My stepmother doesn't like me What should I do?

Does stepmother really dislike you? Or is it your own illusion? Let's reflect on our problems first. Stepmother and stepson are really difficult to get along with. I am a stepmother. From my point of view, I will tell you how I feel. I really hope to get along well with my stepson.

As a stepmother, there are pressures unimaginable to ordinary people, and you can't know what she has suffered. Of course, you don't have to care, but don't forget that those who put shackles on their stepmother will not choose to be stepmother themselves. In this case, a child without a mother will never have a mother again.

If you really can't get along, don't force it. If it is not your own, it is not your own. Just keep the surface fused. Of course, if it's just a face feeling, you shouldn't ask your stepmother to pay too much for you. Because it takes a lot of money and energy to maintain a family, you should not take the stepmother's contribution for granted.

A person's energy and emotion are limited. Once long-term efforts are not rewarded, her ability will be exhausted, and once exhausted, it will be difficult to reverse. Stepmother, as the lawful wife of father, bears the full responsibility of raising and educating you. You can't just eat her food and ignore her. It's shameless. Secular supervision of stepmother only requires stepmother not to bully and abuse children and not to give children the right to ask for nothing in return.

Just like me, I took care of him for many years. I had a stomachache when I went out to play, so I accompanied him to visit Chimelong Park. However, he thought I was slow and wanted to leave me there with his father and go to the front by myself. When I was sick, he was laughing and laughing outside, even telling him to keep his voice down. I am deeply afraid of such a stepson.

Your stepmother takes care of your food, clothing, housing and transportation, and worries about your study and future. Have you ever brought her a glass of water, added a bowl of rice, accompanied her to buy something once and asked her if she was tired? She remembers your birthday every year and buys you a cake. Did you send her greetings and flowers on Mother's Day? Listen, you have new clothes every year. How long has it been since she added clothes and jewelry? How long has it been since she went out to play?

In reality, it is not as terrible as it is said on the Internet. It seems that every stepmother is bad for her stepson, but it is not. Think from the stepmother's point of view, in fact, stepmother is really not easy. Even if your biological mother can always like you, can't your biological mother beat you and scold you if you are naughty? Don't look at your stepmother with colored glasses. Treat your stepmother as a friend for the time being.