What kind of state is a man divorced? What kind of state are you in now?

Nowadays, more and more people are divorced, which has created many divorced men and women. Some women think that after a man's divorce, without the care of the hostess, the family will become a mess, waiting to see the jokes that the man regrets.

People who don't have a peaceful divorce hope that the other party will live worse than themselves after divorce. In fact, men have four major States after divorce:

1, regret

Men who regret after divorce are mostly people with average financial ability, and the fault lies in themselves. They generally have inflated psychology and feel that they are excellent. Marriage infidelity or domestic violence leads to harmonious family division. After the divorce, they found themselves in a good state, because their wives gave silently behind their backs. After the divorce, they found that they overestimated themselves. It turns out that their wives have so many benefits for themselves and their families. After the divorce, they didn't live as well as expected and began to regret the divorce.

2. Liberation

Usually the fault of divorce is the woman's husband, who feels relieved after divorce. I have a former male colleague, a dull and introverted IT man, who often works overtime because of the project. He has a high salary and is at home with a beautiful wife. He loves his wife's property and manages them. Later, he found that their husband and wife gave her family a lot of money and wore a green hat for themselves. When the divorce was raging, she found that she didn't have much hard money.

He said that although he has now become poor, he also feels relieved after the divorce. At least he won't be forced by his wife to make money, and he can change to a lighter job.

3. Experience

Che Xiao fell in love with an ordinary-looking local girl in college. The girl is an only child with a good family condition, and they got married after graduation. After marriage, Che Xiao got to know many local rich circles through his father-in-law and mother-in-law, and gradually started his own business. Husband and wife don't quarrel with the woman because the man only cares about business. Finally, the woman cheated and divorced.

After the divorce, Che Xiao felt that a failed marriage was like tempering, which brought him a lot of experience about marriage. He feels that after self-reflection, he can find a partner who is more suitable for his marriage.

Step 4 be grateful

Some people are grateful to their ex-wives after divorce, some have experienced their ex-wives after divorce, and some have divorced peacefully. These people who divorced because of their own fault, while regretting missing such a good woman, understand the contribution that women have made to this family and are grateful.

Some couples who broke up peacefully, mostly calmed down after a period of divorce, knowing that although the marriage failed, they also learned a lot from each other, which can make them move forward better, so even if the marriage failed, they were very grateful to each other.

I hope your marriage will not divorce.