What do you think of parents who are now forced to marry?

Why do parents like forced marriage? This topic is very interesting. At first, I laughed at others. Later, I found that I couldn't avoid this topic. When I was old, my parents' forced marriage and urging marriage would come as scheduled.

why do parents like forced marriage? In the eyes of parents, no matter what their children are like, becoming a family means that they are normal people. Be good and get married quickly!

In fact, not only parents like this, but also the so-called seven aunts and eight aunts, and maybe we are the same.

It may be said that this is an anxious topic for the whole society. Why haven't you got married and started a family? What's the matter with you? Are you abnormal? Marry and have children to form a complete family, so it seems to live like a normal person. In this way, the inner incompleteness and the inner broken heart can escape.

Perhaps this is a deeper reason than filial piety. Therefore, in the countryside and even in the city, once something goes wrong, they want to rush to celebrate, give children with incomplete psychology, society and even physiology, and cheat others, children and themselves by rushing to celebrate. This is to use the superficial facts of a complete family to escape the deep facts of fragmentation.

but the truth is, broken hearts lead to broken families, and broken families raise children with broken hearts, which is just reincarnation from generation to generation!

many parents may be overdoing it by using surface integrity to avoid internal fragmentation, but internal fragmentation is uncomfortable. In this regard, human beings should be the same.

In Poland, there is a movie about a married man who was asked out by his ex-girlfriend on Christmas Eve to help him find his missing partner! The man guessed the truth, and his ex-girlfriend was lonely and needed company! But he didn't tell the truth. He searched with her silently all night. Finally, his ex-girlfriend said that she had been alone for several Christmas Eve. If she lived alone again today, she would commit suicide. At the end of the film, it was also very warm. When the man came home, his wife was still waiting for him on the sofa, but she fell asleep. He hugged his wife in the past, and her wife woke up without a word of blame, but hugged the man tightly, as if he were the one who needed to be comforted!

Breakage is everywhere, and pain is everywhere. The Spring Festival's group year and the establishment of a family are all lonely hearts looking for links, but I hope we can really find complete happiness through marriage instead of pursuing formal integrity.