How is that person who loves you as a friend now?

My friend Xiaoru sent me a WeChat voice message in a crying voice, asking me to watch the TV series "I May Not Love You" again.

Girls in real life should be envious of Cheng Youqing for having a boy like Li Daren who is like a best friend and a family member to care for him silently.

They can be very speculative good friends who want to be lifelong friends, chatting together regardless of their appearance. With him around, you can always release your emotions comfortably, and the other person is always there when you need to care most. When the time comes, there is no need to worry about the suspicion between lovers and worries about gains and losses.

Just like Li Daren and Cheng Youqing in the play: You are my best friend.

Because it is too precious, I dare not take any risks.

There are trees in the mountains, and the trees have branches. My heart is happy for you, but you don’t know it.

This may be the saddest state in love. Many people are not optimistic about such foolish efforts.

However, many people do not regret it, because liking someone is not a shameful thing.

01

Liang Sicheng said that the person who loved Lin Huiyin the most was Jin Yuelin.

Jin Yuelin has been deeply attracted by the woman who was so free and energetic since he saw her. From then on, I couldn’t let go.

After Lin and Liang got married, Lin Huiyin told Liang Sicheng that it was painful for him to fall in love with two people. Liang Sicheng thought painfully all night about his willingness to respect Lin Huiyin, and the person who troubled Lin Huiyin was Jin Yuelin. Lin Huiyin would After Liang Sicheng's words were told to Jin Yuelin, Jin Yuelin said: "It seems that Sicheng really loves you. I can't hurt someone who really loves you. I should quit."

Jin Yuelin like this, knows He was troubled by the marriage between Lin and Liang, so he resolutely chose to quit. He knew that even if Lin Huiyin chose him, the final result might not be good. As a gentleman, he would never dare to accept this kind of moral criticism. , after careful consideration, he chose to quit and hide this love forever in his heart, and used brotherly care to make the person he likes happy. In the end, the three people met honestly.

Xu Zhimo pursued Lu Xiaoman after being rejected by Lin Huiyin; Liang Sicheng renewed his relationship after Lin Huiyin's death; only Jin Yuelin hid his love for Lin Huiyin deeply in his heart and loved her as a friend her life.

The Book of Songs says: If you don’t get what you want, stay awake and think about it. Carefree, carefree, tossing and turning, I think this is the true mood of those who love someone in the name of a friend.

02

The roommates in the dormitory will laugh at Xiao Jinzi for being so stupid, so stupid that he can buy expensive concert tickets for someone who already has a girlfriend; so stupid that he can Because the boy didn't bring an umbrella, yet his lips turned blue from the cold just to give him an umbrella; he was so stupid that when he saw that boy had a girlfriend, he cried so much that he vomited.

We all advised her not to be so stupid, but she said: I only know that I am very happy when I see him, and wishing him happiness is true, but wishing them both happiness is false.

Later, Xiao Jinzi was also pursued by many people, but this girl did not accept him. When we asked her why, she smiled bitterly and said: I still like him. Whoever accepts him is unfair to the people who like me.

Perhaps there are many silly girls in life, and it is sad to see them pay silently.

On her wedding day, the silly girl Meng Po Sanqi in "The Ferry of the Soul to the Underworld" held back tears and asked the girl in the painting collected by Chang Sheng whether she and Chang Sheng were in love. A Xiang thought He scolded her to wake her up, but Sanqi cried and stopped Axiang and said: Your wishful husband... I really like you, I only want him to be good; when he is good, I am happy; when I am good and he is not good, I am not happy; as long as Whether he is good or I am good or not, I am happy. That person really likes someone, and that person truly loves someone.

I have watched this movie many times, and every time I see it, I think of that silly girl in the dormitory. I wonder if she has let go of the boy she loves so much, and I wonder if she has found him. own happiness.

03

I re-watched "That Year in a Hurry" some time ago, and my eyes filled with tears again, but it was not because I regretted the loss of Fang Hui and Chen Xun, but I felt more sorry for Fang Momo. Qiao Ran accompanying Hui.

“In the beginning, you were my secret. I was afraid that you would know, I was afraid that you would not know, and I was afraid that you would know but pretend not to know.

You don’t say it, I don’t say it, we are far and yet close, so now, let me continue to love you in the name of a friend. ”

Qiao Ran’s touching silent devotion is not only these affectionate words, but also the coat he handed to Fang Hui when she was hiding from the rain and wiping her hair, the rejected hug in Qinglong Gorge, and the When he was in the UK, he sent emails ending with "How are you?". When he learned that Fang Hui was not well, he resolutely returned to China. When he saw that Fang Hui was drunk and in pain due to breaking up with Chen Xun, he finally sent back his gentle comfort to Chen. Mail-seeking: You bastards! It makes me feel even more sorry for this beautiful boy in my memory.

There is a line in the song "Dandelion Promise", "And I can no longer tell, you are." Friendship, or love that has been missed.

When you meet some people, it’s like you’ve known them for a lifetime. Turning around, I suddenly realized that there was nothing else in my eyes except her... And the person who loves you silently will reluctantly bless you when he sees you with the person you like, but still hopes that you will become better and happier. That person.

Whether it is friendship or love, if you can meet someone who makes you so willing to give, if the other person is happy, the gains and losses will not be so important.