How can my mother-in-law get along with her without grandchildren?

Almost all grandchildren are closer than their grandchildren. This traditional thought is deeply rooted. Tell a story about me. My cousin and I are in different months in the same year. According to my mother, when I was born, my grandmother also came to visit, and she was happy, but she said she was a grandson. If only she were a grandson. A few months later, menstruation gave birth to my cousin, and my grandmother loved her dearly and looked happy.

After studying, my cousin's grades are relatively poor. Later, when he was in the third grade of primary school, my aunt asked him to come to my house and go to school with me. Every weekend, my cousin asks me to accompany him home. Every time we want to buy snacks and have no money, my cousin asks me to ask grandma for them. I was too timid to go, so my cousin went, and I followed him. My grandmother gives him a piece almost every time, and I pay 50 cents. Every time she buys food, she buys it for my cousin, who gives it to me. But I never mentioned these things to my mother. At that time, I knew that I was still a grandson to my grandmother.

But I don't blame her. This is a deep-rooted traditional thought of China people. Although today's society is highly civilized, this concept is difficult to change. I take time to see her and give her some money every time I go home. The year before last, she hardly recognized me. My aunt told her, and she still remembers. She is over eighty this year. I wish her and the kind old people in the world happiness as the East China Sea and a long life.

In fact, there is no question of kissing or not. What matters is what you think. Your palms are full of meat. Is it true that your son's children are relatives and your daughter's children are not relatives? It's so biased! Two grandchildren will be treated differently! Only by sticking to that old idea can we have this view. It's like saying that boys are preferred to girls. It's like asking your grandson how he is. If they are not all children of their own family, why are they so divided? Does that mean that only girls' families will stop kissing their daughters' children? And don't talk about property. If there is a quarrel, my daughter can't be less. Don't think about these problems with old ideas. Anyway, my parents will definitely treat my children like grandchildren. It is impossible to say that they will feed their grandchildren meat. We will stand by and watch. Should we buy a house, or should our parents pay for it? If the child goes back, it will not be a baby!

Listen, look at it in the past. As an old man or grandson, as the ancients said, my nephew is fooling around.

Grandson inherited his grandfather's surname. When he joined the army, he could give him a military medal, and his grandson could repair his grave and incense him. In some families with unfilial parents. It was the grandson who propped up the beam of filial piety to grandpa.

As a grandson. Each has his own family and his own career. Each has his own grandfather, and I think it really follows the old saying of rural people. Pro-grandson earns eight views. My nephew is fooling around.

Reunion Festival and Reunion Festival are the reunion of grandchildren and grandparents, and there are few reunions between grandchildren and grandparents.

Reunion reunion back to their hometown, the younger generation and the old man did not reunite. Thank you. Because I am from the countryside, this is what I saw with my own eyes. Listen to your opinions.

Tell a joke, listen to dad, in their village, there is an old Zhang. He has a pair of children. When children grow up, they marry each other and each has a son. Lao Zhang loves his nephew because he loves his daughter dearly. One day, Lao Zhang led his grandson. Holding a nephew. When I went to play in the reservoir, I took a bath in the water because of the hot weather. Take off your clothes and dive in. In order to amuse children, you quietly put a lotus leaf on it and hid it. When the children saw Lao Zhang didn't come up for a long time, the grandson cried. Why didn't you come up? I want grandpa. As soon as my nephew saw it, he said that your grandfather was gone. Well, I went to see my grandfather, and Lao Zhang went ashore. Put on your clothes, hold your grandson, and hold your nephew.

Let me tell you a story. The old man's two daughters got married and got married, and each gave birth to a son. The old man bought his grandson 30,000+birthday gifts such as gold wares, toy cars and camp beds, as well as a set of commercial houses (written in his own name), two 250g gold bars, a 580,000 certificate of deposit and a number of other birthday gifts. The old man set up a factory! Who did you say you kissed? ! After all, the grandson is always an outsider, and the grandson belongs to his family. He is old and always depends on his grandson! Otherwise, the only daughter or two girls' son-in-law is not only for face, address, practicality, but also for providing for the elderly! The grandson is not practical in his heart, and the grandson should always be practical. Of course, there are unfilial descendants, but after all, it is a minority! So, I think, in the final analysis, it must be a relative of my grandson, just like my son-in-law

My grandfather is a cold-blooded animal through and through. He has three or four children of his own. When I was a child, my grandmother divorced him and got married in Xinjiang. He married someone else, my stepmother, and she remarried with her daughter. I call her aunt. When I was a child, in order to support my stepmother and aunt, I sent my uncle away, sent my father to the countryside to eat a hundred meals, and my aunt went to Xinjiang. When my father grew up, he worked in the factory instead of my grandfather, but the good times did not last long and he was laid off. After my father and my mother got married, they moved out of my grandfather's house in the city and lived in the countryside with my mother, because her mother is a rural hukou. My grandfather lives with my aunt, and his pension is paid to her. My father was laid off and my mother lost her job, and he never got any financial support from him. He is very kind to her children, that is, his so-called grandchildren, and he will buy whatever he wants to eat and wear. When I used to play, he gave me some fruit and sugar for his grandson. I seldom called him when I was a child. He called me a fool. Because of the hukou, my aunt followed my grandfather. Her child, my so-called second sister, was admitted to the key center of the city, went to Nankai, and finally worked in the central ministries. Because of rural hukou, I can only go to a township with poor teaching quality, and finally drop out of high school to work. If you are sensible, you will no longer go to grandpa's grave. Every time I stand in front of my father's grave, I will secretly say that my father gave birth to you and me wrong in my life!

