The child is very disobedient to his parents when he is only five years old. He often makes trouble and talks back. What should I do?

It is normal for a baby to be disobedient. After all, they had a certain sense of autonomy when they were five years old. They need patient education and guidance to encourage their babies to obey. Generally speaking, children of this age are just beginning to understand the things and people around them. They began to have their own "ideas", but because of their age and knowledge, they lacked self-control, so they did what they wanted to do.

? What if a five-year-old child doesn't obey discipline?

1. One of the most common educational words that children in China have heard since childhood is that children should listen to adults. Parents are most dissatisfied when children are disobedient. In a word, obedience seems to be the highest standard of "good boy". Because of this, the most obvious shortcoming of children in China is their lack of independence and creativity.

2. From the perspective of modern education, it is obviously a misunderstanding to take "obedience" as the goal of educating children, which is not conducive to the development of children's personality and the stimulation of their potential. In a sense, children who are too obedient may be "problem children". Preschool children have a certain sense of independence and have their own ideas about everything. At this time, it is even less important to let the children obey, and they should listen to the children.

3. Think from the child's perspective. If you think your children are against you, your children will be against you. So we should know more about children and children. Regular communication is essential. A disobedient child is a good boy, and a disobedient child is a bad boy. Sometimes, we need to change the way and use some methods.

4 or 5 years old is the golden age to cultivate children's self-confidence. They want to be good children. They want to do everything well. Therefore, they are only willing to try what they are sure of. If you ask him to do something, he doesn't do it right away, maybe he's not sure yet. At this time, instead of complaining that the child is disobedient, it is better to encourage more. Get your sincere praise, he will be proud and do better and better. At this communication stage, your sufficient attention and practical encouragement are the key.

Disobedience of five-year-old children;

1. Delay satisfied

When a 5-year-old child rebelled, it was sometimes because his needs were not met. Moreover, parents don't pay much attention to their children's delayed education. As long as the child doesn't get what he wants, he loses his temper. If this is the case, parents usually need to pay attention to reasonably distinguish their children's requirements and appropriately reject those unreasonable requirements.

Distract the child.

5-year-old children are easy to rebel because they are emotionally unstable. So, when your children are rebellious, lose their temper or have other unpleasant moments, you can divert their attention. Although the child is emotionally unstable, his attention is easily diverted.

3. Give children the opportunity to fully express their inner thoughts.

Sometimes children resist because they already have their own ideas. But because I was not understood, I was unhappy and lost my temper. At this time, parents need to pay attention to their children, listen to their voices and let them express their inner thoughts.

Parents must agree on the education of their children.

When educating children, I am most afraid of parents' inconsistent attitudes. Children not only don't know who to listen to, but also are easy to play tricks. When parents criticize themselves, they will go to their grandparents. So parents must reach an agreement on their children's education. If children have seizures, adults should not be grouped.

5. Give children more choices

Children begin to cultivate self-awareness and learn not to listen to their parents. At this time, it is necessary to give children more free space and more choices, rather than rudely ordering children to do things. For example, when a child doesn't eat or doesn't want to study, you can ask her whether to study now or after playing for five minutes. If there is such a choice, the child may accept it better.