Zhou Dongqi: I feel guilty about my parents. I only became a mother at the age of 39. The marriage between the male and female is also happy.

In 2005, Lin Yongjian's role as Tianjin Sister in the Spring Festival Gala became a classic moment.

Ten years later, he took his son Lin Dajun to participate in "Where Are We Going, Dad" to show his happy life.

His career success is inseparable from a woman, his wife Zhou Dongqi.

At that time, I was willing to marry him as a joke, but after the marriage, I almost got divorced because of 500 yuan.

Two people with different personalities get married first and then fall in love. The more noisy their lives, the sweeter they become.

Zhou Dongqi was born in Harbin, her parents were both soldiers.

She grew up in a military compound, and her parents loved her very much.

Although she was not rich, , but never lacked materially.

Zhou Dongqi likes literature and art, so she was admitted to the People's Liberation Army Art Academy according to her parents' arrangements.

Her parents told her to study hard and not rush into filming. She really didn't take any job for four years. play.

It was not until the age of 24 that he made his first movie "The Days Leaving Lei Feng".

After graduation, Zhou Dongqi joined the Air Force Song and Dance Troupe to become a soldier.

Yan Ni, Zhou Xiaobin, and Hong Jiantao were all her colleagues.

Although there are many beauties in the air force, Zhou Dongqi is also ranked high.

With her big eyes and pointed chin, she is a standard beauty at first glance.

In addition, she has a good personality and a solid career. Her colleagues in the group often introduce her to people.

Unfortunately, she has not met the right person at the age of thirty.

In 2002, when Zhou Dongqi was thirty-one years old, she met Lin Yongjian.

He was born in Qingdao, Shandong Province, and his family was very poor since he was a child.

His parents were ordinary working-class people and there were many children in the family.

When he was a child, his family was very poor. Only by eating frugally can we have enough food and clothing.

Although Lin Yongjian was not good-looking, he was admitted to the Qingdao Repertory Theater at the age of 17.

After three years of working as an actor, in order to develop better, he moved south to Guangzhou. ,

Joined the army and became an art soldier in the Soldier Art Troupe of the Guangzhou Military Region.

During his ten years in the army, Lin Yongjian started from working in the field.

Little by little he became the leading actor in the group and gradually received some film offers.

In 1997, he was nominated for the Feitian Award for Best Supporting Actor for his wonderful performance in the TV series "Peace Era".

This is also Lin Yongjian's best performance in more than ten years as an actor. score.

At that time, Lin Yongjian realized that there was more room for film and television dramas.

After a period of ideological struggle, he decided to switch careers from the army.

The development of Beijing with richer film and television resources.

In 2000, Lin Yongjian became a member of the Beipiao clan with 20,000 yuan in job transfer fees.

The person who received him in Beijing was his good brother Wu Jun.

He was also the " The actor who plays San Dezi in "Kangxi Private Interview".

It was also on Wu Jun's recommendation that Lin Yongjian met Zhang Guoli,

and participated in "Iron Teeth, Bronze Teeth Ji Xiaolan".

At that time, although Lin Yongjian was good at acting, he was not well-known in the industry.

He was an older actor from Beijing with a low salary and a worrying future.

At this moment, the Kong Zheng Repertory Theater extended an olive branch to him, and he finally had an official unit.

At the end of 2002, Kongzheng wanted to arrange a sketch.

It happened to be a collaboration between Zhou Dongqi from the Song and Dance Troupe and Lin Yongjian from the Repertory Theater.

Zhou Dongqi didn’t like Lin Yongjian when he saw him at first sight.

He muttered in his heart, why are his eyes so small.

Lin Yongjian saw Zhou Dongqi staring at him without saying hello.

He was afraid that the girl would be embarrassed, so he took the initiative to break the ice.

He joked, What, look at me, I look handsome.

This sentence brought the two people closer.

Zhou Dongqi’s idea immediately changed when they really cooperated.

Lin Yongjian is very professional in acting. , he could rehearse without eating or sleeping,

He also had many ideas of his own for the sketch,

She began to feel that this actor was really good.

At that time, I was working with Yan Ni, and she even joked that you were both single.

Why don’t you get together? At that time, the two of them laughed and didn’t take it seriously. thing.

It is a coincidence that there were many people working together at that time.

There was no WeChat in those days, so Lin Yongjian happened to remember Zhou Dongqi’s phone number.

He has lived in Guangzhou for ten years and has the habit of eating late night snacks.

One day after working late, he wanted to find someone to go out to eat with.

So he called Zhou Dongqi out for a midnight snack.

After a few meals, the two became more acquainted and became partners.

At that time, they still didn’t think about falling in love. They mostly chatted about family matters and work.

Not long after, Lin Yongjian received a call from home. His father was critically ill.

What worried his father the most was that his 32-year-old child had not yet married.

Lin Yongjian blamed himself very much after hanging up the phone. He wanted to get married as soon as possible.

He must let his father see his daughter-in-law before closing his eyes.

