I hope you don't take me as a joke.

In the vast world, people come and go, and all beings are destined to go. In this world of mortals, it is inevitable to deal with all kinds of people. In the journey of life, there will always be countless connections between people, either passing by, accompanying a journey, or waiting for a lifetime.

However, people in communication are different in conduct and character, some are sincere, some are kind, some are cunning, and some are black-bellied. Therefore, in life, you may meet sincere and kind friends, or you may meet double-faced and secretive villains.

Some people, who seem kind and gentle on the surface, calculate people like fools behind their backs; Some people, seemingly impulsive and reckless, regard people as relatives. But people's hearts are sensitive, and no one is really stupid. Doesn't mean you don't know anything.

0 1, good or bad, there is a steelyard in your heart.

Some people say that the most chilling thing in this world is: "there is nothing like treating you as a confidant, but you treat me as a joke;" I treat you like a friend, but you treat me like a fool. "How sad it sounds, but how realistic. The biggest fear in getting along with people is that enthusiasm is ignored and trust is used. It's really disappointing.

In life, such things abound, but they are definitely not rare. Some people always think they are smart, like to play tricks and hurt others with their kindness and trust. Then I look innocent. I didn't mean to. I did it for your own good.

However, he forgot that no one in this world is really stupid, but others care about each other's feelings and don't care about him. Do others really know whether you are sincere or false to others? He knows everything, not that he didn't see the clue, but that he pretended not to see it.

Many times, the choice of forbearance and impenetrability is to avoid embarrassing each other. You know, everyone has a steelyard in his heart, and it is clear at a glance who is good and who is bad, who is true and who is false. You know, the people you can bully are those who are willing to bully you.

No one is stupid, just willing to play dumb for you. Let you not be afraid of you, but care about you; Being nice to you is not what you want, but cherishing you. If you take others' care and cherish for granted, do not cherish, and are not sincere, then your heart will cool again, and your feelings will be strange again for a long time.

02. I cherish those who cherish me.

As we all know, being a man pays attention to "reciprocity", and we should treat a man as he deals with you, instead of being indecent. Only others are kind to you, but you don't know how to give back. Over time, others are unwilling to stick a hot face on your cold ass and do thankless things.

There is a good saying: "I cherish everyone who is kind to me, because I know he can't do it." I am convinced that no one in this world should treat you well for granted. It is a responsibility to be good for you and not good for you. Others treat you well, cherish and be grateful.

You know, feelings can't be supported by only one person. Only when both sides pay can it last, and cherish each other can it last forever. Sooner or later, the feelings that one party pays and the other party absorbs will gradually alienate under unequal conditions, and eventually the feelings will fade away and slowly dissipate.

The communication between people is often "a peach reciprocates a plum". You are good to me, and I can be good to you. You are cold to me, and I can't be warm to you forever. Just like boiled water, if you can't keep warm, it will naturally cool down slowly.

The communication between people depends on one heart; Love and love exchange, all by one reason. You are sincere, and so am I; You cherish me, and I will naturally cherish you; If you treat me like a fool, will I hold you in my hand? The feelings between people, cherish only what is worth having, and sincerity can last for a long time.

03, bully me, I dislike it.

Life is like a mirror, it will treat you as you treat it. You smile at it, and it smiles back at you; You cry to it, and it cries to you. The same is true with people. You put the other person in your heart, and the other person will put you in your heart. If you cheat each other, they will treat you wrong.

What you do is not unknown to others, but you care about this situation and don't want to make it clear. Therefore, don't take advantage of others' kindness to you to push your luck and perfunctory deception. After a long time, it will only make the other party more and more chilling and gradually alienate their feelings.

You know, cheating can only be temporary, not forever. When the lie is exposed, the feelings will come to an end and cannot be redeemed. As Keigo Higashino said, once the heart leaves, it will never come back. Some people, when they turn around, are forever.

A temporary deception can be considered as well-intentioned or unintentional, but it is difficult to justify a continuous deception. Always cheating is always chilling. If you don't cherish it, you will lose it sooner or later. If you don't cherish the person who is really good to you, you will lose him sooner or later.

Between people, it is actually a journey of changing hearts. You are sincere, I am sincere; You are fake, I am fake. If you don't cherish my sincerity, I will discard your falsehood sooner or later; I hold you in my palm, and you treat me like a fool. I can only take back my goodness and give it to those who deserve it.

I am not stupid. Don't treat me like a fool.

In this world, no one is a fool, but everyone has different attachment to feelings. Some people, because they care too much, are willing to play dumb and just be happy for you. However, even if you play dumb, you need limits and want feedback. Without feedback, it will disappear sooner or later.

If you care about me, I will care about you doubly; If you cherish me, I will be doubly kind to you; If you leave me cold, I will leave you slowly; If you abandon me, I will make everything zero. Nobody is stupid. I know whether you mean it or not.

I love and cherish those who treat me as a treasure, treat me as a joke and cheat me. I am not rare; If you treat me like a fool and ignore me, I won't pester you. I'm not stupid. Don't treat me like a fool. Whoever is sincere to me and attentive to me, I will treat her attentively, cherish her, cherish her and spoil her!