Huang Lan: Sitting in If You Are the One, I was an emotional expert on stage, but my marriage broke down in private. what do you think?

I think the irony of netizens is wrong. She is an emotional expert on the show, but divorcing her husband in private doesn't mean that she hasn't handled her emotional problems well. On the contrary, it shows that she can handle her emotional problems well, because it is understandable to divorce her husband because she finds it inappropriate to be with the other side.

"If You Are the One" has gained a lot of fans since its launch, and they pay attention to this program for different purposes. In fact, one of the reasons why this program is popular is that it always analyzes the marriage and feelings of modern people incisively and vividly. Any one is a problem around young people now. They want to pursue a more perfect love, and of course they want to manage it well after they have it.

Regarding Huang Lan, of course, any program has the purpose of program effect, but this program caters to the young people now and tells a lot of feelings that the post-80s and post-90s have nowhere to tell. So it doesn't matter whether the program is a show or not. The important thing is whether you can find the same view of marriage and love on the program.

Of course, in addition to the female guests, the bigger attraction is the host Morphy and two emotional mentors. Huang Lan is beautiful and a standard beauty. In addition to her excellent appearance, her background is more exciting. She is a schoolmaster, and has studied many majors from university to master's degree, such as economics and language, so Huang Lan reveals an intellectual and intellectual aura.

And she also has a title, that is, "Deputy Director of Youth Working Committee of China TV Drama Production Industry Association". Although many people don't understand the meaning of this series of titles, it fully proves her extraordinary.

In addition, she has produced many well-known film and television dramas, such as 20 16 "Tiger Mom and Cat Dad", and won the outstanding producer award of the 26th Peony Award of Zhejiang Satellite TV. A courageous man, my first half of my life, and of course the royal love in the palace. As can be seen from these popular TV series, Huang Lan is indeed a very powerful woman, but every time she talks about her love life, it is very surprising.

Her feelings She experienced a failed marriage and got along well with her husband after marriage, but then there were problems in her marriage. Huang Lan is a strong woman. She attaches great importance to her career, so she spends a lot of time at work. In this way, there is less communication between them, and there is no communication at all when they get along. In this way, the long-term backlog of problems accumulated together, leading them to go on.

Just after giving birth to a second child, she chose to divorce. Now, she is also a divorced woman. It is hard to imagine that such an excellent woman is also a woman whose marriage failed. At this time, many people stood up and ridiculed Huang Lan, and they were still giving guidance to others on emotional issues on the stage, and their feelings were in a mess.

This is actually a wrong idea. Although Huang Lan's own marriage failed, it does not mean that she is not qualified to analyze the feelings of others. Moreover, if she hadn't experienced so many setbacks and storms, she wouldn't understand the truth of so many marriages and feelings now. This is "only those who have experienced it can see the truth of life clearly".

Conclusion This view may be biased. Everyone will experience all kinds of trivial things in his life. When you talk about life, you are not instructing anyone, but telling others the road you have taken. As an emotional mentor, I just look at some problems with the attitude of "the outsider sees the truth".

In fact, marriage and feelings are lifelong learning. Not only young people who have just got married, but even couples who have been married for a long time still have to learn how to run their own businesses. This is also the reason why If You Are the One is popular. After all, a program can only convey more value and significance if it is comprehensive.