At this time, the only person around him who could marry him was the single Zhou Dongqi.

He made another phone call and invited Zhou Dongqi out for dinner.

In order not to scare the other party, Lin Yongjian thought for a long time and didn’t know what to say.

Finally he decided to propose in a joking way,

He said, We are both older and unmarried, so we might as well just put our bedroll together.

Zhou Dongqi was really frightened when he heard this. He was stunned for a few seconds before saying, are you serious?

In her heart, Lin Yongjian is a marryable person.

Professionally, he is serious and down-to-earth, and his acting skills are impeccable.

He is generous and righteous towards his friends, except for love. There seems to be nothing wrong with smoking.

One time, the female colleagues in the group were having dinner, and Lin Yongjian happened to be entertaining friends.

He directly paid the bills at both tables. That time left a deep impression on Zhou Dongqi.

When Lin Yongjian asked her half-jokingly,

She was confused and planned to take a gamble.

The two chose a day to get the certificate. .

When he got the marriage certificate, Zhou Dongqi began to mutter,

Am I being cheated by marrying myself like this?

But it was too late for her to regret it. Lin Yongjian took Zhou Dongqi back to his hometown in Qingdao.

He took the marriage certificate to his father's hospital bed and finally fulfilled his father's wish.

But after Zhou Dongqi got married, he discovered that Lin Yongjian was not generous at all.

He was also very stingy and even restricted his own money.

When she returned to Qingdao, she wanted to eat popsicles, so she asked Lin Yongjian to buy Menglong.

Lin Yongjian had never heard of the name and asked how much it cost.

He When he heard that a popsicle cost five yuan, his face immediately dropped.

In the end, Zhou Dongqi didn't even eat the popsicle.

But Lin Yongjian was really poor at that time.

He gave all his 30,000 yuan passbook to Zhou Dongqi.

Fortunately, Zhou Dongqi did not mind it. She said that if we have more money, we will spend more.

If we have less money, we will spend less. If we have no money, we will not spend any money.

This sentence moved Lin Yongjian very much, and he decided to give all the money he earned to his wife.

When they first got married, they didn't dare to have children because they couldn't afford it.

The house was also allocated by the work unit and the area was not large enough for just two people.

However, the conflict between the two on consumption is getting bigger and bigger.

Lin Yongjian originally thought that Zhou Dongqi was a diligent and thrifty housekeeper.

Unexpectedly, the other party spent money lavishly. , often the pocket is cleaner than the face.

Lin Yongjian bought everything from head to toe, from clothes to shoes, for tens of dollars.

But Zhou Dongqi likes to buy famous brands. Once, she bought Lin Yongjian a pair of 500 yuan. yuan shoes.

When Lin Yongjian found out the price of this pair of shoes, he was so angry that his face turned red.

He immediately asked Zhou Dongqi to return the shoes and kept talking about it for several days.

Even on the phone, I was talking about it.

Zhou Dongqi was so angry that she wanted to divorce at that time. She even called her father to complain.

As a result, her father admired her son-in-law very much and felt that there were not many young people who knew how to save.

Conflicts in personality and values ??between the couple gradually emerged after marriage.

Quarrels became commonplace. Zhou Dongqi was the stupidest one.

Sometimes he got angry. She went to tear up the marriage certificate. Fortunately, the marriage certificate was sealed in plastic and could not be torn apart.

Another time they had a quarrel at night, and she was so angry that she ran away from home.

She didn’t get home until two or three in the morning, but Lin Yongjian was already fast asleep in bed.

But she couldn't sleep on the sofa. It was obviously a house assigned to her by her employer.

Why was she the one who ran away from home, and why was she still the one sleeping on the sofa.

Sometimes two people refuse to give in to each other and are really ready to divorce.

Since it is a military marriage, divorce must be reported to superiors for approval.

How many The next day Zhou Dongqi wrote the divorce report and put it on the bedside.

When he got up the next day, he saw that most of his anger had gone away.

After a few years of getting along, Lin Yongjian and Zhou Dongqi got to know each other better and better.

There were fewer conflicts, and their career and financial fortunes finally came.

In 2005, Lin Yongjian appeared on the Spring Festival Gala to perform the sketch "Decoration" with Huang Hong and Gong Hanlin.

He played three roles, and the Tianjin eldest sister in the opposite role became the biggest hit point.

After the Spring Festival Gala, people all over the country remembered this actor with small eyes.

He had many film and television roles, and all of them were male protagonists.

In the following years, Lin Yongjian was nominated for many awards.

He was nominated for the Golden Eagle Award for Best Actor for "The Story of Xigentian".

He was nominated for the Magnolia Award for Best Actor for "Wang Gui and Anna".

Although he and Shi Di participated in it every time,

Lin Yongjian used several completely different characters. The role is a testament to the acting skills.

His iconic face has also become popular, with netizens picking up various pictures of his face.

As their careers got better, the two also began to plan to have children.

The first child arrived in 2008.

