A joke about breaking off the engagement.

On the wedding day, the bride made three chapters. First: in the future, the husband's money will be kept by his wife, and he shall not spend it at will. Second: guests can't come home casually, and both parents can't stay overnight for any reason. Third: the wife has the final say in the matter of having children, or she can take her mother's surname, and the man's family must not interfere.

Because of the three demands made by the bride, the two had a quarrel. Finally, the groom directly picked up the microphone and announced, "Today's marriage is not over. I can't afford to marry such a woman. I want to break off my marriage. "

Personally, I think the bride's three demands are acceptable except the first one, and the other two are really excessive. If I were you, I wouldn't accept them. Seriously, the bride is pushing her luck.

Men and women, don't push your luck with your feelings. Whether in life or in love and marriage, the most comfortable state between people is often to keep a necessary distance within an appropriate limit, and people should have more respect, understanding and tolerance. However, in this world, it is actually very difficult for people to get along. Whether friends or relatives, or lovers and couples, it is always full of obstacles and contradictions.

In fact, this is normal and inevitable. Life is always trivial, and everyone has temper and weakness. Grasp a bottom line and limit it moderately. Some things don't need to be taken too seriously. You can turn a blind eye to everything, so try not to take it seriously and let nature take its course.

Some things, we must keep the bottom line, especially don't indulge a person who has no bottom line and pushes his luck! Some people are like this. When they don't know how to respect you, they never put themselves in your shoes and never give in to you, so you don't have to wronged yourself. It's not worth it. This is true between friends and between husband and wife.

Pushing your luck is a terrible weakness of human nature. Once you find such a weakness, you must resolutely fight back, say no, and never indulge yourself or others. In the face of those who push their luck in life, if he doesn't know, you don't have to pretend to be confused, let alone spoil him easily. Only by not accepting, avoiding and conniving at him can we "save" him to the greatest extent and avoid being hurt.

In a relationship, when one side bows its head and the other side pushes its luck, should it stay? In a relationship, one party chooses to bow to the other. First of all, this angle of thinking is problematic and wrong. Your lover is not your superior, your leader. Since you used the word bow your head. It can be seen that you don't think you are wrong and don't want to apologize to each other, but you have no choice but to be together. Each of us is used to making corresponding concessions in order to solve a current problem, but does he really care about the mistake you made this time?

1. What he wants more is to see you really change, so that you two can have a future. If you give in just to solve this problem, then in the eyes of the other party, you just solve it for the sake of solving it, and you can't see the future.

2. If you are always in a high position in the relationship, he is used to being in a low position, but if you choose to bow your head and admit your mistakes because you can't find a solution, he will have a great rebound in his heart. Take advantage of this time when you are willing to bow your head and recall all your demands and accusations against her. He will give it back to you to the greatest extent this time, but in fact this state is not what she really wants.

If you have been together for a while, I still hope to cherish this relationship. In the future, you will still be in a high emotional position, but it will be better to give your partner some care and little women occasionally. Feelings need adjustment. If you choose to break up this time, the next one may not be as good as him, and there will be new problems that you can't solve.