When people reach middle age, it doesn't matter and they are not afraid. This is a good point.

When people reach middle age, many things have to change their style of doing things, to match and adapt to people of this age. In particular, the following are more worthy of middle-aged people to show their proper state, rather than applying past experience to their current life and work. This is the so-called making empirical mistakes.

First, there are three things about love.

1 promiscuity-managing this kind of thing will only get you into it.

No matter how strong your sense of responsibility is, as a middle-aged person, this kind of thing really can't interfere. As long as you take care of this kind of thing, you may be confused. Don't give yourself such trouble. You should pretend to turn a blind eye to such things.

No matter how stubborn a person is-you can't change a stubborn person, and you can't control him except being angry.

Middle-aged people should learn to guide their own thoughts. If you see some particularly stubborn people, even if they obviously make some small mistakes, don't try to correct and change them. After all, they haven't changed for many years. How can they change because of your arrival? Learn to adapt to them and guide them instead of changing and controlling them.

3 sympathy regardless-for many people who fail to live up to expectations, the more you manage them, the more harmful they are, and the lazier you manage them.

For many people, you really can't sympathize with him too much, let alone take care of his affairs. He is poor and weak because his mentality and attitude have not been adjusted well. If you bring him here, you will eventually get hurt because you can't work for him.

First, there are three kinds of fears.

1 Don't be afraid to toss-tossing is actually an attempt and exploration. The more you toss about, the more experience you have, and the smoother your career will be. A middle-aged man who doesn't like to toss about is hard to climb to the top again.

Many people have their own profound understanding of this problem. There is indeed great uncertainty in tossing, but we don't try hard to toss, always cling to the gourd, and we can't make a breakthrough in our career. You must have a clear understanding of this point, and you must know the changes it will bring to us and the impact on things.

Don't be afraid of jokes-how can a middle-aged man make a breakthrough in his career without a little cheeky spirit?

Many people are fragile inside, and what they do is a bit bad. They always look at other people's eyes and their mouths. Others go their own way, as if laughing at themselves. Afraid of being laughed at? Laughing at you is only the envy of others, just as encouragement.

Don't be afraid of being used-as a middle-aged person, you should see through the essence of interpersonal relationships. The more people use you, the more useful you are, and the more your skills can be brought into play.

Middle-aged people must not be afraid of being used by others. Being used by others must be a kind of trust. At least it shows that you are still a very useful person. You should rest assured. No matter who uses you, don't speak thoroughly, but actively cooperate with others. In the process of being used by others, you will find many opportunities that you never thought you might seize.