

She didn't expect her letter to wrinkle Yang Zhenning's dry heart like the wind, and she didn't expect this letter to give her a different future.

Yang Zhenning wrote back and invited her to meet the Chinese University of Hong Kong.

At this time, Yang Zhenning invited Weng Fan, because he was lonely, and he hoped that someone could stir his life like the Dead Sea.

Weng Fan's acceptance was polite, and he hoped that his life would be better because of Yang Zhenning.

Yang Zhenning was not what Weng Fan imagined, and the age distance between them did not affect Tan Xing, which made Yang Zhenning invite Weng Fan again later, and she was happy to go.

Weng Fan lit up Yang Zhenning's lonely life.

But at this point, they are just friends.

It takes time for a friend to find a lover, and it also takes a suitable time.

In May, 2004, Hong Kong Phoenix bloomed. Looking at the red phoenix flowers, Yang Zhenning thought of Weng Fan and invited Weng Fan to visit Shi 'ao.

Weng Fan felt embarrassed and hesitant when she walked on the steep mountain road in high heels. Yang Zhenning saw it and naturally took her hand.

At this point, the two did not know that this was the rest of their lives.

In July, Weng Fan and her friends traveled to Inner Mongolia. On the way, she received a phone call from Yang Zhenning, inviting her to visit her home in Tsinghua campus.

After returning from the trip, Weng Fan rushed to the Tsinghua campus and entered the "home". When she saw the food that Yang Zhenning ordered the nanny to prepare on the table, she couldn't help feeling warm.

The two talked and laughed, and Yang Zhenning was humorous.

Weng Fan is natural and graceful.

Friendship changes quietly.

Just like when they were interviewed after marriage, Yang Lan asked Weng Fan when he turned his respect or worship for a scientist and elder into love.

Weng Fan said: "Unconsciously. When a woman worships a man, if he likes or loves her, then she can easily fall in love with him. "

Unconsciously, Yang Zhenning walked into Weng Fan's heart.

Weng Fan, who returned to Guangzhou from Beijing, thought of the footage of Yang Zhenning and two people together. She couldn't believe her inner feelings. Instead of hiding them, she wrote them into poems and sent them to Yang Zhenning by mail.

The poem reads: "I love without regret, but I am glad, I intend to escape, my heart has fallen into ... touch my forehead, the breath blows my hand, and silence is better than sound."

This poem truly expresses Weng Fan's inner contradiction. The age gap made Weng Fan afraid to accept her own thoughts, and the feeling of love made her reluctant to give up. Love or not? Weng Fan hesitated.

She hoped that Yang Zhenning would give her an answer.

Moreover, she doesn't know that she is in love, and what about Yang Zhenning? Is it love or friendship for her?

This is also her temptation to Yang Zhenning.

Soon, she received Yang Zhenning's revised poem. When she looked at Yang Zhenning's revised poem, Weng Fan's mind was at ease. She said with joy and shame, "That's your poem."

Taking poetry as a bridge, they crossed the times and narrowed the distance between them.

On the National Day of 2004, Yang Zhenning invited Weng Fan to travel to Beihai, Guangxi.

Blue sea and blue sky, two people riding tandem bicycles, enjoying the happiness of being alone on the coconut grove path.

After the tour, Yang Zhenning, who returned to Beijing, called to propose to Weng Fan.

Weng Fan was pleasantly surprised. She smiled and asked Yang Zhenning, "How can you propose to someone if you don't send roses?" Yang Zhenning listened and promised her: "I will definitely supply you next time we meet."

Two like-minded people have established a relationship. To Weng Fan's dismay, she didn't know whether her parents would accept someone older than them as a son-in-law. She carefully told her parents about her and Yang Zhenning.

Weng Fan's parents were surprised to hear her daughter's decision, but her daughter was an adult and had her own ideas, so they finally chose to respect and support her decision.

On the morning of February 24th, 2004, Yang Zhenning and Weng Fan received marriage certificates and announced the news of their marriage to the outside world.

Their union is like a stone stirring up a thousand waves.

The age gap, Yang Zhenning's social status and the combination of Yang Zhenning and Weng Fan have become a deal in the eyes of many people. They think they are "old people are greedy for beauty, young women are greedy for fame and fortune" and think they are immoral.

But love is a mysterious thing and has no meaning. Once you have feelings for each other, external things such as age and status will be automatically blocked.

Besides, even without love, people are willing to crush Haitang with a pear flower, and others are not qualified to tell them what to do.

Whether human life is chicken feathers or harmony seems to have nothing to do with others.

But some people like to worry too much, like to watch jokes, like to look at others with a magnifying glass and find evidence to prove that others are wrong and they are right.

Is it boring?

Reality hits the face.

They have been married for sixteen years and have not changed.

Although Yang Zhenning is 98 years old, she is still hale and hearty, and Weng Fan's eyes are still smiling.

Chernyshevski said: "The meaning of love is to help each other improve and at the same time improve themselves."

Weng Fan's careful nursing revived Yang Zhenning. Although he is over 90 years old, he can still participate in various academic activities, and because of physical delay, he rarely gives classes to students, and sometimes he takes part in some entertainment activities.

Weng Fan, under the leadership of Yang Zhenning, was admitted to the School of Architecture of Tsinghua University a few years ago to pursue a doctorate. He often follows the footsteps of Liang Sicheng and Lin to inspect cultural relics and historical sites, and often writes professional papers.

In the future, even if Yang Zhenning is gone, she can live well on her academic status.

Two people are like intertwined trees, giving each other nutrition and growing together, which should also be the meaning of marriage.

Not at the same age, not in the right family, just paying for each other, just growing up together, just living each other's hopes in quiet years.