What do people who often quarrel with their in-laws think?

Tell a joke. Two old ladies were walking in the community. Among them, Old Lady A asked Old Lady B how is your wife? Old lady B complained angrily. Hello, you're welcome. My wife is too lazy to clean up the food. She made my son work. She knows it's terrible to spend money recklessly. Grandma a continued to ask. What about the son-in-law your young lady married?

Old woman b said with satisfaction. My son-in-law is very good. My girl won't let me clean and my girl won't let me cook. My son-in-law does all the housework and often gives me pocket money! What do you see from this joke? Some people see the old lady hurting her daughter, some people see the old lady's double standards, and some people see that the mother's attitude towards her daughter and daughter-in-law is naturally subtle. I see two words: relationship.

This relationship does not refer to the intimate relationship between people, but to other positions on the same relationship network. The classic domestic movie "Chinese New Year" describes a family dispute over the Spring Festival reunion in Northeast China. Why does the wife always quarrel with her mother-in-law? Some husbands don't understand why until they get divorced!

In this big family with two children, the family is dissatisfied with the distribution of their parents' property, and the family is tit for tat and quarrels endlessly. Finally, the brave and treacherous eldest daughter-in-law served the table. Whenever I saw this place when I was young, I was full of contempt for Zheng Jiali's eldest daughter-in-law. She is always bullying her honest and incompetent husband, fighting for interests in her mother-in-law's house, and a group of chickens and dogs are restless.

But with the growth of my age, I have some understanding and sympathy for what this eldest daughter-in-law has done. Her husband is so dull that he refuses to fight for his own interests at his in-laws' house. Brother-in-law eats his own money at home every day, and his in-laws love his sister-in-law the most. This allowed the eldest son of the family to get married and gave birth to the eldest daughter-in-law. How can women achieve psychological balance? Have dinner with two friends at a time. A friend A has a divorce experience, and another friend B has just divorced.

As a man who plays the dual roles of husband and son at the same time, when dealing with the family relationship between wife and mother, we must see the reasons behind small things and the motherland hidden under the ghost country. When a wife complains, she will make trouble without reason. Don't think this is melodramatic. Sometimes, she just cares about her and her husband's position in her husband's family. People who become mother-in-law can better understand this truth if they have daughters. If you want to treat your daughter in your son-in-law's house, how should you treat your daughter-in-law?