What is the psychology that some male bosses like to take female subordinates to socialize?

1, stop drinking. Generally bring female subordinates, mostly for abstinence. Because in such social occasions, drinking is essential, and it is not drunk. Most bosses have seen this deadly drinking occasion, and it is easy to get drunk if you don't drink enough.

I have participated in such occasions many times. The boss got drunk many times and finally called the female subordinate of the unit. In fact, before I called, I agreed with my beautiful colleague that you should come out to stop drinking, otherwise you really can't go back. Sure enough, on the wine table, when the boss was advised to drink too much, beautiful colleagues stood up and blocked a few waves. The men tried to get the beautiful woman drunk, and in the end they all got drunk.

In fact, women really need to let go of drinking. Drinking is much more powerful than men.

2, showing that there are many beautiful women in the unit. Another possibility is that the boss brings beautiful subordinates into his vanity. On the one hand, it shows that there are many beautiful women in the unit, on the other hand, it also shows that you have absolute control over beautiful subordinates and can highlight your sense of accomplishment.

At the same time, on the wine table, men will inevitably talk about beautiful women. If they bring a unique beauty on the wine table, not only will their vanity be satisfied, but other bosses and leaders will also make fun of them, say some dirty jokes, and even associate themselves with beautiful women's subordinates, and they will feel flattered.

3. Build personal relationships. To put it bluntly, it is more convenient for beautiful women to establish personal relationships. On the wine table, mostly old men. They call in beautiful women, use them as a link, establish personal relationships with big bosses, and may even set up a honey trap to let other bosses who can use them automatically take the bait, which will facilitate the future development and utilization of resources.

4. Cultivate beautiful women. If you think this beautiful woman is capable, smart and loyal to yourself, then you will try your best to develop her, push her to an important position, work for the convenience in the future, cultivate her contacts, get to know your boss, and facilitate her to get through with them in the future. You will naturally bring her and introduce her on the wine table, with the aim of vigorously cultivating loyal female subordinates.

5. Strengthen public relations. This is also important, probably for public relations. On some wine tables, it is very likely that they are bosses who master the future public opinion or management destiny of their own units, and most of the beautiful women in their own units are responsible for public relations, so they can be invited to meet these important responsible persons who decide the future destiny of their own units.

For example, if the unit has negative news and is caught in the cusp of public opinion, it is essential to deal with relevant media. If you know the leaders of these media units on the wine table, you can bend the rules and reduce or cancel the bad reports on the units.

6. Active atmosphere. There is another situation, the wine table is full of old men, talking about topics other than career, that is, women and so on. The topic may be single and boring, and it will be meaningless after a long time. If you invite an open and uninhibited beauty, you can not only enliven the atmosphere on the wine table, but also make fun of the beauty and say some dirty jokes, so that eating on the wine table will not be so silent and monotonous.

Moreover, most of the beautiful women who are willing to participate in this kind of entertainment are happy to be teased by the bosses and to be the focus of their attention. This is also the scene that most material women expect, because what many people dream of is the boss's private wine table, and they want to meet rich and powerful people through this opportunity. If there is such an opportunity, beautiful women will not fart.

What's more, nine of the ten beautiful women are materialistic, and money worships women and advocates the supremacy of material money. They are happy to attend such social gatherings and are willing to be teased by rich people.

Haha, everyone who has been socializing knows that if there are no girls at dinner, especially beautiful unmarried girls, it is difficult to get high. If unmarried girls attend, the dinner will be full of fun and climax, and the girls who are constantly provoked by various artistic languages will be warm in their hearts. This is the hobby of greasy middle-aged men!

There are usually five reasons for male bosses to socialize with female subordinates:

1, cooking

Female subordinates are the food that people who attend dinner. During the dinner, everyone teased and joked in various languages, and the atmosphere was very high. With the atmosphere, everything is easy.

Step 2 make vases

If the female subordinates are beautiful, they can take them out to watch, and when they socialize, they will be accompanied by a beautiful subordinate, which will make the boss look good. Otherwise, two men are under too much pressure to talk.

3. shield

When socializing, if they are all men, they usually go to some indecent places after drinking, but it is easy to bring a female subordinate, and the other party will be more formal.

Step 4 have a job

Some female subordinates are really powerful, thoughtful and pay attention to details. If the boss goes alone and drinks too much, he will inevitably forget something. Female subordinates can remind him.

Step 5 accompany guests

Needless to say, this is to accompany wine, food and so on. Generally speaking, it is to coax guests and cheer them up. What kind of list and contract are not a problem.

Step 6 be selfish

The boss doesn't bring other subordinates, male subordinates don't, and female subordinates do. This is to focus on training. This is the first selfishness. Of course, it does not rule out that the boss wants to be alone with his female subordinates. This is the second selfishness.

In short, male bosses take female subordinates to socialize. If the female subordinates are beautiful and unmarried, they are basically the first and sixth. Occasionally it may be the fifth, and the fourth is the least likely!

Male bosses like to take female subordinates to socialize. Generally, they will bring young, beautiful, cheerful and sociable female subordinates. Seeing this, you will understand what his psychology is.

