Do you have your own small loss?

If life fooled you, it doesn't matter, it fooled me, too.

My mobile phone set the alarm clock five times and didn't wake you up. I feel inexplicably depressed in an instant, but I still have to go to work. Touching the private tire around my waist, I told myself that I would start running and exercising from tomorrow, but then I fell asleep as soon as I turned around. There is only dirt left this month, but I still can't help updating my shopping cart. Yes, such a small and real depression is a fleeting sense of emptiness and a "small loss" that we can't live without every day.

Life is a mixed taste, but everyone always has a secular desire, and if you lose it, you will lose it! Life is so short, laugh when you are happy, and lose when you are sad. Of course, how can you be happy? Sometimes, it is a hundred feet and a step further. Sometimes, I stand and scold the street and cry for my mother. Sometimes, it is a capital letter. Chicken soup can't always be drunk, chicken blood can't always be beaten, and a good life is indispensable to a small earthquake and Ge You's lying gun. It's really no big deal to lose a little from time to time. It is even beneficial to the body and mind and helps to make people happy.

Occasionally I don't want to go to work, go to school, exercise or even go out. I just want to be paralyzed in Ge You. See the same kind talking about themselves: I'm almost a basket case; As a salted fish, I am very tired; Seeking treatment for procrastination in the late stage, etc ... I feel that my body has been hollowed out ... In other words, small mistakes are also the truth of life and the normal state of life. The more people grow up, the more mature they will be, and it seems more and more difficult to be moved by anything. I asked a lot of friends around me, as if everything they cared about sounded sad.

Looking at the bank card balance makes people want to cry; The person I like doesn't like me, and I collapsed at that moment; After losing weight for so long, it is not as good as those who eat too much and are not fat; Tomorrow is Wednesday, two days before the holiday, and life is mixed and it is another week to wait for death; Seeing that I got off work at six o'clock, at five fifty-eight, the boss suddenly said, let's go and have a meeting in the conference room. It is really sad that this kind of misfortune often happens and is inevitable in life.

If you have to report to the leader, at the moment of knocking at the door, you will cry in despair: No one, no one ... You are unhappy when you find that no one will breathe a sigh of relief.

These little things in life are hidden in reality, and most people have experienced them personally. The system always upgrades when you are in a hurry; Secretly browse Weibo of TA and slide a Zan ...; When it rains heavily, the wind always blows the umbrella over; The headphone cable is always in a mess; My toe accidentally kicked the corner of the bed, which was sour and refreshing ...; I think it's a funny joke, but others look indifferent; The phone was charged for an hour before it was found that the plug was not plugged in; After cleaning up properly, I found that there was still a dish that was not washed; You tell yourself to eat only one kind of snack, and you always eat the whole bag. After eating the last pistachio, I found that I couldn't open it; There is still a wrinkle in the mirror; A mortgage that will be repaid in a blink of an eye; The child has to pay the book borrowing fee again! I have only been to the gym twice this month; Failure to lose weight; Failed to get up; Blind date failed .....

Obviously I'm going to be late, watching the crowded people in the elevator look at you coldly, but I'd rather wait for another 5 minutes than squeeze in; The crowded subway to and from work, and the sweaty and sticky strange skin to be pasted; I prepared a sumptuous candlelight dinner and new sexy underwear. I wanted to surprise him, but I was told to work overtime at night. The canteen is lined up for cooking, and the dishes you want to eat are just gone; The clothes I just bought are on sale; Mobile phone power is only 2%; I didn't do anything, so the weekend passed; Wear wet shoes to work all day on rainy days; Full of joy, I wanted to go to a hot spring and found that my period was coming. Hey! Forget it, or do nothing, Ge You collapsed on the sofa. Still muttering: Come on, hit me! I don't feel cold as a dead mouse. I feel comfortable every second is a second, and being still is cool.

It is these small and definite setbacks and fleeting emptiness that make up most of our unhappy daily lives. Calm down and think about it, although it always makes people feel lost and helpless, it also makes us really feel the ups and downs of life. Life will not always be smooth sailing, and you have to work hard at every step. Hard work may not be successful, but it is really comfortable not to work hard.

