What is the most important thing for the elderly to remarry?

When the elderly remarry, it is important to see each other's health.

Second, it is important to look after children's support, third, to get a marriage certificate, fourth, to look at each other's economic foundation, and fifth, to look at each other's morality.

If you have a good eye for these five items, you will be happy when you remarry. Otherwise, never choose to remarry.

Do not get married. Both parties agree to live together, and mutual love is the most important thing. Their original family, a paper wedding date, made a complicated burden.

Personally, I think that the most important thing for the elderly to remarry is trust and mutual care (that is, companionship), because most of them have children. Because of loneliness, I will think about remarriage, otherwise why bother? [Cover your face] [Cover your face]

Personality and temper are the most important. Remarriage means talking and laughing in old age, not making noise and being in a good mood. Shopping together hand in hand, going to the park hand in hand, and dancing in the square dance, under the premise of the same taste of life, other things can basically guarantee a peaceful old age without any problems.

Health and happiness are the most important things. It is very important for them to share the same interests, help each other and care for each other.

It is very important for the elderly to remarry, have a fixed residence, be basically healthy, live at an upper-middle level and have a harmonious relationship with the old couple. If these conditions for remarriage are not met, the marriage of these old people in their later years will often not last long.

I firmly oppose the "remarriage" of the elderly, regardless of sex or health. The reason is simple-

First, people who agree with the view almost only see the good side, such as hiring a nanny for free, such as relieving the loneliness of both parties, such as having a talking partner, such as taking care of each other, and so on. There is no doubt that these are normal understandings and good wishes. I think they only exist between the original matches, or between marriages that have lasted for decades or even longer (there is not much difference between them)

Second, "to see the sun, for all his glory, buried by the coming night". This poem sums up the old man step by step and is very incisive. Many people will say, you see, he is young, just over 60 years old, in good health, living independently and holding a retirement salary. It is beautiful that his children don't depend on him (her), but don't be confused by the situation at that time. No matter how good it is, it is an old machine that is about to fall apart. You don't know when it will "break down", a year or two? How many years? Or more than ten years, or longer. In a word, all the States are going downhill, but the difference is quite big.

Third, health is the most important thing for the elderly not to remarry. Without health, let alone the elderly, even teenagers, even young people, it is hard to say that they are happy. Once there is a health problem, all the good things in the past will vanish. If the wife can really serve, the children of the two families can still be grateful. Once the disaster comes, they fly separately, which may be "enemies meet" or "spending money to buy gas". "Health problems" are a touchstone, a stumbling block and a very heavy test for any child.

Fourth, the elderly continue to "push themselves" when they remarry. For decades, they have formed a set of their own inherent habits. When they enter the ranks of the elderly, they have to "grieve themselves" and get rid of some habits, not only "unwilling", but also "pretending to be a turtle" (pretending to be happy in front of their children, not wanting to worry the younger generation, and not wanting to make jokes or complain). What is this?

In short, it is luck or blessing for the elderly to remarry. If it is good, it will be miserable if it is not good. Don't try it easily.

March 2022 12

China's married life is changing to an active lifestyle. As far as the remarriage of the elderly is concerned, it has crossed the marriage gap in their first marriage era.

In fact, this is a natural step that suits the life of the times. How to treat the remarriage of the elderly is the most important.

When is it most important for the elderly to remarry? It is the old man who has lost the dependence of single marriage! You know, with the rapid development of society, work and life are busier. It is impossible and unrealistic for the elderly and children to accompany each other day and night and take care of each other.

Therefore, the remarriage of the elderly who have lost their independence is conducive to alleviating the urgent problem of unaccompanied and unattended two elderly people who have lost their independence and enriching their lives. In this way, the two old people can have partners to take care of each other, and the children of the two old people can also make time to concentrate on their work and do their own things well. It can also reassure the younger generation!

Of course, let the two old people relive the sweetness of love. Enjoying the opposite sex feelings of the old people who help each other can inspire them to fear and love life, and feel the feeling of old age and happiness! So as to realize the psychological stability and spiritual peace of the elderly and promote their health and longevity. These are the most important facts for the elderly to remarry.

Therefore, as the children of the elderly, as both sides of society, we should spend more time with the elderly and give them a healthy heart of family dependence and trust. Let the elderly spend their old age contentedly and spend the rest of their lives happily and healthily.

I have my own ideas, and I hope to discuss them for reference.

It is most important for the elderly to remarry and cultivate their feelings, and the economic foundation is also very important. Without these two points, it is difficult to maintain a married marriage. On the other hand, it is also important for both children to support the elderly to remarry. With these important conditions, the elderly will be happy when they remarry, otherwise there will be many contradictions. 、

Good health, good character, the most important thing.