But at that time, the two Everyone was very busy at work, and they were all new parents with no experience.

The child was eventually miscarried, and the couple was sad for a long time.

A year later, Zhou Dongqi became pregnant again, and this time the two of them put down their work to prepare for the baby.

Lin Yongjian also deliberately endured Zhou Dongqi's problem of spending money lavishly.

The two were on vacation in Hainan at that time, and they were accompanied by their friend Song Dandan.

Zhou Dongqi took Song Dandan to visit a nearby boutique.

She took a fancy to A pair of high heels worth 4,000 yuan and a pair of shorts worth 5,800 yuan.

Lin Yongjian's face turned green when he saw it.

He didn't understand why a pair of big pants was so expensive.

Even Song Dandan was aware of the atmosphere. It was wrong, and she also persuaded me not to buy it.

But Zhou Dongqi didn't care at all, and excitedly took the clothes to the fitting room.

From behind, Lin Yongjian shouted, "I want to have a baby!"

Then Zhou Dongqi’s voice came from the fitting room, “I’ll wear it after giving birth!”

In 2010, their son Lin Dajun was born.

This child perfectly inherited Lin Yongjian’s small eyes, and the father and son were exactly the same.

With this child, the couple’s conflicts have diminished.

The child has become the entire focus of their lives.

Zhou Dongqi became a mother at the age of 39 He took care of her every step of the way.

However, after giving birth at an advanced age, it was difficult for her to recover, and there was a big psychological gap.

She often fell into depression. Her friend Song Dandan was shocked when she saw her state.

Scare her and say that if you continue like this, not only will your husband leave you, but your son will also leave you.

You must cheer up and go out to film.

Song Dandan also introduced her to many resources.

The two collaborated on "The War at Lao Niu's Family" and "Kintaro's Happy Life".

During the filming, Zhou Dongqi brought his son into the group.

Song Dandan and Lin Dajun have the same birthday and are also the child’s godmothers.

The two of them celebrate their birthdays together every year.

Lin Yongjian also wanted to film with his child, but Zhou Dongqi was worried that he could not take good care of him.

The two began to cooperate as a husband and wife team and moved their family directly to the set.

In 2015, Lin Yongjian finally realized the hard work of raising a child alone.

He took four-and-a-half-year-old Lin Dajun to participate in the reality show "Where Are We Going, Dad?"

This copy-pasted father-and-son duo is a hit.

In the last episode of the show, Zhou Dongqi appeared. The two of them put on old age makeup at the same time.

They experienced growing old together in advance and couldn't help but look at each other in tears.

Other couples have the seven-year itch, and the more they fall in love, the harder it becomes.

However, Lin Yongjian and Zhou Dongqi are like falling in love after marriage, and the more they fall in love, the sweeter they become.

Lin Yongjian often praises his wife for her prosperous husband, and his career has become more and more prosperous after marriage.

Zhou Dongqi also often praises her husband for his kindness and filial piety.

She is the eldest in the family, and her younger brother is studying abroad.

After graduation, she stayed in Beijing to work and rarely went home to visit her parents.

gave birth to After giving birth to his son, all his thoughts were focused on his son, and he had no time to return to his hometown.

Parents are Zhou Dongqi's biggest worry and her biggest guilt.

Lin Yongjian offered to buy a house and bring his father-in-law and mother-in-law to live there.

The two of them had no money at the time, so they wanted to buy a second-hand house.

But the money was still not enough, so they asked Song Dandan to borrow some money.

After collecting enough money, I have a house that can accommodate the whole family.

Lin Yongjian took into account the inconvenience of his mother-in-law's legs and feet, so he deliberately vacated the room on the first floor.

In life, he is very filial to the elderly and is never stingy with money.

Lin Yongjian's consumption concept was also changed little by little by Zhou Dongqi.

He also began to feel that the work was so hard and it was worth treating himself.

Especially after he became popular, there were more and more activities, and the taste of clothing was also very important.

His clothes were all bought by Zhou Dongqi, and they were still very expensive.

It’s just that Lin Yongjian felt very distressed wearing it in the past.

Now he also enjoys being praised by others for his good clothes.

In the past few years, Zhou Dongqi once again put aside his career to study with Lin Dajun.

His son is very talented in piano and has won many awards at a young age. Award,

The couple has their own division of labor, with the male leading the outside and the female leading the household, with their son as the focus.

Lin Yongjian is still filming non-stop, and new works are broadcast every year.

It is said that marriage is like a cage, and there are countless news of divorces and breakups in the entertainment industry.

But Lin Yongjian and Zhou Dongqi have made the best of their marriage.

It is probably difficult for two people to be a perfect match.

Most marriages need time to be tempered little by little.

In the end, they become the best for each other. family.

Lin Yongjian and Zhou Dongqi got married out of filial piety.

From the initial fight, they became mutually supportive.

In order to compromise with each other and sacrifice for the family,

Isn’t this the truest appearance of marriage?

Text|Nancy