How can I let go of a relationship and a person?

I think there are four best ways to let go of a person. The real letting go is not to let the memory go to zero, but to remember it again, and the mood is calm.

1. The best way to let go of a person: when breaking up, don't quarrel, don't make trouble, don't entangle.

Some people, when breaking up, have already indicated that they can't let go. When feelings fade away and break down, there will always be a person who will say "put it down", and the person who is unwilling to let go is the more painful person. You can say "let go" with tears in your eyes. In fact, you are prepared. Even if your heart is bitter, it won't be too bitter.

Meeting is always unprepared, leaving is ready to go. Originally, I also comforted others, "Since I put it down, be generous, and no one owes anyone in this life." But it's my turn, but I can't calm down, let alone be generous.

Amin, a reader, chatted with me and said that on the day of breaking up, he quarreled with his girlfriend for two hours, and then walked alone in the street for more than five hours, aimlessly. Tired of walking, I returned to the empty room and found tears on my face. A big man, in the face of love, becomes so fragile. If it is a woman, he will be more embarrassed. I sympathize with what happened to A Min, because it was not his fault. He has cherished each other and even resigned for each other. But love is not a person in charge, Amin can only learn to "bear silently".

I don't know how many people, like Amin, always want to struggle, but what's the use of struggle? When you see the other person turn around, it's all over. The more entangled, the more entangled your heart is, just like a rope, trapping your future. Let go of a person, become a quiet person from the moment you break up, watch the other person leave, and then turn around slowly. This is the best choice.

2. The best way to let go of a person: after leaving, don't disturb or contact.

Don't disturb or contact, even the best feelings will fade away. Many lovers are reluctant to delete each other's contact information after separation, and even often visit each other's circle of friends. The more they see it, the more they miss it, and even feel sad.

Here, let's talk about Amin. Because we can't let go of the past people, we always know each other's lives in various ways. When he knew that his partner was married, he drank all day to drown his sorrows, and his life almost collapsed. But one day, he got drunk, fell asleep in a daze and lost his mobile phone. Great, all the contact information is gone, and we can't pay attention to each other quietly. At first, Amin tried to find each other's contact information, but two months passed in vain. His mood fell to the bottom, but it was at this moment that he found that it was not so important to miss her again.

Time is the best healing medicine, and all emotional wounds will become dull because of time. Therefore, if you leave the person you once loved, don't contact and don't keep anything. Everyone will "see things and think about people." If you can't see anything, just put it down slowly.

3. The best way to let go of a person is to do nothing when you miss him.

The stupidest person in the world is the person who has left you, but you still please him and treat him as a "baby". For example, if she asks you to do something, you should do it well. Her marriage is not good enough, and you still listen to her carefully and even ask for leave to accompany her; Her child is lost, and you look for it all over the world; Her husband has problems at work, and you secretly help her ... whatever she wants, you give her.

They all said, "Who did you dream about last night? I woke up early the next morning to see him. " Actually, it's not necessary, because when we were together, we didn't let love have a result, and it's just a joke to find it later. Maybe someone else has forgotten you and doesn't want you to disturb him.

Also, "people who miss each other every day are destined to meet again." In this case, you can believe it, but don't believe it all, because when we meet again, it may be the afterlife. When can we meet again? Everything is providence, and you will never miss it every day. We can't be together in this life, but it's fate. You don't have to blame yourself.

Sometimes, you can't let go because you are too eager to meet again, or because you miss him and take the initiative to pay attention to him. From now on, no matter how much you miss him, don't contact him or ask about him. If you get used to such indifference, your memory will gradually blur and you will never find your original feeling again.

4. The best way to let go of someone: always believe in love when no one loves you.

"If someone loves you, someone will love you", and love is also a kind of "energy conservation". You loved him for so long, but it didn't work out. It's not your fault, it's just that he is not blessed with your love. Anyone who loses all the happiness in life because of one person is not wise enough.

Learn to turn around and meet the right person. This is the way to really let go of a person. Happiness is like this, there is no happiest, only happier. When greater happiness pours into life, the happiness once seemed insignificant.

You should believe in love, whether someone loves you or not. Even if you are older, it doesn't matter. People still have yellow love, and they don't think love comes too late, but they are still full of happiness.