Why can't men make such jokes?

There is a saying that is right: "Some predestinations will blossom and bear fruit, and some predestinations can only change from unfamiliar to familiar, and from familiar to unfamiliar."

In love, not everyone is so lucky to meet the right person for the first time, so in our life, there will be many passers-by, and two people will become strangers from familiarity.

In fact, when we know that we have paid the wrong heart, we really should stop the loss in time. It's not worth wasting time for the wrong person. It's no use paying too much for someone who doesn't love you.

Especially for women, when they meet someone they really like, they usually don't look back without hitting the south wall. Many times, men hint that they don't love you, and always use some jokes to dig at you and hurt you. When you meet such a man, don't be persistent.

Women should understand early that men who love you will not make these "jokes" at will, only men who don't love you will.

First of all, say "break up" to you.

Eason Chan's song sings: "The unattainable is always in turmoil, and the favored is fearless." The person you love with all your heart may not care as much as you do. Perhaps, he has caught your weakness, and the initiative of love is in his hands.

When he is happy, he will ignore you. If he is unhappy, he will ignore your love. If he breaks up, it means that this love is coming to an end. He always jokes, "Let's break up", but he is proud to see you in a panic.

The man who often jokes with you like this doesn't love you at all. In his mind, you have always been a dispensable person. When he sees you sad or miserable, he has no pity at all.

And the man who loves you, on the contrary, will never say goodbye to you. Even if he is joking, he will care about your feelings. Only a man who is afraid of losing you will cherish you more.

Woman, you should remember that you have to spend the rest of your life with the man who dotes on you and loves you. As for the man who doesn't love you, you'd better let go as soon as possible.

Second, belittle you regardless of the occasion.

I have a friend. She and her boyfriend have already passed the sweet period of love. They often quarrel over trifles. My friend is extroverted, has strong working ability and good conditions in all aspects, but in her boyfriend's eyes, she has many shortcomings.

Chatting with friends several times, her boyfriend joked with her from time to time, basically belittling her. His behavior always puts her in an awkward position.

Maybe because you don't love enough, men only see your shortcomings. Even if you have more advantages, he chooses to turn a blind eye.

Woman, you should know that the man who makes fun of you and belittles you on any occasion doesn't love you, and your feelings are unequal from the beginning. The man who really loves you will respect you, appreciate you and praise you.

Third, compare you with your ex-girlfriend

A man who loves you will not compare you with anyone. From the beginning, he will put you in an important position. Even if others are beautiful and excellent, you are the best in their hearts.

And a man who doesn't love you, he will find fault from time to time, he will often compare you with others, and even some men will often praise his ex-girlfriend in front of his girlfriend.

If you are angry, he quickly explained that he was just joking with you and told you not to take it to heart. Some words are unintentional by the speaker and intentional by the listener. Perhaps, this is his truth, he doesn't love you, so he will compare you with others.

Woman, don't be humble in love. If you find that he doesn't love you, let go early and leave the wrong person.

Feelings can't be forced. No matter how much you pay, people who don't love you still don't love you. Only men who love you will bring you sunshine, and men who don't love you will only bring you wind and rain.

For the rest of your life, you must spend the rest of your life with someone who loves you. If you meet someone you shouldn't, you'd better stop in time. You deserve a beautiful love, you deserve to be loved, and you deserve a better person.