How do you laugh at yourself? Tell me specifically ~

Um ... Just make fun of yourself. Self-mockery, that is, self-mockery, is an important way of communication.

Personally, people who can laugh at themselves are really open-minded. People who can laugh at themselves must have a sense of humor.

People with a sense of humor are more attractive, hehe ~ ~

When you think you have a problem. First of all, don't panic. Calm down.

Respond according to the situation at that time. Degrade yourself appropriately. Just like when you make a mistake, it is better to do it yourself than to let others criticize the joke. Even if others want to criticize and joke, they are bored. Laugh at yourself, everyone laughs, and the atmosphere is relaxed. No one noticed that you were wrong.

I think this is a long-term process. . . It needs to be cultivated just like a sense of humor.

But everyone has their own characteristics, there is no need to laugh at themselves. . .

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It might be helpful to give you some examples of famous people:

After the victory of the Anti-Japanese War, Zhang Daqian returned to his hometown in Sichuan from Shanghai. Before he left, his friends gave him a farewell dinner and invited Mei Lanfang and others to accompany him. The banquet began, and everyone asked Zhang Daqian to sit first. Zhang said: "Mr. Mei is a gentleman and should sit at the top. I am a villain and should accompany the last seat. " Mei Lanfang and others don't understand its meaning. Zhang Daqian explained: "Isn't there a saying that' a gentleman speaks, a villain does it'?" Teacher Mei sings with lip service, but I paint with my hands. I should let Mr Mei Qing sit down first. "All the guests smiled and asked them to sit side by side in the first seat. Zhang Daqian laughed at himself as a villain, as if he were laughing at himself. But "the meaning of drunkenness is not wine" not only shows Zhang Daqian's open mind, but also creates a relaxed and harmonious conversation atmosphere.

② Self-mockery

Lu Xun

What do you want to send, canopy?

Dare not turn over, met.

A broken hat covered the downtown area,

The leaking ship carried a lot of wine.

Look at a thousand fingers coldly,

Keep your head down and be a willing cow.

Hide in the small building and become unified.

Never mind winter, summer and spring and autumn.

Franklin wanted to do an experiment: electrocute a turkey. Unexpectedly, after the power was turned on, the current passed through his body and knocked him unconscious. After waking up, Franklin said, "Boy, I tried to kill a turkey, but I almost electrocuted a fool."

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British chemist David is the husband of the great scientist Faraday. He supported Faraday's discovery and offered help. Of course, he himself has also made three important scientific achievements-electrolytic separation of alkali metals and alkaline earth metals, determination of chlorine as an element, and invention of safety lamps. But when people praised his discovery, he said, "No! Don't! The biggest discovery in my life is Faraday. "

In an article, the humorous writer Banchley modestly said that it took him 15 years to discover that he had no writing ability. As a result, a reader wrote: "It's not too late for you to change careers." Bankley wrote back and said, "honey, it's too late." I can't give up writing because I'm too famous. "

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I hope it helps you, hehe.