First of all, the male boss satisfies his psychological needs, because the young, beautiful and even sexy woman is around, and the male boss will be elated and have a desire for love. In enterprises, because they are all from their own units, in order to maintain their dignity, male bosses will pretend to be serious in front of female subordinates and take them to socialize. First, it is more eye-catching. Second, it's fun to say something relaxed or even provocative. Third, if the male boss is a very sexy person, he can take advantage of the female subordinates.

The second and most important point, because most men are lewd, bringing beautiful, sexy and open-minded female subordinates to talk often attracts customers and makes business easy. On the wine table, it is also to enhance the so-called feelings for female subordinates to persuade customers to drink more wine.

Thirdly, it is a vanity for a male boss to take a female subordinate to socialize, with a little nouveau riche mentality, and he feels that he has face and high status with young and beautiful women around him. In fact, this is the performance of a vulgar person. A truly aristocratic man doesn't need to bring a female subordinate to block the facade.

Entertainment can be said to be indispensable in the workplace. In film and television works, there are often scenes where women hold wine glasses for entertainment, which is by no means imaginary. Because in reality, it is very common for male bosses to like to take female subordinates to socialize. As for what psychology this is, some scholars think it is the following:

0 1 face

Everyone loves face and has vanity. Those successful, rich and powerful male bosses care more about face. From a psychological point of view, male bosses like to take female subordinates to socialize, precisely because of the face problem.

There is a female friend who is handsome and beautiful. The key is that she speaks very sweetly and is born with a clever mouth.

I often hear her talk about it. Every time the company has an entertainment, the boss will call her. Later, a beautiful young girl and a girl with strong business ability came to the unit.

After that, the two new girls "joined" the boss's team to socialize. Every time the boss introduces them, his face is full of pride. The subtext is "Look at me, I am surrounded by beautiful women who can do things".

In fact, a good-looking woman can really be pleasing to the eye. Beautiful women stand next to men and have a different sense of existence. Careful observation shows that not all female subordinates can be taken out of the entertainment circle. Generally, there are only two kinds, one is beautiful and the other is beautiful. Therefore, the "standard" of male bosses with people just illustrates this kind of psychology.

You Shujun has worked for ten years, but she has never gone out to socialize with her boss. Please comfort! !

02 unemployment

Entertainment belongs to entertainment, but work still needs to be discussed. There is no denying that many bosses still like to talk about business while eating.

Since it is a work-oriented social interaction, of course, it is not just to "show off" beautiful women, but more to focus on work.

Some surveys show that women are more acceptable and have a higher success rate when talking about business. First of all, women are softer than men, so it is easier to enliven the atmosphere. Women are more likely to talk about emergencies or embarrassing situations when eating. For example, if the other person is male or female, it is more appropriate to bring a female subordinate. If the other person is male, it is generally not difficult for women; If the other person is a woman, women are more likely to talk to women. Secondly, women generally don't drink much and are not easily forced to drink, so the probability of getting drunk is low, which is more helpful for business negotiations.

On the contrary, if you bring a male subordinate, the situation is the opposite. If you meet another poor drinker, the scene will be difficult to control.

Therefore, from the point of view of work, it is more appropriate to take female subordinates to socialize than to take male subordinates, which is also more conducive to work.

Out of selfishness

There is no denying that some male bosses take female subordinates to socialize for personal reasons.

For example, in order to flatter each other, please each other, and get along with female subordinates more ... because of selfishness, it is not easy to make excuses at ordinary times. In the name of entertainment, it is called "promotion" and "promotion", but it is selfish.

Shujun knows a female friend who is engaged in fine arts. She complained that every time she went to dinner, her boss invited her. Although she made it clear that she didn't want to attend, the boss insisted on her going.

And every time at the dinner table, let her propose a toast to others, saying that she likes your paintings and flatters. There are a lot of such news on the Internet.

04 personal preference

There is nothing to say about personal preference. Just like men like beautiful women and women like handsome men, this is human nature. Some male bosses just like to take women, which has become a habit over time.

It seems that some male bosses like to take their female subordinates to socialize, both for work reasons and personal reasons. But I hope that no matter what kind of psychology and reasons, whether it is a boss or a subordinate, we should straighten our position and correct our attitude. Because, whether it is the road to the workplace or the road to life, it is more than just a social interaction.

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Under normal circumstances, bosses or male bosses like to bring female subordinates to socialize together. There are only three kinds of psychology:

1, pleasing to the eye. Be sure to pay attention to the preconditions. A male boss or a female subordinate brought by a male boss will be very beautiful. If it's not beautiful, he won't bring it. Since it is beautiful, it is pleasing to the eye. This is the so-called delicious food. Even if there is nothing, it is a pleasure to have beautiful women to drink with you, just like why all kinds of wineries must have women to accompany you. In ancient times, princes and nobles and rich children also liked to be served by women when drinking, so they should feel the same way.

2. Take the opportunity to hijack. Female subordinates are beautiful, and everyone likes beautiful women. If the male boss or boss doesn't have a wife, he can take the opportunity to develop the relationship between husband and wife. If he has, he can drink together and take advantage. I even have the opportunity to develop into a lover relationship and earn my own pocket. Isn't it beautiful?