I feel the same way about this problem! However, this is really not the case. Let me tell you a little story! One year, I was eating at my mother-in-law's house, and my son's grandfather was away. Everyone was asking, where did grandpa go? The son who is eating says: My grandfather is lost and nobody cares! It would be terrible if I lost my grandpa! I translate my son's meaning. He means that his grandfather can lose him, but his grandfather can't lose him. This is my son's psychological activity at that time. My wife and I have never been partial in educating our children, and both elderly people are equally filial. In my son's opinion, it's just different ... Now, my son has two sons. His love for grandparents is the same! Who did you say kissed who didn't?

I brought my grandson and two grandchildren, the oldest grandson, but I didn't let my son bring it himself. To be honest, I didn't feel much pain, but I didn't give him less food and drink. We both brought our grandson and my little grandson, who took it when he was one month old. His grandparents didn't give him money to buy milk powder. I went to buy milk powder on credit and then went to work to earn money to support him until he was 9 years old. Now I'm angry? Now, I'm going back to my hometown with my clothes, so I can eat snacks? Cold, I wonder if it will get better when I get older. My own grandson quarrels with him, and he will say that he loves me. Alas, grandson?

My grandparents have three children, the eldest is my uncle, the second is my aunt, and the third is my father. My uncle has two children and two women, my aunt has three sons, my father has four daughters and one son, and my aunt had difficulties before. My third cousin was brought up by my grandparents to be almost 20 years old, but he didn't help my uncle's family and my father's family for that long. It took a month at most. Now grandpa is 80 years old and grandma is 83 years old. My grandfather is now lying in bed because of illness. My third cousin came back to live for a few days when he was in hospital. Now my grandfather is at home and is taken care of by my brother and cousin. My third cousin doesn't call many times, and he didn't come back to see my grandfather during the New Year. Did you say grandson or grandson?

Tell me about me, because I'm not married yet, so it's hard to draw a conclusion about who is more close to my grandson or grandson. But I can get some answers from my grandmother's attitude towards my cousin and me when I was a child.

There are three brothers, a father and a sister. Dad is the second child in the family. Since I separated from my grandmother's family, except for one hundred yuan, two noodle pots and two bags of rice, I can say that I am as poor as a church mouse. After my parents had twins, my brother and I, life became worse, so my parents worked hard to make money and life became better and better. Later, when I grew up, my cousin (my aunt's child, two years younger than me, had a good relationship with me) came to live with my grandmother. So far, I don't know why my cousin went to school at my grandmother's house, and this stay is from grade one to grade three in primary school, for nine years. During this period, all kinds of expenses were borne by grandparents (grandpa is a retired teacher), and aunt didn't take a penny. In fact, uncles and uncles all see it in their eyes, but they just think it is their parents' money. They are willing to send flowers to their grandchildren, so it's hard to say.

The following is the key point, one thing that impressed me when I was a child. Grandma's living conditions are much better, all kinds of health products and dried fruits, instant noodles and snacks. When I was a child, I had never seen anything so good as snacks. My brother and I secretly opened several bags and wolfed them down. But grandma accidentally saw it and immediately flew into a rage and reprimanded us directly. Later, it was found that grandma salted a jar of salted duck eggs. Every time I see my cousin eating with relish, my mouth water. Steal one from the jar while I'm not looking. I'm afraid of being caught by grandma and scolded. I hid it in my pocket and flew to the back of the house to take out the duck eggs. When I opened it, I was blindsided. It turned out to be sticky egg white. Then I cried puzzled. Why is it different from my cousin's? ! Later, I heard from my cousin that I had to cook it before I could eat it! ! As far as I'm concerned, except for those things that can't be eaten at all or will soon go bad, my grandmother has hardly given me and my brother anything to eat.

There is another thing that I remember vividly and will never forget. My brother was in poor health since childhood, and his body was thin, and he often caught a cold and coughed. Sometimes I go to grandma's house to watch TV (grandma has a color TV). Grandma saw her brother cough a few times and accused him of keeping his brother away from his cousin to avoid infection. ! ! Although I was not sensible when I was a child, to be honest, we bear a grudge against grandma's partiality. After all, we are grandchildren! ! When grandparents are old, my brother and I will be filial and burn paper in front of the grave! !

In my husband's house, they are grandchildren. Since their grandson was not born, they have prepared all kinds of clothes and raised a group of chickens for the first time. After their grandchildren were born, they were all killed and sent to their daughters' homes! I finally got pregnant in the fourth year of marriage, and I didn't see any chicken feathers! I didn't prepare anything. I went shopping in the third trimester, and they followed, and they didn't forget to buy toys for their grandchildren! I never said anything or showed anything! When I gave birth to a child, I heard it was a girl ... and that day I said I would have a second child! I'm thinking that my mother-in-law complains all day about not preparing things for her children and complaining about her various grievances. Why didn't she think about what she had prepared? Is this meanness to be passed down?

Kiss your own child, whether he is close or not!