Why should a handsome man not be a husband? What are the reasons why handsome men are not suitable for husbands?

Almost all men want to find a beautiful wife, even if it's just a beautiful vase, but many women don't want to find a handsome man as their husband because it's easy to be taken away by others. After all, handsome guys have many suitors and temptations, so why shouldn't handsome guys be husbands? What are the reasons why handsome men are not suitable for husbands? Let's take a look.

1, the reason why a handsome guy should not be a husband

I'm afraid he will be pried.

When you go out with him, you are often afraid to leave your boyfriend. In a restaurant, you don't even dare to go to the toilet for fear that other women will take advantage. Nowadays, girls are very good. They are not pursuing men at all, but launching love terrorist attacks on men and using "weapons of mass destruction". In the past, women exchanged beauty for money and social status. Now, women are independent, and they conquer men with their social status and humor.

You "conquered" him, and you worry about him being "conquered" by others every day. This insecurity makes most women only dare to look at the handsome guy from a distance and dare not approach.

Will he only love himself?

Some handsome guys have obvious narcissism. He is intoxicated with self-appreciation. As long as there is a mirror in the elevator or restaurant, he will never forget to look at himself. At this time, he put his girlfriend in a secondary position and couldn't see it.

In life, people always like beautiful children. Teachers unconsciously pay more attention to beautiful children from kindergarten to school. In the family, parents also prefer beautiful children. Therefore, women are always worried: will the beautiful men around them only love themselves?

Beauty is not fresh.

There was a beloved "schoolmate" in middle school, quite similar to Jimmy Lin. When I met him in the street the other day, I almost didn't dare to recognize him: but in his thirties, he has begun to gain weight, his face is flabby and his eyes are wrinkled severely. Where can I find the shadow of a symmetrical tree? On the contrary, boys who were modest at that time had a constant quality tendency for 30 years. Handsome men and women are as beautiful and fragile as petals. Falling in love with a beautiful woman is as unsafe as falling in love with a meteor.

If he has a bad temper

When I was in college, I fell in love with a girl in the dormitory and a "male school flower" with a cool appearance and a strange personality. Originally, a spoiled young lady was too lazy to fold the quilt, but arranged to brush her boyfriend's lunch box and wash her coat every day. So flattering, the "school girl" is still a temper. If she is a little unhappy, she turns pale and slams the door, which makes this girl often Lacrimosa. But when he came back, he smiled and said "I'm sorry", and the girl smiled through tears again. Men with outstanding looks have been liked by parents and teachers since childhood. Even if he has a bad temper, it is easy to be forgiven for doing something wrong. I liked this male school flower very much, but seeing that he has such a "personality", imagine that if I were that girl, I would save it.

The victim of "love at first sight"

Seeing a man's handsome face, I immediately thought that he should be high flyers of Harvard, or the only son of a billionaire, or at least a profound thinker, so I fell in love with him wholeheartedly, and finally found out that he was just a dignified cat.

Except in TV dramas and Hollywood blockbusters, how can most women rarely see a really handsome guy who is both inside and outside? Even if one can barely fill it, someone has already taken it. Where can I get myself?

Dare not be his girlfriend

There are two reasons:

First, I don't know what I want to look like, how many assets I need to be worthy of the "beauty beauty" around me, and I can have enough psychological advantages to stand by and accept people's evaluation;

Second, I'm afraid I'll become a street rat when I walk into the street, and all the female compatriots want to belittle me. After divorcing Adam Cheng, Feifei said to her daughter, "Don't look for a handsome guy, it's hard to keep him!"

2. What kind of man is suitable for being a husband?

Enterprising, not a workaholic

Career is an important element of a truly perfect family. A man should be enterprising to ensure the life of his family. Enterprising men don't look around, are not passionate, and are tied to their careers wholeheartedly. It hurts when you look at it, but it hurts when you think about it. However, there may be problems in getting married in the past, and the problem is not small. He reluctantly refused to walk with you, saying that he would accompany you to the mall, and at most he would just wait in the shade outside the mall. More importantly, he is the shopkeeper of cutting, and everything at home is stuffed on you to worry about.

But if he is too enterprising, he seldom spends time with his family and you. If you want him to go shopping with you, he says it's boring. You asked him to go to the movies with you, but he said he didn't have time. He has a successful career, and you go with the flow, but that's what others see. What others can't see is your loneliness in a long time. And those men who are not very enterprising know how to be considerate and fond of you.

Good temper, but not very good.

Maybe I haven't seen him lose his temper with you, nor have I seen him complain deeply about anything. I care about you in every possible way, even in every possible way. At work, he also works hard, and his colleagues need to run errands to find him. Nobody wants him to do hard work. Every year-end evaluation always has good comments such as being good at unity, working hard and being willing to endure hardships, but all his colleagues are more successful than him. But he was still sent away at will, showing no sign of "progress", but he was not annoyed or anxious.

"It turned out that when he was a talent, it was a pity that he was a waste, and he couldn't smoke, alcohol and hemp, and officialdom had no future. Xiao Li, a thin man next door, has no diploma at all. He learned to do business the year before last. He has a car and a villa. If he misses his working class, it will be difficult to get rich in the short term. " It is rare not to be impetuous, but to be too temperamental, lacking enterprise and fighting spirit. Although we can live a quiet and stable life with our wife and children in the future, there are many fewer twists and turns, but we women are afraid that this "ninja turtle" temper will be transmitted to ourselves in the long-term life, so that we can become "robots" and support our families like women of our mother's generation.

Rich, but not too rich.

If a person is poor and has no house or car, he has to grope in the street for a long time to buy food and struggle in poverty for a long time. If he marries such a man, he will be angry if he is not exhausted! It must have been a hard time. Now, men should have money. He is handsome and his wife is beautiful. Love is clothes, which must be supported by rich shelves.

However, the most unfortunate thing is this. Clothes can be changed at will. If this rich man is clever all the way and forgets the way home, won't he let you cry at the cold window in the lonely month? In the real world, having money is almost equal to having ability and luck. If a man's ability and luck are excellent, he will certainly indulge himself in many aspects, including choosing a wife and spouse. Marrying such a man will always be on tenterhooks and there will be a crisis of being laid off every minute!

"Men become bad when they have money." Those who have been poor for a long time and suddenly become rich cannot marry. Even people with temperament can't stand it, can't control it, can't prevent it, and it's hard to do. Therefore, a good man should be like this: not only have food and clothing, but also have money.

Duty, but not too duty.

I have seen such a joke: boyfriend and girlfriend sleep in the same room, and the woman draws a clear line: animals cross the border! The woman woke up and found that the man really didn't cross the line. The woman slapped the man hard: you are worse than an animal! Hehe, it seems that men who are too filial will be dismissed.

Responsible people live for their beliefs. They only do what they should do, not what they want to do. Generally speaking, the personnel on duty have too many rules and regulations. If you love them deeply, they will make you sad. If love is shallow, two people can be shallow in one place, but this kind of love is either crude or boring.

In addition, as soon as a man walks into the office, he starts to work, just like a game machine with coins, which plays a super energy in a short time. If this game machine suddenly stops, it must be a coin called cowardice by mistake.

Men who are timid, timid and hiding in the corner will only attract the contempt of leaders and colleagues. Even if someone sympathizes with him, no one will coin him again. Although women put one hundred and twenty hearts into men who are too filial, they show a little family spirit. Most women like the way men add more happiness to their lives. Although women really want everything to go according to procedures and live a stable and comfortable life, they are also willing to be "happy" occasionally.