My son is a programmer and works overtime until midnight every day. I feel my heart is bleeding. What should I do?

As we all know, now is the Internet age, and there are many jobs based on the Internet. And as many people know, one of the characteristics of Internet work is that the income is very high, and the income is always over 10,000. Anyone who has worked in an Internet company knows that the monthly salary of over 10,000 yuan is really not high in the Internet industry! But in fact, there is also a premise that you need to do something worth more than 10000 yuan, so behind the high salary of Internet companies, you often work overtime, and sometimes you need to work overtime until late at night. Speaking of online overtime, I believe everyone who works on the Internet knows that programmers are the ones who work overtime most in Internet companies, because Internet companies have very high requirements for programmers. For example, if there is a Bug in the system, the user will ask to solve the system Bug in time, and at this time, the programmer needs to start solving it immediately without consulting. Therefore, programmers are under great pressure, which is very recognized by netizens. Someone may have read such a message. A mother said that her son is a programmer and works overtime until midnight every day. She felt that her new capital was bleeding and asked the netizens what to do. Next, I will share my personal views with you coldly.

As we all know, there is a phenomenon in the investment field, that is, high returns often mean high risks. This phenomenon is coldly thought to be equally applicable to the workplace. As we all know, programmers have high salaries. A monthly salary of over 10,000 yuan is just an entry level. Basically, programmers with good strength can earn 20,000-50,000 yuan a month. You know, this monthly salary is very high. Perhaps for a low-income group, they may not be able to earn that much money in a year. Therefore, it is normal for programmers to be stressed, because behind the high income, you have to pay something that others have not paid, such as working overtime and staying up late, such as racking your brains to solve bugs, such as developing a system from scratch. This is the nature of a programmer's job, so I thought coldly, if the mother doesn't want her son to live this life, she can actually discuss with her son not to be a programmer. It's just that the mother should be psychologically prepared, that is, change her job, and maybe her son's income will not be so high.

Of course, there is no denying that programmers are a youthful job, which will consume people's energy very much, and can even be called overdraft. I believe many people have seen such a joke that an old man with gray hair said in an interview with the media that there is not so much pressure to be a programmer. But the background of this scene is indeed this gray-haired old man, who is actually only in his twenties. Although this joke is exaggerated, it is undeniable that there is a common phenomenon among programmers, that is, hair loss. Because being a programmer requires a lot of brain power. So I thought coldly, if this mother really cares about her son, she can actually discuss it with her son and change her job. What did you say?/Sorry?