What if someone speaks ill of me behind my back?

The world belittles me, deceives me, slanders me, deceives me, laughs at me, envies me, humiliates me and hurts me. What can we do? Answer: Only respect him, tolerate him, let him, endure him, follow him, avoid him and ignore him.

Calm down first.

Everything has two sides.

Don't be rough with her, it will hurt your feelings! Find out the reason for the bad relationship with her.

Then let's have a good discussion and the problem will be solved!

She speaks ill of you, either because she has a cheap mouth or because of you.

Look for problems from yourself first. If it's not our problem, it's not.

It's time to talk to that boring man. Everyone hates such people! get away from her

Chewing her golden words behind others' backs! Nobody cares about her! We still need

Have a good life! Pissed her off! People like her can't stand others living better than her.

All right! We also have this in our dormitory! Nobody looks at her now!

There are two kinds of people with good interpersonal relationships. Some people conspire to create a network by playing tricks.

Some people just build relationships by being friendly. In fact, both people will fail in life, and there is no ultimate real interpersonal relationship.

A real person should cultivate a certain personality charm to attract others, and at the same time be kind, honest and sincere. We have no way to help and tolerate others.

But in our hearts, we are worthy of ourselves.

Don't demand everything.

But I want to be innocent.

What does she like?

Well, this question, although it is immoral for others to speak ill of you behind your back. But there are reasons: will it offend him or something, or did you speak ill of him behind his back?

Living in this society is really not easy. Sometimes, in order to get on well with other people, I have to obey what he says. Hey, man, I can't help it. I believe he was just impulsive. You can make up with him or alienate him. Depends on what you mean. Of course, I still say that.

Dude ~ ~ ~ I can't help it ~ ~ ~

Don't punish yourself with other people's mistakes, be sure to remember this sentence well ~ ~

The ocean is the widest in the world, and the human mind is wider than the ocean.

Maybe you don't agree with me, but I still want to explain my point of view.

I've seen this before, and your idea is reasonable. This is a gradual process. If your deeds are denied too much in others' minds, you will really be left out in the cold. Of course, some people will not be cold to you, they will find out for themselves.

If things get serious and affect your normal life, you can openly tell others that you have been wronged like this. This is also forced! It was not recommended at first, it was very stiff.

Then find a group of your own friends by yourself. Those people are people you trust, and of course they will trust you. Naturally, how others vilify you will only make him feel left out. If this happens for a long time, that person will have a bad reputation and be left out in the cold, which shows that he deserves it. (highly recommended)

This is entirely personal experience, and the right of interpretation belongs to the individual. thank you

I still suggest that no matter how you used to be, people should still live in peace. You can talk to her alone and ask her why she did this to you. After all, we are classmates, and it is inevitable to get along every day. And good attitude, pay attention to language expression. Your heart is sincere! If she is still like this, don't care, try not to pass her by, just live a happy life! ! !

Go your own way and let others talk.

A clean hand wants no washing.

The world belittles me, deceives me, slanders me, deceives me, laughs at me, envies me, humiliates me and hurts me. What can we do? Answer: Only respect him, tolerate him, let him, endure him, follow him, avoid him and ignore him.

The mouth is hers, and we can't help it.

But in our hearts, we are worthy of ourselves.

Don't demand everything.

But I want to be innocent.

Then your best way is to "laugh"

Laugh at these things, because you have more important things to do. A mature person should know how to distinguish between major contradictions and minor contradictions, hehe.

Smile at this person and handle your relationship well, for example, you can invite her for your birthday. If there is no conflict of interest between people, it is best to get along well. As far as I know, you may be young.

Be confident in yourself-laugh at yourself, be confident in yourself, correct your mistakes, or some bad things or things that you think are good may affect or hurt others, and learn to look at others' words and actions.

There is another way: smile and tell your parents or friends that when a misunderstanding is resolved by a joke, then you are a master of communication.

Believe that you can be punished, as long as you do as I say, you will become an excellent person.

This has happened to me before!

I felt so ashamed at that time! It's not true, but it still hurts my heart. Later, a netizen told me:

"Go your own way and let others talk." Some things don't have to be justified or justified, as long as you have a clear conscience. Sometimes there will be no happy ending, and sometimes it will make things worse! Believe in yourself! Time is the best and most favorable witness! For others who don't understand, you can smile calmly! You got it? Of course, I really hope my answer can help you! Ha ha. . . . . .

The Qing dynasty was self-purified,

& ltbr & gt Don't care too much about other people's gossip.

& ltbr & gt You are yourself,

& ltbr & gt I don't need to explain anything.

& ltbr & gt Let time prove everything.

& ltbr & gt Also, the best way for that kind of boring person is to treat him as air.

& ltbr & gt is indifferent to all his bad words,

& ltbr & gt After a long time, he gets bored.

& ltbr & gt People will think he is mean.

Why don't you face her when you hear her talking about you?

If you hear her talking about you next time, be sure to face her and ask her what she is talking about. What do you have to say to her? Since she is dissatisfied with you, say it to her face and let her say it on the spot. You can face her as clearly as you do.

If it were me, I would say:

What are you talking about me? What do you mean when I say it to my face, just as everyone is here, and you are capable of beating gongs and drums to my face? After reading for so many years, you don't understand what "villain" means. Even if I did something wrong, I would never do something as contemptuous as you. With your ability to speak ill of others behind their backs, what qualifications do you have to speak ill of me? Do your own thing first and then take care of others!

Don't take others' comments on you so seriously. As long as we are strict with ourselves, I believe everyone's eyes will be sharp. A temporary unhappiness doesn't change anything at all. If you are a good person, you are still a good person no matter what others say. Live for yourself. Learn to be open-minded, but you don't think so.

Coward! !