3. Public relations. Since beautiful women like themselves, other men will certainly like them. Then take her with you when we talk about things, and drink together in the wine field. In addition to pleasing customers, it can also stimulate interest. Plus beautiful women can say a few words to make men happy, or men and women flirt together. It's done. The contract has been signed and the order has been obtained. This is the charm of beauty, sometimes worth thousands of troops.

Bringing a beautiful secretary with gold on her face all evolved from studying TV and movies. Many families have a headache for this, and everyone knows that women are jealous. Anyway, what's it like to bring a male secretary to join us? You don't have to tell me to know what's going on inside. . . . .

First face, take a beautiful female subordinate out to have face and satisfy your vanity.

The second unspoken rule is that it is easy to cooperate with a beautiful female subordinate.

Third, out of social needs, you can help yourself drink or drive and deal with some things.

The fourth is to support the venue and create an atmosphere. Especially sociable female subordinates, can drive the atmosphere better.

Of course, there are other skeletons in the closet, such as eating employee tofu.

In any case, female subordinates must learn to protect themselves when attending such a wine bureau dinner.

In order to achieve a certain goal, do something you don't want to do, but you have to do it. For your own related interests (such as business, work and position), go to some places you don't want to go, do something you don't want to do, say something you don't want to say, and meet some people you don't want to see. This is workplace entertainment, and workplace entertainment can't be separated from the wine bureau.

Some male bosses take female subordinates to socialize because girls are more careful and will observe. In case of forgetting something, or forgetting what to say and who to see, the female subordinate will think everything for the boss at this time.

The boss likes the care and eye contact of female subordinates. Besides, female subordinates usually work very hard and take their work seriously. The boss really needs the assistance of this kind of capable, charming and talkative female subordinate when socializing, so as to lay the foundation for future cooperation.

Another situation is to take female subordinates to socialize, on the one hand, let her see the interpersonal relationship and potential partners in the workplace, on the other hand, there are ladies around, and for the sake of face, professionals often reach some cooperation for beautiful ladies.

In TV series, female employees often block a few glasses of wine for the boss and say a few nice words, which will be easy to achieve. If they meet a good leader or boss after socializing, they will be promoted and raised if they do well. If they meet that kind of playboy boss, they must stay awake when socializing and don't try to make him achieve a certain goal.

Psychology is as follows:

First, stop drinking.

Generally, most female subordinates are brought to give up drinking, because drinking in this entertainment place is essential, and it is not drunk. Most bosses have seen this deadly drinking place, and it is easy to get drunk if you don't drink enough.

Second, vanity.

Bringing beautiful women subordinates, on the one hand, shows that there are many beautiful women in the unit, on the other hand, shows that you have absolute control over beautiful women subordinates, which can highlight your sense of accomplishment.

At the same time, on the wine table, men will inevitably talk about beauty and women. If they bring a unique female subordinate on the wine table, not only will their vanity be satisfied, but other bosses or leaders will also make fun of them, tell some jokes, and even associate themselves with female subordinates, and they will feel flattered.

Third, training.

If you think this female subordinate is capable, smart and loyal to herself, then you will make great efforts to develop her and push her to an important position to facilitate her future work. It will also cultivate contacts for female subordinates and get to know bosses from all walks of life to facilitate future work.

Fourth, establish personal relationships.

To put it bluntly, it is more convenient to establish contacts with female subordinates.

On the wine table, most of them are men. They call their female subordinates and use her as a link to establish personal relationships with bosses from all walks of life. They may even set up a honey trap, so that the boss they can use can automatically take the bait, which is convenient for the future development and utilization of resources.

Fifth, strengthen public relations.

This is also very important, probably for public relations. On some wine tables, it is likely that they are the bosses who control the future public opinion or manage the fate of their own units, and most of the female subordinates in their own units are responsible for public relations work, so they are called in to meet these important responsible persons who decide the future fate of their own units.

An active atmosphere of intransitive verbs

The wine table is full of old people. In addition to talking about career and beauty, the topic may be simple and boring, and the reception may be over after a long time.

If you invite extroverted and uninhibited beautiful women, you can not only enliven the atmosphere on the wine table, but also make fun of them and tell jokes, so that the atmosphere on the wine table will not be so silent and monotonous.

Most of it is vanity, and another is business.

Show the charm of men, the second is to control opponents, the third is to give up drinking, and the fourth is to get drunk with female subordinates to take advantage. People who really talk about business, do business first, then drink, force to drink, management and personality are not good, and bankruptcy is a matter of time. During the Spring and Autumn Period in history, Zhao was greedy for wine and urged it to revitalize Zhao. In the Three Kingdoms of the Later Han Dynasty, Zhang Fei made trouble by drinking, beat Lu Bu's father-in-law, lost Xuzhou, and lost his life because of drinking. General Chun, a subordinate of Yuan Shao, was addicted to alcohol, so he lost Wu Chao's commissary and his own life. In the late Qing Dynasty, the men of King Li Chuang also got into trouble because of drinking.