My boyfriend said he would fatten me up so that others wouldn't take me away.

If your boyfriend says he wants to fatten you up before marriage, others won't take you away. This view shows that your boyfriend loves you very much, cares about you very much and is afraid of losing you. But you must never give up on yourself. It is a good thing that he is kind to you and loves you. But if you indulge yourself blindly, don't be self-disciplined, depend on each other, can't control your mouth, can't walk away from your legs, and slowly, when you change from a carefree, innocent and charming beautiful girl to a bloated and shameful middle-aged woman, no one can predict the future at that time, and no one can guarantee whether you can keep your original intention. Because time is a butcher's knife, it will ruin everything.