Many times, we always feel that life is not perfect, not because there is much pain, but because of these predictable but inevitable problems. You are a little dissatisfied with life, and you want to escape, but you drag your feet. Care, but also endure It's a little small to stride by yourself. What are you afraid of?

Although these setbacks are small, they always exist, and it is difficult to get used to them, because they are scattered and will come out of nowhere. Even if it is solved at the first time, it will not be of much help to the whole living situation.

Therefore, although the small loss is small, it goes hand in hand.

My wife comes home from a busy day's work, cooking, washing clothes and taking care of the children. When her husband, mother-in-law, son and daughter all fell asleep, she found that the clock always magically pointed to midnight, and WeChat was an unread message sent by her best friend two hours ago. Thinking that it will still be like this tomorrow, she really doesn't want to let this day sleep like this, but what can she do?

Even if my husband works overtime until midnight and comes home, he will park his car downstairs, light a cigarette, turn up the music and stay alone for a while. The body left in the car is yours. When you step out of the car door, shells are husband, son and father. It turns out that the dividing line between rice, oil and salt is actually a car door. Once it is opened, it will never come out.

Why are you so sad? How can you be so sad? Isn't it a little sad that people are alive? I didn't know until one day I saw a sentence.

True happiness is only self-consolation, and true loss is the true feelings of the world.

What does it mean to be very sad? Have you ever had that experience? I don't want to do anything, and I shouldn't be disturbed. The whole world seems to understand me. In fact, I know I can do it well, but I just vaguely want to escape, but it is waiting in the near future, and I can't escape or jump over it. Time is pressing, but I don't want to face it. I feel very sad. Countless moments in my life, I suddenly feel that my body has been hollowed out.

A small loss is not fatal, but it will also make you feel deeply depressed. Therefore, nothing is difficult in the world as long as you are willing to do it. What's to complain about? I'm at a loss. Isn't that how life rises and falls …

There is nothing wrong with this world. You are ugly and have no money. After all, as long as it is a stone, it won't shine anywhere. There are some things that you have tried your best to understand, but it doesn't help at all. Another day has passed. How was your day? Did you dream? Always want to be treated gently by this world. What have you contributed to the world?

In this world, there is a disease called watching inspirational speeches, listening to inspirational movies, reading inspirational books and listening to inspirational songs. Zhihu's inspirational answer seems to be hard work. Then, after eating this meal, start to lose weight. After this game of pesticides, I will write a manuscript. It doesn't hurt to sleep late on weekends. After all, hard work may not be successful, but it is really comfortable not to work hard.

The pressure in this world is too great, and it always hits our pain points accurately. The whole world is calling for positive energy, but it makes people rebel. Mourning is just a kind of confrontation, a kind of self-mockery. Otherwise, how could 1988 be a middle-aged woman and how could it swell to 1992 and enter middle age? In fact, this is just a collective catharsis of the middle-aged crisis.

I feel sad because I have expectations, desires and dissatisfaction with real life, but I don't know what to do, and I can't find strength for the time being in the struggle. However, Xiao mourning is not willing to remain indifferent. At this moment, grief just hasn't found an outlet to vent.

At the moment, maybe you are still working overtime and a little sad. Maybe you are tired and a little sad after shopping at the weekend. Maybe what you want to do is not progressing? ..... Well, it's okay to be sad once in a while. Now, go to sleep, get up early tomorrow morning, and let your energy come back. When you are full of energy, everything will have hope!

We don't need much success. We don't need much positive energy. We are ordinary people who are troubled by countless trivial problems. We are ordinary, confused and tortured by life. We don't need anxiety. This is real life. So, face up to life, face up to yourself, don't be paralyzed by chicken soup, don't be trapped by small feelings. Life goes on and there is still a long way to go.

No matter how hard I try, I may not be able to live the life I imagined. But Xiao really lost, it's okay. It really doesn't matter. Because he is very young. Small enough to make us feel that we still have the ability and opportunity to solve problems, which can bring a little peace of mind and a little hope. Life is not out of control, as long as you work hard, you can get better.

There is hope only if there is a small loss!