Qin Hao was ridiculed for marrying the wrong sedan chair and the right girl. Is the program group so emotional?

Most people have heard this saying. Love without marriage purpose is hooliganism. Many people regard it as a creed, but some people definitely disagree. Especially, many young boys and girls who have tasted love for the first time can't help falling in love, and their youth is budding. They may not deliberately play hooligans for irresponsibility, but they really haven't considered talking about marriage for the time being. There is no need to judge their relationship as hooliganism too arbitrarily.

Not everyone can fall in love for the purpose of marriage, let alone idolize. It happened that Qin Hao "mocked" Ma Su with his personal experience on the stage of the Tucao Conference, saying that idolization made his idol a wife and his career was still there because he was single-minded. And Ma Su idolized chasing after this and that, and lost his career. It's not surprising that the idol who doesn't want to get married is a rogue. I don't know how many rice circle girls' hearts have been hurt. How many people did you hit in the face?

Of course, what the guests said at the Tucao Conference was all jokes. Combined with the context, Qin Hao was naturally chasing the stars in the rap circle when he spoke about Ma Su, and as a result, he was involved in the storm between Li XiaoLu and PGone, which greatly affected his career. Moreover, since Ma Su came to the tucao conference, he actually mentioned the topic of idolization when he laughed at himself, which obviously won't really affect his mood because of Qin Hao's tucao. Besides, Qin Hao's pursuit of Yi Nengjing, which is idolized, can't be compared with the idolized fan mentality.

Later, Qin Haofabo mentioned this stalk, only halfway through, bluntly saying that everyone wants to be happy. Obviously, he didn't really take the phrase "idolized people who don't want to get married are hooligans" to heart. However, Yi Nengjing did forward his blog post with the article "Although you look a little rogue, idolization is really not a rogue." This is obviously another opportunity to show love, and the people who eat melons only give dog food. But then Yi Nengjing realized that another joke in the program was not very friendly to her, so she deleted this dynamic.

But although Qin Hao's words are a joke, they are not without practical significance and can bring some thoughts. In fact, no matter in the past or now, idolization often begins with sensibility and ends with rationality. Many fanatical groupies, even if their sensibility is overwhelming. There are also many girls in the rice circle who regard stars as boyfriends. This kind of fan group has a name called "girlfriend powder" (the corresponding female stars also have "boyfriend powder", but the number is much smaller). But obviously, although they will say that they want to marry their favorite stars, the reality is basically impossible.

Especially in recent years, influenced by the entertainment circle and fan circle culture in Japan and South Korea, the domestic rice circle culture has also begun to "demonize". For example, many girls in the rice circle regard the freedom of marriage and love of idol stars as a sin, and whether or not to fall in love has become a criterion. Even the words "falling in love means no ambition" and "falling in love means that idols are unqualified" are regarded as the golden rule and spread everywhere. Falling in love, getting married and having children are actually basic human rights, and even the contract clauses formulated by brokerage companies that do not allow artists to fall in love are basically not protected by law. Compared with love, idols are disqualified for their poor singing and performance.

In fact, fans and idols should be clear about the boundaries between idols and fans. Many fans' feelings for idols have broken through the normal appreciation and worship and started to develop into low-level tastes. This situation is actually worthy of vigilance. And some stars just use the mentality of fans to seek more benefits for themselves. Although many idols deliberately use the psychological needs of fans to create boyfriends, it is their fault. But fans should sometimes reflect on whether this inappropriate psychological demand can really turn idol dating into a standard of moral judgment.

Of course, an additional standard held by many girls in the rice circle is that singers or actors can fall in love and get married, but idols (love beans) can't. Many people classify the stars of talent shows as idols, which is actually inappropriate. In fact, love beans also have the right to "sell" their artistic skills, not their boyfriends' designs. What they do on the stage or in a theatrical performance is what singers and actors are doing. In fact, there is no strict definition between idols and singers and actors. Talent shows can also have idols and powerful groups, and whether they are born in talent shows is even less likely to be an indicator to divide the types of artists.

Of course, when the so-called "leaving home" (artists fall in love) appears, many idolized people are also confused and confused about their psychological state. In fact, consider clearly why you like a star, and then follow your heart. If you really like a person because of his works or stage performance, then there is no conflict between whether he talks about falling in love and the reason why you like him-there is no necessary connection between falling in love and whether he is enterprising, and there are many people who can take care of family and career in real life-so there is no need to influence their judgment because of the attitude of others around him. If the reason for liking him is really just for those unrealistic fantasies, then normal powder removal is nothing, which is also the right of fans.

Idolization wants to make yourself happy. Before he loves others, he must love himself first. Unless you can really achieve "idolization for the purpose of marriage" as Qin Hao teased yourself, you should try your best to treat your relationship with idols rationally. Even idol artists have the right to fall in love and get married without extra infidelity. Even fans who have paid for this should not regard this as a moral stain on the star. But correspondingly, fans certainly have the freedom to choose what they don't like, so this is also the consequence that the stars themselves should bear.