What would you do if you met a mother-in-law who only talked without giving or contributing?

I'll tell my husband and let him know what her mother is like. Don't think that the mother-in-law's involvement in a small family is to contribute money. That's too much. Your mother just doesn't contribute, she just talks. She always seniority and thinks we are doing well. We have no house. We raise children, raise our mother-in-law, go to work during the day, and look after the children at night, regardless of her mother-in-law. She missed her children and had to tell us to send them back to her hometown. She won't come by herself. There is a skeleton in the cupboard. If you adjust your mentality, you will feel more comfortable.

However, if you meet a mother-in-law who has no sense of boundaries and takes care of everything like a best friend's mother-in-law, it is easy to quarrel over a little thing every day. When mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are together, it is inevitable that there will be differences and contradictions in living habits, consumption patterns and even husband and wife getting along. But how to deal with these contradictions, whether the mother-in-law can handle it is very important.

There is actually no relationship of rights and obligations between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. The only connection is the "mutual affection" caused by * * * loving a man. In the final analysis, mother-in-law and daughter-in-law get along with others, and they will get as much as they pay. If the mother-in-law doesn't even provide the most needed help, how can she confidently ask her daughter-in-law to work hard for herself? People's hearts are all meat. The so-called mutual affection between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is nothing more than exchanging true feelings with sincerity. If you are kind to me, I will support you until you are old.

Then I dealt with it like this, and I gave up slowly. Like other daughters-in-law, I don't give money, buy things or give gifts. I only pretend to be decent on the surface, but in this way, she becomes easy to get along with ... I am also very puzzled that when I made a good relationship seriously and donated money, I was not said a good word by her. Now I just pay lip service to her, but she thinks I'm good.