In marriage, what is the real purpose of men deliberately delaying divorce?

Nowadays, in marriage, many couples live together and make do with it. Because of children, parents, property and many other reasons, even without feelings, they will not easily choose divorce. This is very common.

Especially for men, divorce is always not so simple, and there is an unwilling mentality, that is, they have no feelings and are unwilling to go through divorce procedures.

In fact, men deliberately delay divorce, not because they still have feelings for you, but for these reasons.

We should be clear in our hearts that we should not let this unhappy marriage life affect our mood and happiness.

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I can't let go of my unwillingness.

Sometimes, the relationship between husband and wife is not irreconcilable, but because they can't let go of face, or get angry, or one party can't stand the other party, they have to divorce, and the other party can't let go of unwillingness, and feels that they have paid a lot and are unwilling to divorce, so they have been dragging on.

Men are generally reluctant to divorce, so most of his heart is because he has too much reluctance to let go of his lover who has been with him for many years, even if women have no feelings for him, even if sometimes men do something wrong and make their women angry and want to divorce.

But the man doesn't want to, because in his heart, he feels that he has paid too much for this family or for women, how can he easily choose to let go, so he doesn't want to end this relationship.

But if the woman insists on divorce, even if the man doesn't want to divorce, if he feels that he can't get along with the present man, he can solve it through proper channels, instead of losing face for the sake of the children or delaying himself from starting a new life.

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Can't bear to hurt children.

Some men don't want their children to lose a complete family, and they don't want their children to have a shadow in their hearts, so they have been dragging their feet and unwilling to divorce. Although I have no feelings, I still can't bear to hurt my children. Such men are generally caring and responsible, at least for their children.

In a marriage like this, generally speaking, the woman should have done something wrong to her family. Although men are miserable, they also want to end this unfortunate marriage as soon as possible. Seeing your child, I am very entangled in my heart. Because if divorced, it will affect children's studies and healthy growth.

Therefore, men are unwilling to divorce, which also reflects a man's sense of responsibility for his family and children.

Sometimes, when a man lives in an unhappy marriage, his heart will be very painful. After all, two people have no feelings, or their fate has been exhausted. They can't swear to live this life as they did when they first got married.

Unexpectedly, when two people walk, there will be emotional problems, which is the last thing men want to see, but men are also very helpless. After all, there are common children involved, so this is also the reason why men can't bear to divorce.

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Unwilling to lose property

There are also men who abandon their lovers in marriage. When a woman leaves Heartbroken with great pain, she is faced with the problem of property division. Men don't want to lose their property, and they are afraid that women will take away their property, so they don't want to divorce, even if they keep dragging their feet, and want women to give up dividing their property automatically.

Such men generally only value the material foundation, or are misers, afraid of losing their property, so they are unwilling to agree to the woman's divorce request. From this perspective, men are definitely the kind of people who haggle over every ounce. Although the relationship has broken down, I am reluctant to divorce because I am reluctant to give up my property.

As the saying goes, one day's husband and wife are grateful for a hundred days. If a man really loves his woman, he will not disagree with the divorce. After all, two people have lived for so long that they can't let their women and children live in poverty. A man with conscience and responsibility will never be reluctant to divorce because he is reluctant to part with the property at home. This is the difference between men and men, and it is also a phenomenon in real life.

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I'm ashamed of divorce.

There are also some men who feel ashamed of divorce and can't hold their heads in front of relatives and friends, so they don't want to divorce and have been dragging their feet. Even if two people are unhappy, even if they are separated, they don't want others to see their jokes and think they are incompetent.

After all, men are very face-saving and don't want people around them to know that they are unhappy at home.

Such men pay more attention to their own image, fearing that their divorce will affect their future, and even more afraid of losing the feeling of being photographed by women. Once you lose your marriage, you will become very lonely. You have to do everything at home by yourself, so you are always reluctant to divorce.

In marriage, if a man is reluctant to leave you, he will not let you go easily, nor will he let you leave this house easily, because he has long been used to having you at home. Therefore, the woman asks for a divorce. As long as the man doesn't have another woman outside, the man generally won't agree, and the woman asks for a divorce.

So, men deliberately drag on the truth of not getting divorced? Heart? I'm afraid many women haven't realized it.

Maybe he can't let go of his unwillingness, maybe he can't bear to hurt his children, maybe he can't bear to lose his property, maybe he feels ashamed of divorce.

Women should distinguish what kind of situation it is, think calmly, take it seriously and know what they want. Of course, in the case of divorce, or just on impulse, you should think twice, don't do anything that you regret, and cherish the marriage of two people.